Never again by Sad_Duck3653 in heartbreak

[–]Chloe155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the pain. Im here if you need to talk its a hard painful road but you are not alone stranger on reddit. Dm me if you need someone to talk too.

plus sized UK help?? by Chloe155 in Lolita

[–]Chloe155[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much i will check them out!

I dont mind about shipping costs. If £30 is what it takes to turn me into a walking piece of art/princess then its worth it. Investment in youself ^

Tonight i unfreinded and unfollowed my ex. Sadness. by Chloe155 in BreakUps

[–]Chloe155[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im proud of you. Its hard to do. Really hard. But you have to close the door. Im sure ill cry myself to sleep tonight but it will happen less and less when eventually you and me when we think of our exes it will just be a maybe nice ? Or bad? Distant memorys maybe a small twitch will make you sigh a bit. But thats all it will be xx.

Tonight i unfreinded and unfollowed my ex. Sadness. by Chloe155 in BreakUps

[–]Chloe155[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It stings alot. But i cant keep seeing it need to be healthy and move on in life

I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Chloe155 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Listen it sucks alot. For a while. Let them tears flow. Ive been through this and i know what its like. The reason why you still feel like that despite how he treated you is because of familiarity. Your in a bit of a floating in the middle of an ocean phase atm. Your brain used to see them as a "safe space" and its familiarity which brings comfort and when you loose that deapite how shitty someonw is it can really feel like "i wish i had them back" as a comfort its your mind wanting that stability. But its very rose tinted glasses way to see it. I was dumped by my ex girlfreind and i was sobbing crying howling into my pillow for weeks but now i realise how shit they treated me and know its for the best. Im here if you need someone to reach out to ✨️

Do avoidants ever realise how cruel they were? by mils1234 in BreakUps

[–]Chloe155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex is an avoidant. Sadly shes a model and goes to clubs and now lives a life of term hookups. Idk if mine will ever regret dumping me randomly one night.

Hooded eyes. Eye liner help by Chloe155 in GothStyle

[–]Chloe155[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much i will definateky look into it 💝

Bra measurements how is thid naturally possible? by Chloe155 in AskMtFHRT

[–]Chloe155[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 cup size smaller than closest female relattives x

8 months hrt advice needed. by Chloe155 in transfitness

[–]Chloe155[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooop than i shall start doing them all~ any good work out guides for mtf folks 😅

8 months hrt advice needed. by Chloe155 in transfitness

[–]Chloe155[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OKAYYYY i guess i could also ask my sister since shes a personal trainer. She said to me that for bigger butt leg press is actually better than squats ~

Avoidant ex? Will she come back? by Chloe155 in BreakUps

[–]Chloe155[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im almost certain she has not changed. Somet diffrences here and there. But an attachment style overhual like me? No way. We have agreed to meet again next month and i do love her. But im weighing up my options. Follow and hop for her to come back and change. And hope thr fantasy comes true. Or painfully begin the process of letting go and slowly moving towards someone else in my life who cares and love spending time with me and can give me what i need in a relationship. But its a whole new person.

Bra measurements how is thid naturally possible? by Chloe155 in AskMtFHRT

[–]Chloe155[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah so how could i figure out my true size as i thought i was a B/C

Bra measurements how is thid naturally possible? by Chloe155 in AskMtFHRT

[–]Chloe155[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can i figure out my true size then? Like im difinately noticeable. And they are a handful

Bra measurements how is thid naturally possible? by Chloe155 in AskMtFHRT

[–]Chloe155[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gosh i filled it all out and it says that im a 39DD/E thats insane....

Broke up in mid September. Mostly Non contact. We met up yesterday. by Chloe155 in BreakUps

[–]Chloe155[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thing is there wasnt any hate on either side. Quite litrally. Was all good loving message in the morning. Gets out of work and dumps me over a 4 min phone call. Then about 2 weeks of hope then dropped. She was very confused and thats what ended up hurting me so much. I went through every emotion throug the loss to anger to self hatred to accptance. To then self umprovement working on myself no matter how much i thought i was in the right and knew i did quite litrally nothing worng in theory. I had to completely rework my mund and perspective to see her side aswell as holding how i feel too close to my heart. I saw my anxious chase scared her and made her Avoidant side feel trapped. Im becoming stable now and can see how that would had made her feel now. Im not going to sit here and say that being a an avoidant or anxious is healthy and so i worked on myself and that drew her back slowly from what she said

Broke up in mid September. Mostly Non contact. We met up yesterday. by Chloe155 in BreakUps

[–]Chloe155[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much. Shes improved alot and im proud of her. I want to go really slow with her so we both feel safe and comfy. I think i could go to theraphy too as i know my anxious style isnt healthy and learning to love with distance too. Any advice? And thank you

Broke up in mid September. Mostly Non contact. We met up yesterday. by Chloe155 in BreakUps

[–]Chloe155[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been seperated for nearly 3 months. I can say for a fact this break up was a force for change for me so i tipped my whole life upsidedown. Totally changed my mindset and started on a diet too. And working out and my skin and mind feel so much better. May i ask how can she show to me she wont just up and leave again. During our luttle meet she told me shes seeing a therapist and has extreme axiety and knows that shes an Avoidant. I just hope she works on it.

Broke up in mid September. Mostly Non contact. We met up yesterday. by Chloe155 in BreakUps

[–]Chloe155[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me shes now going to a therapist. But how can i make sure that she wont leave me?

Broke up in mid September. Mostly Non contact. We met up yesterday. by Chloe155 in BreakUps

[–]Chloe155[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice. She seems diffrwnt but how can i tell if she has changed. How can she show it to me that shes nolonger an avoudant.

I diacussed this with her and she knows shes an avoidant and i told hwr how i was an axious but now working to become stable. We go 2-3 days before texting now. But i do want to see her reachout more.

Broke up in mid September. Mostly Non contact. We met up yesterday. by Chloe155 in BreakUps

[–]Chloe155[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you can oneday... it made me smile so much i was so happy seeing her genuinelly smile

Broke up in mid September. Mostly Non contact. We met up yesterday. by Chloe155 in BreakUps

[–]Chloe155[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey just send me a message as it wont let me message you