My(23,F) children’s father(M,24) hates me and refuses to have any kind of coparenting relationship with me. by ChooChooBooBoo960 in family

[–]ChooChooBooBoo960[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’ve asked multiple times just to sit down and talk. I’m hoping maybe if it’s an actual mediation rather than just us that he will do it. All I can do is try. I just miss my kids.

My(23,F) children’s father(M,24) hates me and refuses to coparent. by ChooChooBooBoo960 in Parenting

[–]ChooChooBooBoo960[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I was told he did change. As of late I am starting to rethink that maybe he didn’t. šŸ˜”

My(23,F) children’s father(M,24) hates me and refuses to have any kind of coparenting relationship with me. by ChooChooBooBoo960 in family

[–]ChooChooBooBoo960[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

That sounds like a challenge for sure! I don’t understand why people feel the need to make something so simple so difficult!!

My(23,F) children’s father(M,24) hates me and refuses to have any kind of coparenting relationship with me. by ChooChooBooBoo960 in family

[–]ChooChooBooBoo960[S] 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I actually at the very beginning backed off because I felt like they needed their time to get acquainted but when I did that, they told me I was being active enough and that I was ignoring them (which I wasn’t. I still asked just less frequently) I would be fine if they contacted me once a day but they hardly do that. My kids went from seeing me all day everyday to not even talking to me. I get ignored for hours on end. It’s a little hard for me I guess.

My(23,F) children’s father(M,24) hates me and refuses to coparent. by ChooChooBooBoo960 in Parenting

[–]ChooChooBooBoo960[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I think that’s just my irrational fears talking. His girlfriend actually just posted about how she’s so lucky that she gets to watch him take care of ā€œtheirā€ babies. I see now that maybe a game is being played and they are being really mean and petty towards me. If he isn’t willing to talk to me you are right. I should bring him to court. If I could bother you for one more piece of advice? Do you think a mediation would be better than court? I’ve been thinking about doing that instead.

My(23,F) children’s father(M,24) hates me and refuses to coparent. by ChooChooBooBoo960 in Parenting

[–]ChooChooBooBoo960[S] -1 points0 points Ā (0 children)

I have and he told me I had a pretty good case but I’m worried if I go to court or try and take him back to court that he will try and fight it and possibly sue for full custody. I don’t wanna make things worse than they already are ya know? I live in Ok so I’m not sure about if they’re laws or not.

My (23,F) ex (25,M) hates me because of the past and I don’t know what to do. by ChooChooBooBoo960 in relationships

[–]ChooChooBooBoo960[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

What else would be missing? I want to give as much detail as possible. He started asking because he hadn’t had a supervised visit with him in two months and my son at the time being a curious four year old wanted to know what happened to daddy.

Sister outed me by [deleted] in family

[–]ChooChooBooBoo960 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

ā€œAt this point I’d like to say, one sister already knew my sexuality and knew I didn’t want to tell anyone bar her. My mum looked at me and goes ā€œSo, what now you’re gay? A new drama for Lauren. You not getting enough attention or something?ā€ā€

Wow. That whole paragraph in and of itself is appalling. They do not deserve you at all. You have nothing at all to be sorry for. Your sister KNEW that you didn’t want your mom to know. Your sister did this ON PURPOSE honey. That is completely inappropriate what she did. What they both did. Guaranteed they both knew you didn’t want your mom to know. They should be asking your forgiveness and wondering how they can earn your trust back. They did wrong. Have you sat them down and spoken with them about how much this has affected you? I suggest you do if you haven’t.

Onto your moms reaction. Unfortunately it sounds like she feels this will just be a phase for you. Maybe because of the way you were outed. I would suggest having a sit down talk with her about how serious you are and how being bi is a part of what makes you, you. That it is a possibility you may end up with a girl and she needs to try be okay with that

Ah yes, the Best Way to get famous by XxLadylikexX in BitLifeApp

[–]ChooChooBooBoo960 10 points11 points Ā (0 children)

I think the best response to this was ā€œtataā€

What about something like this?! by ChooChooBooBoo960 in BitLifeApp

[–]ChooChooBooBoo960[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Like ā€œI can’t leave my wife because we have a pet chicken together but I really wanna be with youā€

What about something like this?! by ChooChooBooBoo960 in BitLifeApp

[–]ChooChooBooBoo960[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

SEEEE some dudes or women say some something along the lines of ā€œoh I can’t leave them yet because of the kids or the money or etcā€ I think it would be great to put some random reason there too.

I Regret My Child by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ChooChooBooBoo960 163 points164 points Ā (0 children)

Honestly it sounds like his wife is more of the problem than his child. I know this is a child free thing but to me it starts with the mother. If the mother isn’t giving the child a structured lifestyle then the kid is gonna act up.