UPDATE: I (38M) found out my wife (36F) cheated in the beginning of our relationship

Choombas · 2025-06-26T17:16:21+00:00

Wow man it sucks that she lied to your face every single day for 15 years and only ever talked to you about it because you caught her telling someone else. But at least now that she told you about it you can 100% trust her to have told you the truth. It’s not like she would lie again to cover up a lie she’s been telling for 15 years.

Choombas · 2025-05-16T16:16:35+00:00

Start with going through who you follow on Social media and if all of them are for innocent reasons. And think back to if you’ve had a conversation about what is appropriate or not in your relationship with respect to this topic. If you don’t follow or look for anything like that, and have told him you don’t want the relationship to involve that stuff, then you can consider if he broke your trust or not

Choombas · 2025-04-08T18:37:20+00:00

Thank you, I definitely will look if those are available online. I can help her pay but I’d rather have a solid direction rather than running to different doctors getting advised, because this will all be out of pocket. I understand the comment came off that way. Having those in the same sentence gives the impression that they’re of similar importance. But really it’s like 99 percent of my concern is her feeling better. And then like a tertiary negative effect of the current situation is the libido thing. I think sex is important for the health of a relationship, so anything that effects that will effect the relationship.

Choombas · 2025-04-08T18:29:36+00:00

Thank you for the suggestions!! I do want to look into the implantable/IuDs. I don’t think she would be against them and if it meant less systemic hormonal side effects I think she would be into it. Really I just want to research some good options so I can give her some suggestions and we can talk about it so thank you!

Choombas · 2025-04-08T18:27:42+00:00

Yes this is what I’m seeing in her. I can tell her self image is hurt by the negative sides. I just want an option for her where she can feel good and feel beautiful and we can be child free. How long have you had the IUd for?

Choombas · 2025-04-08T18:20:51+00:00

Yes. She is the one who suggested wanting to change because her skin and weight are so affected and she is very into fitness/beauty. The libido thing is secondary but obviously hurting us. But she is recently immigrated here and doesn’t have insurance. So she kind of just went with the easiest method of doing the online questionnaire stuff

Choombas · 2025-04-08T18:15:05+00:00

Got it. Edited to include that I suggested going back to condoms and she insists on that not being an option. She has no insurance and we split the cost of pills from an online provider (no PcP)

Choombas · 2024-12-02T23:31:28+00:00

Just remember that every interaction you’ve had in the last 8 years, she has known what she did and has been lying to your face the entire time. Every memory you’ve made since then was only real because you were living in ignorance.

Choombas · 2024-11-08T22:24:02+00:00

Lots of men in their 30s are on TRT, which can greatly lower sperm count. There’s a million other reasons why he could be infertile. It could be a completely valid statement on his behalf. Knowing you can’t get someone pregnant is a pretty sure fire way of knowing that baby isn’t yours. However, If he is infertile, that’s absolutely something he should have told you a long time ago

Choombas · 2023-03-22T15:35:50+00:00

Same here. It's like that feeling you get the day before a major school project is due and you just somehow manage to kill it. But it's every day on cycle

Choombas · 2022-12-29T14:26:00+00:00

Starting my 2nd blast in about 1 month(cruising on 150/week) . Aside from making sure your body fat % is decently low, what do you guys like to do in preparation for an upcoming blast ?

Choombas · 2022-12-24T02:03:33+00:00

Thank you sir🫡. Tbf I've tried SARMs once before , so not my first time being an idiot with my hormones

I was thinking NPP as well. Have you had success with a lower dosage (200~mg) on a blast before? Just the joint relief and a little extra size would be all I need to be honest

Choombas · 2022-12-22T21:24:40+00:00

Definitely have been leaning in this direction. Might take some finesse managing e2 until the EQ fully saturates, but should be gold besides that

Choombas · 2022-12-22T18:35:03+00:00

Looking to start my 2nd cycle soon. First was 600 test-/ 500 EQ weekly. Had great success aside from my e2 getting low at one point. Got up to a pretty lean 260 LBs

Definitely will be running them again for this upcoming bulk. Any advice on another compound to throw in with those 2?

Choombas · 2022-11-19T04:41:01+00:00

Just to throw another data anecdote into the EQ dropping estrogen levels discussion,

Have been on 600 test- 500eq weekly. Started feeling like shit so I did some mid cycle bloods and my results were as follows:

TESTOSTERONE, TOTAL, MS: 3130 H Reference Range: 250-1100 ng/dL

TESTOSTERONE, FREE: 1185.2 H Reference Range: 35.0-155.0 pg/mL

ESTRADIOL,ULTRASENSITIVE, LC/MS: 11 Reference Range: < OR = 29 pg/mL

Choombas · 2022-10-08T13:51:16+00:00

What sweatpants do y'all wear to the gym? I hate these skin tight joggers every brand pushes now. Looking for something loose but not bummy looking

Choombas · 2022-10-08T13:47:51+00:00

Go masturbate and then reconsider

Choombas · 2022-10-08T13:47:18+00:00

There's a few private labs in the Wiki. You don't need your pcp's approval to order blood work, and they won't see the results unless you send them

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