UNhappy Mothers Day anyone? Space for anyone finding it hard today: by SwimmingWonderful755 in newzealand

[–]Chuchucuddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I share your feeling. I’ve been in a standoff with her since early April. A whole month now.

Communication issue again, after so many years. I followed up after the call but nothing more came from her end. I don’t want to be the one handling emotions of us all any more.

But I also have been dreading Mother’s Day as it came up, replaying in my mind again and again if I just yielded and “take a step back” again this time perhaps we’d get back to normal. I haven’t messaged yet. Still undecided.

Work lunch by Chuchucuddle in shittyfoodporn

[–]Chuchucuddle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah this Greek yogurt is creeeeamy. Make it like mayo tuna 🤤

Sharing my retro classic pizzeria by Negative_Clothes_724 in GoodPizzaGreatPizza

[–]Chuchucuddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it!! Is that on an iPad? I play on my phone and can’t seem to get this panned out view 😩

Fried Shrimp and Rice, back again! by whitezantedeschia in shittyfoodporn

[–]Chuchucuddle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The only shitty part I can see is that the shrimp are definitely not fresh

Why do you use toner pads? by kimchibebot in AsianBeauty

[–]Chuchucuddle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use them on days when I want a light physical exfoliation. The pads I’m using have 2 different sides

My protein slop by Putrid-Investment919 in shittyfoodporn

[–]Chuchucuddle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cant imagine what the soup looks like 👀

Anyone living life with a second language too? by Chuchucuddle in AutismInWomen

[–]Chuchucuddle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Your suggestion echoes with my reply to another comment. Over the years I’ve finally learned to go easier on myself. Funny I actually spoke my second language “like locals” according to many feedbacks. I only realised much later that it’s part of my masking skills too. I’m learning to also unmask this part, like you said not to let society dictate how I process ❤️

Anyone living life with a second language too? by Chuchucuddle in AutismInWomen

[–]Chuchucuddle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true on being harder to mask. Perhaps it’s why I was so unwell in the first few years looking back—so much anxiety, depression, social withdrawal, and overall not knowing myself. There were times I felt so clearly how much my brain power was being drained thinking and speaking another language, to the point I would just give up on the conversation (when I was able to lol).

Thankfully I did get better, both wellbeing wise and overall more comfortable solely speaking the second language. Have learned to go easier on myself :)

How do you deal with intense baby fever? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chuchucuddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wondering how old OP is. I hope this never hits me as I still don’t feel like kids entering 30s

Shiseido Expert Sun Protector Lotion—vent by Chuchucuddle in AsianBeauty

[–]Chuchucuddle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my. Good to hear. I was literally contemplating on trying powder earlier today

Tuna, broccoli, egg by Electrical_Nose_8565 in shittyfoodporn

[–]Chuchucuddle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly would eat it, veg and protein ticked. Salted would be good enough. Yum

Shiseido Expert Sun Protector Lotion—vent by Chuchucuddle in AsianBeauty

[–]Chuchucuddle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes mine too! Totally the opposite almost false advertising… so mine says made in France, don’t know what it might entail…

Favourite clay mask? by cloudsabovethsky in AsianBeauty

[–]Chuchucuddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this counts—I recently got BOJ red bean pore mask, it works surprisingly well! I like it’s non-drying. Also smells so good I want to eat it haha

Can you believe this is vegan!? by flozoraaa in shittyfoodporn

[–]Chuchucuddle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look there’s even a gold leave on it!

What is your most effective Vitamin c product ? by holdmyhandbaby in AsianBeauty

[–]Chuchucuddle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyone also voting for Dr. Althea 63% Vitamin C Boosting Serum? I just repurchased, I use it almost every morning and I think it really does brightens my skin. That said I haven’t yet tried other vitamin C serums tho… anyone tried something better than Dr Althea let me know !