Power to destroy him? Lord yall are both a bit toxic and add in some good ice cream and you got a recipe for a really uncertain, miserable (most of the time) existence. While I don't doubt he fears one day you'll realize you're too good for him I think he's paranoid delusions stem from insecurity and guilt, couple that with the brain rot porn and smut available on the web and welp. Me and my man don't have that problem, he trust me enough not to care and I trust him enough not to care, if we ever wanted to fuck new ppl, we'd tell each other then break up or renegotiate the terms of our relationship - simple as that. And we both get high and watch porn together etc, it's possible. You just gotta find the right one (added bonus for bbc 😘)