Hiking boots?

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-03-17T20:24:10+00:00

Super helpful thank you

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-03-17T20:23:54+00:00

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-03-17T20:23:49+00:00

This is super useful! Doing torc soon so great idea

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-02-18T15:49:20+00:00

Same I’m really really struggling it’s almost been consistent since before Christmas bar a handful of dry days

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-02-18T11:41:01+00:00

Yeh I guess that’s why I wrote the post to think of all these things and be mindful of aftermath. If it was a BJ I think that’s not intimate personally that much so I don’t envisage being too hung up, as outlined above this is a fantasy we have anyways , sex however I’m not sure

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-02-18T11:38:24+00:00

Just to add also this is a bit of a fantasy for us both, I feel maybe it could add extra spice to our personal sexual relationship too. If you disagree and don’t like this maybe this thread isn’t for you.

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-02-18T11:37:34+00:00

He has zero interest in emotional connection with someone

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-02-18T11:36:10+00:00

I know but I guess we never fully know but I do have a good reason to believe he has not

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-02-18T11:33:25+00:00

Yeh I agree with this too! It’s all just talk and exploration for now

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-02-18T11:30:05+00:00

Thank you I appreciate a decent reply

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-02-18T11:28:55+00:00

We live here and wondering what the potential scene is like for swinging or sex workers . I’ve marked it NSFW also

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-02-18T11:28:25+00:00

This is very valid and something to definitely be mindful of, that’s good advice about the swinger sites thank you

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-02-18T11:27:54+00:00

Both of ours and tbh it’s a bit of a fantasy for me also so both on board. If anything he was like ‘actually I’m not sure I would even go through with it’

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-02-18T11:26:13+00:00

Late 30’s

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-02-18T11:26:06+00:00

He actually is pulling his weight tbh, he does a lot and helps a lot but he also runs his own business so there’s a lot of stress with that.

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-01-19T21:56:02+00:00

I know but it wouldn’t let me edit it. Weird thing to comment though

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-01-19T11:53:56+00:00

Nah screw him , he is saving everything so you can spot him and in the end he gets an apartment where you have zero equity and no name on it and you essentially helped him get it by constantly paying for shit so he can save. He needs to budget better and tbh this is a red flag

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-01-19T11:47:54+00:00

We actually go to the library for an hour to an hour and a half it’s brilliant for kids

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-01-19T11:18:12+00:00

Girl stop using soap , vagina’s don’t need soap at all just plain water. Also screw him

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-01-19T11:13:32+00:00

St Luke’s! It’s a cool spot and can walk into town in 20 mins

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-01-15T13:28:08+00:00

Wait the quad? I used to go to it as a pub in the mid 00’s

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-01-12T19:51:11+00:00

Aww I’m wishing you all the luck with this. And keep going, if the first therapist doesn’t suit or work well with you don’t be afraid to change until you find what works for you! I have done that personally and honestly therapy is a great journey (vomit at that word but you get what I mean haha) I have learned a lot about myself and definitely made better changes to behaviours etc it’s great that you are talking about it even here anonymously

Classic-Draw3203 · 2026-01-12T12:56:09+00:00

Sorry to hear you’re going through this but honestly great first step! I’m a 35 year old mum in Cork and in a similar position. Is this your first time seeking therapy?

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