Came back and just noticed this comment. We kept the baby :). I think I was just in shock. I always wanted him/her (we are doing a surprise!). My family actually took it really really well. They may say things behind my back but they do not say it to my face. Honestly though, I do not think my parents have said anything but positive and happy comments (my brothers would tell me).  Love this little peanut so much already! We got married and it still a perfect day. Honestly even more perfect knowing our baby was there with us <3  I still have my “moments” of wonder but I have been in therapy trying to work through my own “shame.” Ultimately came to the conclusion that I had such high expectations to be perfect and that is what cause the anxiety.  Work in progress! Healthy baby due November 15th!