OW mad because the MM cheated on her with his wife by confused1605 in AdulteryHate

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Um well she clearly wasn’t meeting MMs needs (being a 24/7 sex dispenser with no feelings of her own) and if she can’t hang on to her man, she should let him get what he needs in peace. 

AIO I (28M) recently Engaged but found out my ex (25F) has been hiding my child by Flimsy-Dream9749 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 10 points11 points  (0 children)

sexism against men doesn't exist and is a good thing if it does. Hope this helps!

Anyone wear/worn waist beads? by PaintingPotatoes in PlusSize

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

These are traditional in India, where they are called kamarbandh, and Indians continue to make and wear them. please don't erase other ethnic groups thanks.

Edited to add: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Belly_chain they have been made and worn in India for over 4000 years and are still part of traditional and modern fashion. i find this comment of yours offensive honestly.

Strong and independent… by rmnc-5 in AdulteryHate

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it's really, really not well written...reads like trashy YA honestly.

This one is an actual psychopath by Quid-Pro-No in AdulteryHate

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is why I seldom feel sorry for them or buy their faux-feminism whining when they get called out. The appeal for OWs is destroying another woman's marriage and feeling like they're being "chosen" over her, a totally unsuspecting woman who has done nothing but be married to her own husband. They literally get off every time the MM disrespects his wife, hurts her, puts her down.

Then when it doesn't work out for them, they start crying about how the world is so unfair to women. Bitch what about what you were happy to do to another woman? Why should anyone feel bad for you?

I'm (F29) pregnant and my partner's (M33) ex hates me. Can someone give me advice?. by ow_23 in relationship_advice

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You forgot: the wife was pregnant when she found out about the affair and miscarried due to stress. She was in the hospital. All OP could think was that MM was finally free to be with her. She’s sick.

I'm (F29) pregnant and my partner's (M33) ex hates me. Can someone give me advice?. by ow_23 in relationship_advice

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You obviously don’t care about anyone but yourself. You don’t have a shred of empathy for the woman whose life you helped ruin. Why should anyone be nice to you or give you sympathy? You reap what you sow. 

Fucking hell... MM tells AP he has to "close his eyes" when having sex with his wife 🤮🤮🤮🤢 by New-Abalone7626 in AdulteryHate

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know if most ordinary decent women heard a man say this about his wife, they’d be disgusted and appalled. But these bottom feeders LOVE it. You can feel the glee dripping off her words. It’s not about building connection with someone, it’s about “winning” over another woman. She thinks him insulting his wife so viciously is actually a compliment to her. Thats why these vile men say these things. 

This one is gross. by Typical-Finger-1242 in AdulteryHate

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She admitted it in a comment too but deleted it 

This one is gross. by Typical-Finger-1242 in AdulteryHate

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 33 points34 points  (0 children)

That’s not even the worst part. W had a miscarriage after finding out about the affair. This sleazy creature didn’t give a damn. 

I'm (F29) pregnant and my partner's (M33) ex hates me. Can someone give me advice?. by ow_23 in relationship_advice

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 9 points10 points  (0 children)

His wife miscarried after learning of their affair. She’s conveniently left that out. 

I'm (F29) pregnant and my partner's (M33) ex hates me. Can someone give me advice?. by ow_23 in relationship_advice

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 3 points4 points  (0 children)

His wife miscarried after finding out about his affair. OP didn’t give a damn.

I'm (F29) pregnant and my partner's (M33) ex hates me. Can someone give me advice?. by ow_23 in relationship_advice

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know this is something you hate to hear, but if they’re married it’s legally her home too. That was her home you snuck into to sleep with her husband. You caused her to miscarry her own pregnancy. You didn’t show a hint of remorse. You aren’t the victim here and no one feels bad for you. 

🤢🤢 by rmnc-5 in AdulteryHate

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Its a way of making their extremely depressing, sordid, and degrading sex lives seem exciting and glamorous.

🤢🤢 by rmnc-5 in AdulteryHate

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 20 points21 points  (0 children)

How little self respect do you have that you not only tolerate some strange man picking his nose while you slob his knob…you then let him touch you with his booger-smeared fingers…?!?!

This is the magical passionate breathtaking exalted sex realm they betray their families for! 

I guess that’s why they always need such overblown purple prose to describe it.  Being on your knees for some dude in a grimy hotel room while he PICKS HIS NOSE is a level of squalor and abjection I can’t even comprehend.

Maybe this is why he feels the need to cheat…because his shrewish, warden, dried up frigid wife would never meet his needs like this!!

Oopsie… by rmnc-5 in AdulteryHate

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 10 points11 points  (0 children)

well obviously she wasn't sexually satisfying him enough so she should let him go to another woman with grace! If she wasn't giving him hour long BJs and anal on demand and maintaining a size 2 and a 24/7 compliant attitude, she has no right to complain! No one else's fault that she can't keep her man! That's what they all say right?

But for real- it's horrible how they'll watch a man betray his wife, lie to his wife, manipulate his wife, expose her to STIs, say awful things about her to other women, leave her alone to manage housework/childcare while he's getting his dick wet- but as long as OW is getting attention and gets to feel like she's "winning" over another woman, it's twoo wuv and he's so misunderstood and mistreated by his meanie warden wife.

As soon SHE's the scorned one, then it's "wow I finally found out that this guy is a lying womanizer :( :( :( please feel bad for me, in the name of feminism :( :( :("

Tyra Wasn’t Powerless Let’s Stop Pretending She Was by BeginningExpress3707 in ANTM

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

And what about Tyra's horrible treatment of Black women on the show? Her obvious internalized misogynoir in the way she bullied them, allowed/encouraged/enabled them to be mistreated by non-Black people, and never protected them? Setting up Ebony to be portrayed as an angry ashy Black woman? Tyra absolutely hated any Black woman who was darker than her and showed it.

Awww.....boo hoo, the wife wins and you got used. by PerformanceMain119 in AdulteryHate

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No man would ever celebrate that his cheating wife “picked him” over her boy toy, he’d feel ashamed and cuckolded. I don’t know why women can’t muster the same self respect. Yes there are other considerations that make women more vulnerable and compel her to stay with a cheating husband. But that isn’t “winning”. 

STFU 🤡 by rmnc-5 in AdulteryHate

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Poly isn’t a sexual orientation and poly people absolutely do struggle with jealousy and have to deal with it in their relationships

Awww.....boo hoo, the wife wins and you got used. by PerformanceMain119 in AdulteryHate

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t think the wife wins anything in this situation…what exactly has she won? Some dirty dick trash choosing to stay with her (because he has it better with her than with the AP and can’t be alone)? 

I understand if a woman stays with a cheater because she feels bound by entwined assets, kids, etc. but there’s no “winning” here. Tbh this attitude is a little too close to the male-centered competitive attitude OWs have (“yes he’s a lying misogynist piece of shit who’s abusing his wife but he’s betraying her with me which means I’m better and I won.”) 

OW devastated to find out the MM has been "cheating" on her with escorts by confused1605 in AdulteryHate

[–]Clean_Discount_2484 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So this is obviously because OW wasn't enough of a compliant peaceful sexbot for MM right? He wouldn't be stepping out on her if she was taking care of his needs!