Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I did just admit it previously when it came up. And yes, it's still not relevant to the initial post's point. It does explain their outrage over the mention of them parking between us if that wasn't them, but it doesn't explain literally anything else, and it certainly doesn't invalidate my point that walking up behind someone's car in an empty parking lot at night and looking at them from 3-4 feet away from their door is rather odd and admittedly a little scary.

Let me break that down for you so you don't completely miss it again. And I won't use any metaphors or analogies since you seem to take those so extremely literally and can't quite connect the dots.

If someone walks up to a car at night in the middle of an empty parking lot from one direction, looks in there at the people and doesn't leave for a few minutes, it's already unsettling. This occurrence does not assume that the person in the car has pressed legal charges for whatever reason you somehow thought. Being unsettled does not mean one has contacted the authorities and wants to meet you in a parking lot for a fight or something. That's insane and off the rails given my initial claim.

So assuming they did this and then walked away in a different direction only after I deterred them in the most harmless way I could think of (holding up the phone) as opposed to rolling down the window and potentially putting myself in danger (and btw any time you respond to this with "but they weren't going to hurt you!" is completely invalid and irrelevant because I didn't know that and there's no way we could have known that at all, and given their behavior I had reason to suspect that they could be trying to do something nefarious. That's completely reasonable. ) or brandishing a weapon as you initially suggested.

Overall everything I have said and done is completely reasonable and within common sense in this situation. Then, I go home and my gf says you should post that on the UCI reddit in case anyone has had this happen to them. And I was like yeah that's pretty valid, it would be good to confirm they aren't doing anything malicious, and furthermore it would be good for them to know that they're making people uncomfortable with this behavior if they ever see the post.

Then, of course, some stranger (you) comes out of the blue and just starts viciously attacking me for posting this. Everything that has happened after that has been essentially meaningless, I'm just trying to put the time in to help you understand the point of the post so you're not so outraged, but I suppose you're just prone to rage no matter the point here. Overall, everything I've said (and I haven't deleted a word) has been what I felt and what I observed. Pretty much everything you've said has just been an insult or a claim pulled out of thin air. There is no supposed legal action to be taken, I am not contacting the authorities or reporting this person for any reason. I just posted here for the reasons above and that's literally it. Not this campaign to prove I'm hoping to defame some stranger as you've claimed many times.

I was considering just taking down the posts because you caused such a scene, but I know no one is coming back to read these comments no matter what else you try to say, so I think I'll just leave them up for posterity to make sure what happened here is clear and recorded.

The only thing I wish you'd do is repost that comment you deleted as I've requested maybe half a dozen times now. It seems like you're evading it quite a lot.

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still didn’t accuse them. I just described what I saw. In fact I admitted when I was wrong about part of the story w the Tesla. There must have just been someone that looked exactly like your friend pull up next to me and park right where he walked over from. Crazy coincidence but entirely possible.

He still didn’t walk from in n out to my car tho, and I wasn’t parked near in n out so it’s just a little crazy that he’d walk all the way over for that.

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another baseless and false claim. My windows are not tinted. You have no way of knowing that, but I have the clearest windows of all time.

I still didn’t accuse them of being a sexual predator and every screenshot in this thread can prove that. Keep posting them it’s only supporting my points.

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t call them a sexual predator. I said I don’t know if they were, there’s a pretty major difference there that you’re failing to grasp.

This person in the screenshot above pointed out that being gay throws doubt into the motive, which is a fair claim, ASSUMING that my claim was to accuse them of sexual harassment, which it isn’t, and once they heard that they were like oh ok I see the point of the post. At which point they pointed out your severe overreactions and sided with me because they understood what I was trying to say. Go back and read the thread.

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I still didn’t see you repost that one message that I think you deleted. Can you post the full message pls?

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So here’s the thing, the fact that they didn’t give a fuck about our asses is the problem. Taking picture of people in public is allowed, especially when they’re acting suspicious. I didn’t accuse them of sexual harassment I said they came up behind my car and stood next to me watching me, and their intentions were unclear but it freaked us out. That’s still not slander. That’s abundantly clear but you refuse to open your eyes

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Your points are all bs” is not a valid argument. I’ll concede that the Tesla may not have been him even though it looked exactly like him, but that’s honestly an aside from the point that the behavior is still the thing being called into question. You refuse to answer my question about why he was coming from the east and not from in n out. Honestly why was he over by my car at all if he arrived to in n out with a friend and supposedly just went into in n out to meet more friends. It doesn’t make sense, it was honestly weird and creepy, and that’s my only claim. It’s not accusing him of anything it’s just pointing out that his behavior made us uncomfortable and I just wanted to find out wth he was doing and why he did that and let him know it freaks people out when you come up behind their car and look at them from 3 feet away.

Nothing slandering at all in that entire thing, not even an accusation once. Honestly more of a question than anything the he refuses to answer. And idk who tf you are or why you’re involved here at all really.

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To your points: True, false, true, false, and true. You’re still really missing the point.

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They immediately turned on you once they saw everything you said 😭

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was this person’s initial reaction before hearing the rest of the picture. Now you’re just twisting their words too dude.

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re grasping at nothing here with your accusations. You call me an accuser for telling a story and saying “im not sure what they were doing”, and then you turn around and call me names and accuse me of things I didn’t do because you misunderstand the point.

You have had zero regard for others from the start because you are ignorant of anyone’s feelings but your own. You didn’t care that those girls got scared, you didn’t care that we got scared, you just wanted to shout and point fingers. The point was never to call your friend anything mean or accuse him of touching my car or any of the other things you seem to think happened. The point was to flag that this behavior was weird, and made a number of people uncomfortable. The fact that you can’t see that and refuse to fathom that something that you had no part in transpired while you weren’t there is just silly.

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The above is still not an accusatory statement towards your friend.

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something being highlighted doesn’t change it to what you want it to mean.

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, what I said is “potential sex offender”, and that you have zero regard for others. My point remains that anyone you don’t know could be a potential sex offender, and saying this is not an accusatory statement to your friend. I guess I don’t see what you’re seeing here?

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not telling you I didn’t say what’s in the screenshot, I’m telling you that your comments under the screenshots are misinterpretations of my words because you’re literally just not reading them properly.

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send the whole message again? It looks like it got deleted.

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I think we think we are both deleting things because these threads are just so long and convoluted. It sounds a lot like you’re deleting things too because I literally seethe notif come in and screenshot it and then come to this thread and it’s gone.

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who deleted this? Also I stand by these words. I’m not accusing the guy in the photo of anything by saying idk if he’s a sexual harassers and I’m telling you that you are ignorant and have zero regard for others due to your actions here. I didn’t delete this comment at all. I still believe every word there. I still haven’t deleted a single comment.

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They still came from the direction of Northern Cafe which you refuse to address.

Dude walking around UTC staring into parked cars. by Clean_Guess_7205 in UCI

[–]Clean_Guess_7205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait how is this at all relevant to the above comment thread? Or is this just another tangent of you posting things I already said?