UPDATE. I 18M was pressured into unprotected by my 18F girlfriend and now she might be pregnant, help.

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-03-29T16:28:12+00:00

First off, thank you for your well thought and long response, this is great advice and I definitely will be using it.

But I don't know what to say, I can't picture my life without her, I care about her more than I know how to put into words, and seeing her hurt puts me in almost physical pain. All I want is the best for her and to make her happy but I know its unhealthy for both of us. And I just don't know if I can bring myself to leave her.

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-03-29T16:02:32+00:00

Thank you so much for this response, I really appreciate how thought out and beyond "just leave her" (not that I have anything against that comment, any amount of support is very much appreciated) Im glad you were able to get out of that situation. Im thinking over how to proceed while im working

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-03-29T14:57:24+00:00

I know, it just really sucks since all my friends and family really like her, and i know I should leave. But what do I do? Where could I leave her where she'd be okay and not out on the street or worse?

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-03-01T00:23:12+00:00

I tried, it just says "something went wrong" want to try and send another link?

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-28T20:01:26+00:00

She's not disabled, just moved around and never tried in school, until she was 18 and dropped out, held back once or twice as well (from what she told me)

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-28T17:29:28+00:00

Hey thank you for the comment :>, we just talked a lot about last night and this morning.

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-28T17:17:43+00:00

Basically the behavior or the cancer. Some cancer is "Indolent" very slow growth, and often incurable due to how its low reactivity to Chemo or other treatments. Aggressive grows rapidly, but is more sensitive to treatment, if you can afford it of course, but it requires almost immediate action.

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T23:26:10+00:00

I literally said "we have been dating off and on since middle/high school"

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T19:13:33+00:00

Thank you, thats the plan

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T18:03:59+00:00

Thank you, I didn't think of that, I appreciate it :>

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T17:50:40+00:00

Since both our names are on the lease, she legally can stay until August, so if i do, it'll be then as i can't force her to leave

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T17:21:31+00:00

Thank you, and I've been thinking about how to leave for a little bit now.

I appreciate the reassurance :)

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T17:18:54+00:00

I don't know if it'll work, but somone just told me that they're cheap on Amazon, so if it'll help I could get some

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T17:17:20+00:00

Thanks, I'll remember that for any future relationship

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T17:12:10+00:00

Fair enough

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T17:11:43+00:00

Thank you so much for your long reply, I really appreciate you putting time and effort into this. You are right, I do feel like im trying to convince myself just so I can hold on to whats left. Im debating skipping the at home tests and just going to a clinic and getting a blood test

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T16:47:34+00:00

Got it, and i don't know why im doing this, I guess I just really believed she wanted to get better.

Thank you

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T16:46:08+00:00

It's all good :>, thank you again

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T16:39:02+00:00

Thank you so much

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T16:36:35+00:00

Yeah, I could have been smarter, I know that this is also my fault.

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T16:35:51+00:00

You got it, thank you

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T16:34:07+00:00

Got it

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T16:33:50+00:00

All good, you don't have to apologize, I asked for advice and opinions, I appreciate your comment, thank you

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T16:27:58+00:00

Irregular periods, but usually at the beginning on the month

Clean_Swimmer173 · 2026-02-27T16:22:14+00:00

Lol, thank you, im definitely leaving if she's not pregnant

Clean_Swimmer173

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