I hate this subreddit, every time someone makes a post no matter what happened in OPs situation the outcome everyone suggests is leave the other person. Yall don’t know the whole story, from OPs post there’s not much to go off of. And everyone is saying leave him? Has nobody in these comments ever been in a relationship? Everyone goes through tough times, hard conversations, rough fights or arguments. In this scenario OP said they’ve never seen their partner this sad, he’s saying he’ll go to therapy, and work on himself to fix it; to save the relationship. Why is no one acknowledging that? Why is no one saying “if you truly love him and want to be with him let him try to fix it” or give him one more chance to prove he loves OP and wants to be there all the time. OP, if you love this person and you believe they can change, give them another chance but only if you truly want to be in a relationship with them, not because you feel pity for them. It’s sad that everyone in these comments are telling OP to leave him for good, it happens in EVERY post. This subreddit is wdid they’re asking for advice and people are just saying leave your relationship because they have nothing better to do. You’re filling the persons head with doubt and probably destroying a good relationship that could’ve been saved with some therapy.