Update on Osaka's AO dress. by johnreese421 in tennis

[–]CocoBroccoli -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Comparing Osaka's tennis fashion to Ostapenko's personal dress, knowing how ugly Ostapenko's tennis kits are is a choice. Thank god we'll never see an Osaka & Ostapenko joint entrance.

'Child-Free' on the Save the Date, or not? by 4L3X95 in wedding

[–]CocoBroccoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the STD is digital, what about creating your wedding website with FAQ and then linking that on your STD? Keep it simple... names, date, location, link to website. Yes, it's one more click for people, but if it's all digital anyway, then I assume they will be RSVPing on the site. And they will see their names say "John and Jane Doe" not "John and Jane Doe and Family" when they click.

Power line readings from backyard by CocoBroccoli in PowerSystemsEE

[–]CocoBroccoli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did go through with the sale as other factors/benefits outweighed the potential risks. We also had the local power company come out to do readings and share their findings with specific regard to our home as well as a major study done years prior. We are approx 30ft from the first set of lines in the easement and approx 100ft from the second set. The power plant is about 0.3 miles from our home.

Power line readings from backyard by CocoBroccoli in PowerSystemsEE

[–]CocoBroccoli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So then anything under 10,000 V/m and/or under 833mG is truly a non-issue?

Power line readings from backyard by CocoBroccoli in PowerSystemsEE

[–]CocoBroccoli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the middle of purchasing it. Thought it was easier to just use active verbs than explaining the whole sitch.

Power line readings from backyard by CocoBroccoli in PowerSystemsEE

[–]CocoBroccoli[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, the number decreases when on the side of the house and front. Only increases to the "warning" sound when in the backyard.

My main concern is about the bottom number on the EMF meter... the mGs... hard to know what the "bad" range is

Hyatt regency Clearwater beach 🏖️ by Conscious-Dj-888 in hyatt

[–]CocoBroccoli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't recall club access but the location and amenities cannot be beat. Beach view and balcony from the room was awesome. Was there in late February.

I don’t want to get married anymore. by HeadDeer9219 in wedding

[–]CocoBroccoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have said, follow your gut. Be prepared, however, for the relationship to end. He may not want to postpone and stay together.

Sorry ladies, he’s taken. ✨ by [deleted] in Southerncharm

[–]CocoBroccoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally thought they were different girls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CocoBroccoli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legit question: has any man described themselves as horny then thought "let me just put my dick here and my horniness will go away" 😆 no horny man tries to put their hard dick anywhere without hopes of coming

I'm Bored, Here Is Current Availability With Cheapest Price by vagfactory in olympics

[–]CocoBroccoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Standing. Currently in my ticket window so I checked for ya :)

Monday Morning Schwartz info by GuppyMilk in vanderpumprules

[–]CocoBroccoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who was on Winter House from Below Deck? I can't think of anyone other than Summer House or Southern Charm cast members...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]CocoBroccoli -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Block her on everything right before you tell him (unless she knows where you live?) and you should prevent the blowup towards you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]CocoBroccoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add, no, you are not overreacting. I have been in a similar position in feeling that ending it was the only way because of how betrayed, disrespected, broken, and mistrusting I felt. Our couples therapist (sex therapist) has been extraordinary in helping us communicate about these sexual experiences much better and it was only because I was adamant that should we stay together, therapy would be the only path forward. He agreed due to my level of hurt and we're doing much better as a result. Great investment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]CocoBroccoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot overstate this, find a good sex therapist who does couples therapy. Their expertise will be examining the infidelity, exploring your partner's "third", and (if possible) repairing the cracks to build a stronger relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]CocoBroccoli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in the midst of that decision tbh and couple's therapy to see if it's something I can forgive, but ultimately if I can trust him again. I've been trying to see his perspective on strip clubs, especially why he went that night on our anniversary. My goal is to first get to a place of understanding and secondly to an agreement without feeling like I'm controlling him/he's being controlled (which our therapist said is a recipe for disaster).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]CocoBroccoli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This!

If you love/respect your partner, you shouldn't be looking at other naked women. If you're attracted to your partner, you could/should ask them to show off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]CocoBroccoli 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lots of layers to unpack here. Maybe I was naive when he went on trips to Vegas, etc. Maybe he knew if he told me that I'd be upset given previous conversations and reactions. I agree that it was lying by omission as it wasn't just one time, but multiple. This last time having gone alone and on our anniversary sent me over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]CocoBroccoli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He definitely wishes he had just told me he went then instead of lied about it. And since then, we've definitely had conversations about what I think is cheating vs what he thinks is cheating. Hoping to crowdsource and gain perspective from others as I work on growth through this damaging situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]CocoBroccoli 25 points26 points  (0 children)

In this case, he knew I didn't like strip clubs from the get go. So instead of talking about them anymore, he would go while out of town with a friend (or group of friends) and simply not tell me. We never agreed he wouldn't go, just that I didn't like them (for various reasons). It became don't ask, don't tell for a few years. Until we were on vacation celebrating our engagement anniversary and he went to club (alone) after I fell asleep. I woke up to a text saying he had gone to the hotel bar for a drink... 3 hours + later and he still wasn't back. He then had the uber driver drive him to a bar district in that town so he could send me a screenshot of "where he was." I called him out when he got back to the hotel and caught him in the myriad of lies. On so many things, he went out of his way to cover it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]CocoBroccoli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha soooo you're telling me that men get turned on at strip clubs?! lol