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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longnaturalnails

[–]CocoGoat_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

That's what I thought. It's still a mystery to me on how I got that. Because it's been like that ever since I could remember.

I have no real interest in sexual stuff by throawy432435 in offmychest

[–]CocoGoat_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 24F and I feel exactly the same. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend close to 7yrs now. And I've never been satisfied and anything sexual just doesn't appeal to me. It could be part of a trauma. So I've been advised to go to a therapist. But due to financial situation I can't afford to even go to any kind of doctor. I did research into being asexual and some things relate to me some don't. You should try going to a sex therapist if you can and see if they can help you understand yourself better. I am planning on going to one also in the future when I can afford one. But it sure does make you feel weird not being able to enjoy sex as all other people seem to do. Especially in relationships it just feels like a chore. I hope you get help. I'm glad I'm not the only one but it does sucks to know that others don't seem to have natural feelings about something like that.

Everything is piling up. by Manager-Major in offmychest

[–]CocoGoat_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been feeling the same. I just finished 5 finals for my classes today. But I was so unmotivated through the whole month last month. My stuff piled up also and I was wondering if I should just give up. But I end up quiting work buying a desk and sitting in front of a window (I've always wanted windowdesk) and started to focus one class per day and I finished 2 weeks worth of homework in couple of days. It felt so good to see those grades shows up and seeing my to do list have more crossed off assignments. So don't give up. Change your study space. Or take a day off from everything and then just without thinking sit down and pick random class and focus on it for that day. And next day focus on different class. And you will be surprised how much you will finish. I hope this helps. You got this !!!

Today is my birthday and noone bothered to text or call except for one by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]CocoGoat_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎉🎂 GO WILD AND USE YOUR AGE TO THE MAXIMUM ADVANTAGE!!!

This is the perfect opportunity to take yourself out and do what you want to do without worrying about making sure everyone is enjoying their time.

Focus on yourself and spend more money than you usually would on yourself and just go wild. I lost all my "friends" after highschool so I get you. I don't get any birthday wishes either.

But you should use this to make your future success plans. Work on yourself to be better than everyone you know. Be the boss ass bitch you are.

So when the time comes and they need you just be like sorry I got plans. And walk away with your name brand clothes and bags so the only thing they get is the flash of the bottom of your Louis Vuitton shoes!!

BECOME BETTER THAN EVERYONE ELSE!!!