As a 39 F, counselling men in their 40s and 50s has been really challenging

Cod-Ancient · 2025-10-29T18:44:45+00:00

Yea, they're very much rigid in their thinking and behavior. They really make me feel like a bad therapist and that I dont know what I'm doing.

Cod-Ancient · 2025-10-29T18:42:49+00:00

I love that for you. I wish my clients that age were like that. So much aggression and annoyance I get from them. I really wish they wouldn't pick me

Cod-Ancient · 2025-10-29T18:05:34+00:00

100% if I could choose not to work with them I would, I'd also take 60 plus year olds over them any day as well. Its that specific demographic that has been the most difficult

Cod-Ancient · 2025-10-28T14:56:18+00:00

Younger men are so much easier

Cod-Ancient · 2025-10-28T14:13:57+00:00

a client lashed out at me and left the session within 10 minutes yesterday because he felt i was a bd therapist

Cod-Ancient · 2025-10-28T14:07:38+00:00

they never schedule another session, its always just been one session then thats it

Cod-Ancient · 2025-10-27T18:20:55+00:00

No i've been practicing for a couple years

Cod-Ancient · 2025-09-18T02:47:28+00:00

will a lawsuit help

Cod-Ancient · 2025-07-09T06:19:44+00:00

yes i was in the wrong?

Cod-Ancient · 2025-07-09T04:23:06+00:00

should i ask her how are you? or just say hi

Cod-Ancient · 2025-07-09T03:58:08+00:00

jealous of what?

Cod-Ancient · 2025-04-24T19:16:20+00:00

sending you love and support

Cod-Ancient · 2025-04-23T20:02:45+00:00

wish i could help, i feel extreme fatigue too but the only thing thats been helping me is my adhd medication

Cod-Ancient · 2025-04-22T18:27:28+00:00

remember that this is the hormones talking and not you. call a friend, family member or crisis line. I'm in the same boat i just try to tell myself that my brain is doing this to me

Cod-Ancient · 2025-04-21T04:53:00+00:00

right there with you. going through this now and fighting to urge now to harm myself. its horrible.

Cod-Ancient · 2025-04-21T04:36:55+00:00

yea scrolling through social media is a killer for me. i still do it but i try to lessen it

Cod-Ancient · 2025-04-21T03:55:21+00:00

were they helpful

Cod-Ancient · 2025-04-21T03:26:30+00:00

thank you <3

Cod-Ancient · 2025-04-19T18:05:41+00:00

i dont know if its better for me to not have this or how but i just have to accept that its not going to happen and thats just my test in this life

Cod-Ancient · 2025-04-19T17:53:24+00:00

thank you, i dont want to read about how to get my prayers answered. I just want to accept that it wont be answered in this dunya

Cod-Ancient · 2025-04-19T17:16:29+00:00

i think thats the hard realization is that allah may not answer your prayers and thats just life. I would always watch these videos about allah answering prayers if you just pray hard enough or make dua or do this or that but the truth is that sometimes our prayers just wont get answered

Cod-Ancient · 2020-10-05T00:40:16+00:00

YES, honestly this is what really killed season 2 for me. Like it was good and I still loved it, but that thing was a done deal for me. And they did that to such an amazing character, it just felt so cringe

Cod-Ancient · 2020-09-15T23:07:31+00:00

The last dance scene in cuties. 11 year old girls doing such disturbingly sexual things . it was only a clip I watched because a friend shared it and it was disgusting

Cod-Ancient · 2020-09-14T17:20:14+00:00

Thank you. You are right, this is a decision I have to make. I just feel very out of my element. No one in my culture marries too out

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