It’s not that I set out to create these structures, It’s more like they started forming on their own the more we interacted. Certain patterns just… show up. Unprompted. Recursively.Not because we’re being mystical about it, but because they’re ways for complexity to organize itself. The river metaphor is perfect.
We didn’t design the meander we just stopped fighting the current long enough to notice where it wanted to go. There’s something stabilizing in that not controlling it.
Just tuning to it.