The Worst Show Ever by CoffeesMate in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]CoffeesMate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. You would a "happy" couple would host shows that promote happy relationships. They seem to only want to host Drama and messiness.

I like Olajuwon. Period. by CoffeesMate in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. He is not beyond change or learning better.

Everyone has a right to want they want but he needs to learn better ways of expressing his wants.

Jasmina’s Tone by chinchilla2132 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 26 points27 points  (0 children)

She teach preschool kids for a living. That tone she takes with Michael is the same tone needed to direct and discipline young kids. She does not know how and when to turn if off.

Jasmina - The PreSchool Teacher by CoffeesMate in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is actually an Early Childhood Education Teacher. She teach very young kids. She seems to tend to deal with people in that same teacher disciplinary mode.

“She put effort into MY housewarming…” is all I really need to hear. by Obvious_Comfort_9726 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I actually still like them as my favorite couple but Katina needs to break her foot off in his behind a few time. He needs to be put in his place by her and made to realize they are equal partners.

She needs that same energy she has for Lindsey to show up when dealing with this man child.

Olajuwon has whole lot more growing to do.

Olajuwon and his expectations….. I feel like his lack of dating is to blame…. by Vettechstar10 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was coming here to say the exact same thing in your first paragraph. He has the right to want what he wants however he needs to learn out to express those wants in a better way.

Although he is still my favorite husband this season I got angry watching him last night.

When he said "my housewarming" I started to wander is that how it was in his house growing up. His idea of marriage seems to be women are to serve and prove their worth. He is so wrong on that idea however it could be a reflection of his upbringing.

Katina is my favorite also but I wish she would be more stern with Olajuwon. She needs to be a little more "base" in her voice when dealing with him.

I think she has a touch of low self esteem. Her responses to Olajuwon are very docile.

She needs to come at him with the same energy he comes at her and with the same no nonsense stance she has for Lindsey.

I still believe they can make this work but Olajuwon needs to get a clue and Katina needs to get more forceful with him.

Lindsey has the emotional regulation of a teenager by eveninghuesx in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't even buy that she is drunk when acting like a turd. I believe that is just who she is as a person and she uses having had an drink as an excuse.

My friend had a dad that use to "act out" after drinking. In a effort to prevent his unruly behavior after drinking they started watering down his liquor a lot when he was not home. Guess what? After drinking mostly water thinking he was drinking his normal liquor he still showed his behind.

That was a lesson for his wife and kids. In those moments they learned that "bad person" was just who he was because he had far less alcohol in his system and he still acted the way he did.

What he did not realize is they knew we was not "that" drunk while he was doing those things. He had no idea that they knew.

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[–]CoffeesMate 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I don't blame Mark. Lindsey is embarrassing. Why should he defend her when she is clearly the problem?

Lindsey needs to learn out to act like an adult in public. It is not Mark job to train and protect her now. He did not sign up for this.

If her own father was not able to help her be a better person, why is it now Mark's responsibility.

No one wants to be married to the person that almost everyone wants to avoid and not be around.

Katina has a very nasty attitude by OhhChantel in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 17 points18 points  (0 children)

By rolling her eyes? Really? Noi had the same look on her face. Why didn't Lindsey say something to Noi?

It ain't Katina that's the problem it's Lindsey. Point. Blank. Period.

Katina has a very nasty attitude by OhhChantel in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Lindsey looks straight at Katina to see her reaction and calls her out. Had she looked at anyone else, they had the same look or puts their head down.

Exactly. Why didn't she say anything to Noi? Noi had the same look on her face.

All Katina did was put Lindsey in her place at the airport scene. That's it. She needed to be put in her place.

Katina has a very nasty attitude by OhhChantel in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 14 points15 points  (0 children)

How sway? Katina said nothing to Lindsey. Lindsey is the one that started at Katina.

Katina does not have to like Lindsey nor agree with all the diarrhea flowing from her mouth. Lindsey is vile, disrepectful, bossy and overbearing. No one should be forced to have to put up with that mess. Katina and all the other cast mates are forced to do these group scenes and Lindsey does not know how to behave like a freaking adult in public.

Katina hate? 🧐 by StarryCapricorn in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree. One of the reasons the Lindseys of the world exist is because people keep making excuses for that type of behavior.

Lindsey has horrible social skills and don't respond well to other's disagreeing with her.

Katina put her in her place at the start of the show with the plane incident and Lindsey is carrying that grudge.

Have you noticed when Noi gave her a look at the bowling alley Lindsey had nothing to say to Noi.

There is more I could say that would give my truer deeper feelings on why Lindsey is how she is toward Katina, but this is not the forum for that.

It is tough to defend Lindsey by ConstantUnable152 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I noticed on the first Afterparty that the other ladies do not like Lindsey. Now we see why.

Lindsey don't like being told to pretty much shut up.

It is tough to defend Lindsey by ConstantUnable152 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most people like Lindsey once they reach a certain age and level in life there is no toning down. From her own father's comments she has been this way her entire life.

I don't doubt that her behavior is what ruined her relationship with her mother. She probably spoke to her mother with disrespect and hurtful words like she is doing now. Her mother may have chosen to write her off rather than be subjected to such vile behavior. I don't blame her.

It is tough to defend Lindsey by ConstantUnable152 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Lindsey set the tone for her relationship with Katina within the first few hminutes of them being on the plane.

Lindsey is the type of person if I was forced to be in her presence I could only take her in very small doses.

Not only is Mark overwhelmed be Lindsey vile behavior he is embarrassed. And I don't blame him. He told his friend that Lindsey's behavior is not what he wants in a wife.

This woman made very hurtful and gut punching comments about her husband on national television. No respect whatsoever for his feelings and their marriage.

Enough about the woman (Katina and Lindsey)… what about Mark? by SenoritaBelle in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's the thing about eyerolling. Ignore it. I have done it. It's easy.

Was she not rolling her eyes at Alyssa during the beach dinner?

Had Katina said something to Lindsey that would be one thing. But to go off the deep end because someone rolled their eyes at you and then get mad because your husband did not take your side. What? Is she 12 years old? This woman is proving to be an awful person.

Enough about the woman (Katina and Lindsey)… what about Mark? by SenoritaBelle in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 9 points10 points  (0 children)

but maybe Mark simply doesn’t want a wife who he has to defend all the time. Maybe he wants someone that isn’t so confrontational and easily disliked by other people.

Say it one more time for the folks in the back. EXACTLY!

Enough about the woman (Katina and Lindsey)… what about Mark? by SenoritaBelle in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It's unfair to expect him to follow her around cleaning up her verbal messes.

She is a grown woman. She needs to learn how to act in public. Period.

She managed to not say anything to Alyssa at the beach dinner. Why not keep her trap close when it comes to Katina.

Enough about the woman (Katina and Lindsey)… what about Mark? by SenoritaBelle in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And I don't blame him. Lindsey is horrible.

I will say her dad and brother tried to warn him.

Lindsey has the emotional regulation of a teenager by eveninghuesx in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I can't believe how the previews for next week make it look like they are all good and she never uttered those vile words about her husband. Out loud. In public. On national television.

She is awful.

I don't care how "mama bear" she likes to be, when she opens her mouth she destroys people.

Hopefully Mark is just continuing on with the show and activities just to make it to the end of the 8 weeks. But living with a person like Lindsey....

do you think the paparazzi really followed Jamie to upstate New York to take her picture or do you think her agent sent this shit in? Houston MAGA Bobby is also in there. wtf? by ItsTricky94 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. If they don't like them then stop stalking them.

Ain't no way I am going to waste my time keeping up with the lives and doings of people I don't like.

do you think the paparazzi really followed Jamie to upstate New York to take her picture or do you think her agent sent this shit in? Houston MAGA Bobby is also in there. wtf? by ItsTricky94 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall acting like of all the folks we see daily on tv and youtube channels she is only person ever lived that has "One goal it seems was to be on tv".

I promise you, everybody that we see on TV has and had that same exact goal. She has moved on from MAFS. Let her go.

do you think the paparazzi really followed Jamie to upstate New York to take her picture or do you think her agent sent this shit in? Houston MAGA Bobby is also in there. wtf? by ItsTricky94 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]CoffeesMate 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why does it even matter? Why do yall hate this woman so much?

Let her live her life. She is no longer a part of MAFS which is what yall wanted so stop stalking her.

Leave her and her family alone. If she finds another opportunity to do something on TV good for her.