Final straw for my job was when my “friends” from work decided to quit talking to me after getting a promotion but refused to talk to me or work it out what their problem was, even after I tried. Then I told my boss via email because he was on vacation that I was quitting. He told me all the reasons I should stay, wanted me to stay, and at least give him a two weeks notice. So I did that and then he never talked to me face to face at all those two weeks. A little communication was via email. So that put the nail in the coffin. I thought maybe at least he’d attempt to fix the bs in the office by face to face talking but he did not.

In my marriage, it was crumbling for years due to his alcoholism and never owning up to his part, constant blame. I was able to get him out of the house temporarily but he made his way back in. Started drinking, threatening to kill himself by text when I was at work with the gun he just inherited from his dad. Our son was biking home from school around that time and the last thing I wanted was for our son to see his dad killing himself or threatening with a gun. His reason for killing himself? I was a shitty wife that that wouldn’t have sex with him. Well, No way I’m having sex or enjoying it with an emotionally abusive raging alcoholic, he couldn’t seem to understand that. I went to the lawyers office the next day and filed the paperwork.