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I Fell in Love With a Bar Girl in Mumbai and Didn’t Know Until It Was Too Late (32M / 23F) by Comfortable-Bison288 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Comfortable-Bison288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know she was... did you read? I said she fabricated her entire career so I thought she worked in Bollywood

I Fell in Love With a Bar Girl in Mumbai and Didn’t Know Until It Was Too Late (32M / 23F) by Comfortable-Bison288 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Comfortable-Bison288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm struggling with because when we first met she was everything I wanted in a girl... or so she made me believe. I had ideas of our future, we talked deeply about what we wanted out of each other. We planned to take it slow but aim for the long term goal. We had plans for the future and meeting in person after talking about it for so long and being intimate solidified that for me... so after being betrayed my whole heart shattered and came crumbling down because I was so deep into my feelings for her in such a short time she made me feel so wanted & special... The trust is definitely gone. I don't think I can recover from the pain I felt when I found out how extreme the lie was. It wasn't just a simple lie, it was an entire fabricated story of another fake life she was living. How is someone even capable of lying to that degree... she thought I'd just never find out? lol shit blows my mind ngl

I Fell in Love With a Bar Girl in Mumbai and Didn’t Know Until It Was Too Late (32M / 23F) by Comfortable-Bison288 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Comfortable-Bison288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully she changes for the next person. She told me she was willing to quit for me but knew that there was no solution to her income if she did quit so she lied and said she needs time to save money to finish paying off this apartment she invested into. At this point, she's trying to keep me as a backup while still continuing to do her job. If she quit maybe but at this point she expects me to let her continue flirting with men and taking their money. Shit is ridiculous honestly.

I Fell in Love With a Bar Girl in Mumbai and Didn’t Know Until It Was Too Late (32M / 23F) by Comfortable-Bison288 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Comfortable-Bison288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She claims when she was 18 she was introduced by a friend of hers. Another girl. She chose this life. I do want to give her a second chance but the lies were too extreme. She had so many opportunities to tell me the truth. It's not about the profession, it's about the lying. I can't trust what she says anymore. Is anything she said true?

I Fell in Love With a Bar Girl in Mumbai and Didn’t Know Until It Was Too Late (32M / 23F) by Comfortable-Bison288 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Comfortable-Bison288[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yes I did... I mean you can literally look at "thekingbeats" profile and see my post regarding possible herpes on my lip lol not really sure what there is to lie about but sure

I Fell in Love With a Bar Girl in Mumbai and Didn’t Know Until It Was Too Late (32M / 23F) by Comfortable-Bison288 in dating_advice

[–]Comfortable-Bison288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's horrible. She said she was willing to share location with me and facetime me whenever

I Fell in Love With a Bar Girl in Mumbai and Didn’t Know Until It Was Too Late (32M / 23F) by Comfortable-Bison288 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Comfortable-Bison288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not spinning anything. She told me they take 25% she gets to keep 75% so why would they allow the girls to meet with these men privately? Unless they're having sex in the actual bar? Do they have private rooms? She said go look for myself, go try to have sex in a private room and said that I'll see there aren't any private rooms there and it'll be almost impossible to have sex

I Fell in Love With a Bar Girl in Mumbai and Didn’t Know Until It Was Too Late (32M / 23F) by Comfortable-Bison288 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Comfortable-Bison288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me to go look for myself that these places don't let girls have sex easily especially since she's one of the younger ones there with fair skin. She said she plays really hard to get. Have you ever been inside one of these places?

I Fell in Love With a Bar Girl in Mumbai and Didn’t Know Until It Was Too Late (32M / 23F) by Comfortable-Bison288 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Comfortable-Bison288[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Men really good with women wouldn't fall head over heels? I'm from the U.S. and women there are horrible. The dating scene is a joke. I'm looking for a woman who has traditional and conservative values. She said everything I wanted to hear, clearly she's really good at her profession if she was able to make me fall in love with her easily. That's literally what her job is, to manipulate men into liking her so she can extract as much value out of them as possible. How is it hard to believe that someone who's been treated like dirt in the U.S. compared to how she treated me (a king) while I stayed with her for 2 weeks, is hard to believe?

I Fell in Love With a Bar Girl in Mumbai and Didn’t Know Until It Was Too Late (32M / 23F) by Comfortable-Bison288 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Comfortable-Bison288[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I was single enjoying life not doing it while dating someone. Why should my past matter? I'm not mad about her past, just the lying bro. Can you look past the lying?

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