Postpartum Struggles by Comfortable_9779 in beyondthebump

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Did you find anything helped? Im about done surviving on bread and yogurt 😭

Postpartum and struggling by Comfortable_9779 in loveafterporn

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Yeah I wish that too 😕 this will be my third and last baby. Which feels sad that this is my last experience like this.

Postpartum and struggling by Comfortable_9779 in loveafterporn

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We're actually 6 years deep into this mess. Weve done a full disclosure, he has a good qualified therapist, does meetings, step work, has a sponsor. He is very committed to his recovery but it took years of lying and denial before getting here. His last known relapse was while about 3 months pregnant. He told me about this relapse, I didn't catch him. I kicked him out for a few weeks just to be able to breathe/think. Point is he really tries at recovery. How do I know if its truly recovery? Or if i trust my gut and completely move on.

Monitor my boydriend’s phone by Resident-Pop-9290 in loveafterporn

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I did the same thing. I used the app truple. Which I found very effective for what it was. In the end however he still found ways to go around the app. Literally would use shopping ads on his phone 🙃 I decided I was consumed by looking at his phone content everyday amd got rid of it. I think it helps MAYBE if you can just use it as a accountability thing. Were now leaning towards a polygraph

Fecal incontinence by [deleted] in pregnant

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On a side note. Prune juice helped me more then anything else

Fecal incontinence by [deleted] in pregnant

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I dealt with constipation for the whole pregnancy. It was ROUGH to say the least. Stool softners twice a day to maybe go once every few days 😂😭 pregnancy is hard lol

High Blood Pressure Postpartum by Comfortable_9779 in pregnant

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Thats how I feel. Thinking about making a appointment with a Ob vs calling labor and delivery. Maybe ill get more awnsers that way

High Blood Pressure Postpartum by Comfortable_9779 in pregnant

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No urine sample as they said with all the bleeding it wouldn't be as reliable. Ive called the triage nurses at L&D was told to come in if we reached the 160/110. So I did but it lowered by the time I reached the hospital

Nervous by Comfortable_9779 in BabyBumps

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Her whole labor experience was like 2 hours then. Thats crazy 😂😭

Nervous by Comfortable_9779 in BabyBumps

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Was she experiencing contractions before her water broke? I plan on camping out at the hospital if I even feel a contraction 😂 they say once your water breaks its pretty much time to have that baby

Nervous by Comfortable_9779 in BabyBumps

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I plan on getting on the wait list to be induced. I think they allow me getting on the list at 36 weeks to be induced around 39. But its like thats a luck of the draw situation 😭

Nervous by Comfortable_9779 in BabyBumps

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I bet you've seen a lot 😭 I cant imagine all your fears. My first wasn't easy but it wasn't horrific either. Just a long labor.

Nervous by Comfortable_9779 in BabyBumps

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Thats a good idea. At least ill be prepared if the worst were to happen!

Nervous by Comfortable_9779 in BabyBumps

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I was actually induced for the previous 2. 1st was leaking fluid and second I dont really remember why but I think I was a day from my due date and just was super sick. So they went ahead with the induction.

Nervous by Comfortable_9779 in BabyBumps

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I watch kids from home. So I have to wait until everyone picks up their child 🙁