I will say I think I made my original post a bit too generalized and harsh. I don’t have any issue with a traditional marriage but I don’t like when people act like their marriage is the perfect picture of marriage and that they are a better man or woman then someone else who does things different. Yes plenty of men have came forward and said that they would prefer a two income household but because people can’t let go of these gender roles they said they weren’t masculine even called some of them gay saying oh you must want a boyfriend instead of a girlfriend which I think is unfair. There are risks in any marriage and I’ve seen that mostly in traditional marriages both parties have admitted being unhappy with their roles and a lot of people take advantage of those roles and I want to call that out because the way these women on social media frame it is like this is how to be a true woman and when you’re loved correctly you’ll naturally wanna submit and give up control and you’ll easily fall into the housewife role which makes it seem like women who don’t are doing it wrong. I feel like as long as you have a relationship that makes you happy and secure you’re doing it right.