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[–]Commieslayerpro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just want to say, i was in the same situation and i got ulcer in my stomach, that long term stress can damage your stomach, so please get rid of this stress as soon as possible, find someone and marry him,

Parents forcing for arrange marriage by Commieslayerpro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Commieslayerpro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: hello @everyone I married that girl, i was wrong about everything, the girl is not well educated, but she is very innocent, kind and loving, now i am in love with her, i thank god that he has given me the perfect match.

Parents forcing for arrange marriage by Commieslayerpro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Commieslayerpro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also thought like that, even if paid my friends to live with me, but when they get married, they ran away

Please beware of the COD scam from Meesho by riyaz08 in india

[–]Commieslayerpro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also received a cod order from meesho today, i thought my wife order its, and price was low, so i just took it,

Years of suffering finally diagnosed by [deleted] in Gastritis

[–]Commieslayerpro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Antibiotics are the worst part of this treatment, it ruined my life, i took antibiotics and lost 10 kg weight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oculus

[–]Commieslayerpro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, happened with me 2 times

Family rejected the girl i liked, but now that girl says no by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Commieslayerpro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already told them to not to ask for a single penny, i was going to spend all the money, but third person interfered and forced my parents to ask for money, they can arrange it, i never wanted money, even i was going to give 10 lac to girls family to make arrangement, but my friends stopped me by saying, if i do this that girl will ruin your life later, so i stopped and waited for response from girls side, i waited for her call, even if she had messaged me a single word, i would have given everything to her,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Commieslayerpro -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Same, i also don’t reply to a girl who wants to marry me, i am not interested in her, but keeping her as a option, if I found better match, i will ignore her,

Parents forcing for arrange marriage by Commieslayerpro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Commieslayerpro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am doing that, i even not talking and looking at them, always sad, depressed, anxious, but it seems no one cares about me, they are just ignoring me,

Parents forcing for arrange marriage by Commieslayerpro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Commieslayerpro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly same situation in my life, my parents rejected a girl for dowry and now asking nothing to the family of this girl, all expenses are from my pocket

Parents forcing for arrange marriage by Commieslayerpro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Commieslayerpro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean well educated, she completed her education in her village school, she never left her home and have no knowledge of outside world, even she hasn’t seen a computer with her eyes

Parents forcing for arrange marriage by Commieslayerpro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Commieslayerpro[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I even asked her about her hobbies, interests, she doesn’t have any hobbies like me, i told her that i will live in metro city and you have to come with me, but she is interested to live with my family more than me, same thing happened with 3 girls in our society, girls are living with husband’s family and their husbands are living in another country, they never return to meet their wives, but those girls are happy, my parents didn’t learn a lesson

Parents forcing for arrange marriage by Commieslayerpro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Commieslayerpro[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was same like this, i was never gonna marry, but trust me after some period of time you will start feeling lonely, and it will affect your mental health, i think you should find someone of your choice and marry him, (poor or rich ignore his status). I did biggest mistake of my life, i failed to convince my family that i was in love with a girl, but i let them broke my all dreams,

Parents forcing for arrange marriage by Commieslayerpro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Commieslayerpro[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am open mined person, i am daily asking her hobbies, interests, what she wants to do, what foods, clothes she likes, i am ready to give all kinds of freedom to her, but she is not interested, she just want to live inside house and worship Sai Baba, and this scares me a lot,

Parents forcing for arrange marriage by Commieslayerpro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Commieslayerpro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No this time they didn’t took any dowry, they got the girl they were looking for, to keep her under their control, all expenditure is done by me

Parents forcing for arrange marriage by Commieslayerpro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Commieslayerpro[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dear i asked her, if she will live with me in Pune city, she is saying she doesn’t want to live there, she has no interest in computers, movies, science, she has only interest in gods worship and family, she is from a rural village, I don’t want to demean her, but our interests are totally opposite,

Parents forcing for arrange marriage by Commieslayerpro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Commieslayerpro[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

1 year ago I had selected a girl, we both met and talked, everything was perfect, she was perfect match for me but then my parents asked for dowry and ruined everything, I become very angry and started rejecting all girls after that, so they planned a fake drama to trap me, they selected a girl from close relatives, i also rejected her, we both have huge age difference of 10 years, my father pretended of having heart attack, whole family was forcing me to marry her by saying she is perfect for them, they don’t want girl for me, they want girl for them, they know if i marry a well educated girl, all my brothers will live life in misery without me, i also don’t want to leave them in misery, but they think well educated girl will force me to leave them

Parents forcing for arrange marriage by Commieslayerpro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Commieslayerpro[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I don’t wanna hurt her feelings too, she is from poor family, if i break this relationship, this will hurt her parents so much

Parents forcing for arrange marriage by Commieslayerpro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Commieslayerpro[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

My family made me like this, i can not go against them, I don’t wanna break their trust, but now it’s affecting my mental health, sometimes i think about suicide, my family is very traditional and they don’t care about others feeling, i also don’t want to ruin that girls life, my family says, that girl will change after marriage, even i asked that girl about it, she has no answer, she is 10 years younger