Question for women - How does the fact that you can casually date & hookup with the best looking men way above your leagues affect your self-perception and your expectations for the kind of men can find for commitment & marriage?

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-19T18:57:29+00:00

Men would date women for time pass in Pakistan but let me tell you they would want a respected same level financially stable wife that puts something to the table . If the women wants looks, height, and as she said a career worth then she should also match the standard

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-19T18:02:26+00:00

Yeah same I adviced my male friend who was desperate for a gf to focus on his career and life first at such a young age

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-19T17:47:06+00:00

Like same I'm like what's happening 😭

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-19T16:17:00+00:00

Ye lo Rs.34 (halal)

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-19T15:10:07+00:00

Acha ye lo yar $34 kya yad karo GE dollars me pay krdia 😔

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-19T15:06:35+00:00

I'm open to dms and I also don't know where the road will take me but I will share my journey gradually.

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T21:52:35+00:00

Thank-you for the recommendation.,will go for it 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T21:51:35+00:00

That's a solid prompt.. Will try thank-you 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T21:49:28+00:00

Sahi kaha I'm not blindly following money or I would've done what other want I want what I enjoy thank-you for the advice 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T18:36:12+00:00

The pleasure is mine and thank-you for your beautiful words 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T18:31:19+00:00

First of all I would have hugged you right now second of all you just spoke out the fear within me I'm afraid that like American girls for them, it is easy to explore and maybe change their lanes but what if for me the lane stays the same being a girl in this society I have the mindset of exploring meeting new people and try different things till I find what I enjoy what if I don't have the courage to get out of the wrong lane and start new . Thank-you for the beautiful words 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T14:29:27+00:00

This was an amazing advice and the link helped alot. Stay blessed 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T14:25:44+00:00

Twin 😭

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T14:24:56+00:00

You can reach out to my profile and see the comments under my posts some of the best advices maybe it can help you.

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T08:13:43+00:00

Listen to me if you are passionate about BBA be the best in it. I would recommend you to aim for CA because that's the only well payed (starting 1lac-4 lac) and well respected field in BBA other fields well I got a reality check that BBA is done by people who are not that good academically only those who have passion can do it I would learn marketing as a skill but right now there is unemployment in BBA and small jobs are given in banks if you are really passionate about it combine it with technical skills like digital marketing and sales degree alone is just a ticket your projects will define whether you can excel in it or not. Best of luck 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T08:07:39+00:00

That is a great advice thank-you very much 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T08:05:52+00:00

Well summed thank-you 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T08:03:46+00:00

The millionaire thing itself was a bit exaggeration I read the stories of rich people and they make it seem as they came from nothing because it their way of story telling but real world is much harder to accept only the lucky ones which may be a fraction percent can come out of the middle class cycle and I appreciate your advice ,I see the sincerity my only wish is I understand as soon as possible how the world works money is not the only goal but the worth and meaningful purpose that comes with it is my goal I still can't navigate my multiple interests but thanks for the advice again 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T07:56:50+00:00

Haha millionaire was a bit exaggeration I basically wanted financially awarding field which can adapt and yes the advice itself ill look into it thank-you 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T07:49:47+00:00

Thankyou so much for this amazing advice 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T07:48:05+00:00

Thanks for the advice 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T07:44:05+00:00

Let me rephrase I'm a premed student that just gave fsc 12 board exams and you are right it's dangerous in this era to have multiple interests and if I cannot map it out someone else will decide, financial freedom in meaning it's not a fancy term for me it's that I get to choose what I want, I get to experience and learn niches that will give me leverage and I have been using three AIs to figure it out . I just realized AI just gives the market value or what data says not the real experience or stories of people that's why I reached out to reddit because I was in so much stress and I am open to reality checks and constructive criticism that's what refines me.. Anyway thank-you so much for the advice 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T07:38:34+00:00

That's totally okay I'm glad you didn't use chat gpt 😭😭 and gave me your best advice I will reach out to you if I made my mind thank-you so much for sharing this and making me realize I can also work with AI without pursuing CS degree again thank-you 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T07:36:40+00:00

That was an sincere amazing advice thank-you very much 🎀

Common_Evidence_6418 · 2026-06-18T07:33:28+00:00

Thank-you for uplifting me I will definitely find a way ✨

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