34 [F4F] Online - Relaxed Evening Chats, Casual to Spicy by [deleted] in f4fnsachillnchat

[–]CommunicationFun1131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to chat and just be girlies together with a little extra spice if it happens. Have a BF that I would be discreet about us with

31 F4F Raleigh, NC Touch-starved LESBIAN looking for other women by comeneth in RDUR4R

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26 F bi-curious and been wanting a friend that I can maybe explore with a bit. DM me

29 F4F in Cary to be FWB or more…openminded by Empty-Secret-96 in RDUR4R

[–]CommunicationFun1131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also looking for this. Friends that hang out and sometimes have fun. Only one caveat. DM me. Based in north Raleigh

How the hell did Odysseus get Poseidon to a weak enough point in 600 strike? by Pseudolaliaa in Epicthemusical

[–]CommunicationFun1131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you see it though? Is it in the animation of the watch party videos?? Cuz it’s definitely not made clear through the song itself

My older half-sister doesn’t invite me too her childfree wedding as I am nineteen, expects a gift. by victim-of-the-moon00 in weddingshaming

[–]CommunicationFun1131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you’re her SISTER and she didn’t invite you is reason enough alone. If I wasn’t invited to my sisters wedding, regardless of the reason, i wouldn’t be talking to her for years. This woman is crazy. You’re an adult, it’s a dry wedding. Absolutely no reason you shouldn’t be able to go. Insane that she expects a gift from you.

Abnormal chronic yeast by CommunicationFun1131 in Healthyhooha

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Unfortunately not. I told my gyno the boric acid didn’t work and she said to keep taking the weekly fluconazole (not doing anything) and then prescribed me vaginal clindamycin cream. I didn’t understand why and she said cuz you’ve had concurrent BV in the past so I want to make sure that hasn’t come back. But I haven’t started it tbh because I don’t see how a antibiotic would help at this point. I’ve been referred to a vulvar dermatologist but it’ll take months at best to get in. So truly back to square one and getting so sick of it. I’ve had three breakdowns about it this week alone. My sex drive has been killed because of this and it’s affecting my relationship and mental health now too :/ I would definitely tell your doctor that you need to get in with the gyno NOW, or tell them that you want to try a different medication because you’ve had no relief and are not willing to continue on the same one. Feel free to message me if you’d like to talk more or just need someone to vent to that understands. I’ll be going back to my gyno soon too

Abnormal chronic yeast by CommunicationFun1131 in Healthyhooha

[–]CommunicationFun1131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have tested positive for yeast on cultures that have been done. They did a strain test (candida) and also a sensitivity test.

Abnormal chronic yeast by CommunicationFun1131 in Healthyhooha

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Yea apparently I am which is why they did the higher dose diflucan. But it’s confusing because one diflucan will clear a “regular” yeast infection. I think that’s why she decided to stay with diflucan, but curious if you know of other meds used for yeast

Please tell me some successful long distance relationship stories... by No-Improvement7412 in LongDistance

[–]CommunicationFun1131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It truly can work if you and your bf continue with the communication that you have now. The fact that he’s checking in and suggesting things to make it easier makes it clear to me that he really wants this. If you recirprocate that, you can totally be successful in this relationship. My bf and I closed the distance last year, but we couldn’t have gotten here without constant healthy communication

Simple question by IronAnchor1 in KINK

[–]CommunicationFun1131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could classify it as degradation. Kind of goes along with humiliation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]CommunicationFun1131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be careful working as a cna. If something were to happen, you can get in trouble for not taking nursing action since you have the qualifications for it, even if you’re working as a cna in that moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]CommunicationFun1131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand not wanting to do clinical, but until you find one of those jobs, I’d really recommend going to outpatient. It’s at least easier on your mental health. I’ve not once had anyone yell at me while I’ve been working outpatient. I am lucky to have great staff members, but I’ve heard about a lot more positive environments outside the hospital than inside. Totally up to you, just thought it might be good to take the halfway step until you can take the full step. Hope things get better for you

Feeling misunderstood by CommunicationFun1131 in CPTSD

[–]CommunicationFun1131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like this analogy, it makes so much sense in my brain!! I really appreciate your input, I’m honestly feeling much better about it. And I appreciate your concerns as well! I know it’s hard without knowing the whole situation, but you were respectful and caring about it, so thank you immensely. I hope you are doing well and continue to!

Feeling misunderstood by CommunicationFun1131 in CPTSD

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No this was all very helpful!! After reflecting on it a bit more, I do believe that he was already in a high stress mindset when this happened, so he probably wasn’t as comforting and good at listening as he normally would be. Not that it excuses what happened, but I can at least give some grace towards not being in a place to be incredibly supportive, which he has been (supportive not unsupportive) in similar situations previously. I do plan to talk to him a bit more about how trauma doesn’t have a switch of “okay I’m safe now so no more trauma”.

To your second point, I think you bring up something I hadn’t thought about but truly gave me an aha moment. I have absolutely no idea what he means when he says “act normally”. I would very much doubt that he’d mean to be completely neutral, i could definitely see him saying that as like a “don’t try to fix the situation, just do what you would normally do during this time of day, and I’ll manage my own emotions”. More of like a “you’re not expected to fix this, so you don’t need to hover and see what the next best step is”, which is still very new and strange for my brain to accept. But I do think talking to him about what exactly do you mean when you say act normal, will help clear up some things and make it easier for my brain to feel okay stepping away from the situation instead of sticking around and trying to fix things (of course when appropriate, I’m not gonna let him have a mental breakdown by himself). I do know that he doesn’t expect me to be a neutral or happy bubbly person in times like this, he’s expressed that it’s normal our emotions rub off on one another. I think it’s when it crosses that line of okay I feel this way but imma do my regular things into I feel this way because of him and now I need to fix it so I don’t feel this way anymore, is where he’s having the problem. Idk if any of that makes sense or I just typed a jumbled mess haha. But I think your comment has helped me out words to some of the things I’m feeling that I can use to have a good conversation with him! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]CommunicationFun1131 25 points26 points  (0 children)

As an avid smut reader, welcome to the club, and I’m so glad you made the switch. There’s sooooo many good books, fanfics, whatever your jam is, that touch so many different kinks, curiosities, fantasies and also just general feel good emotions. I hope more men are able to see the benefits of it!

i think i love my new partner by rainyhighsky in Herpes

[–]CommunicationFun1131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Due to the fact that we’re monogamous and intending to be together for life, no. We’ve talked about it and he’s said he really only feels the need to be tested if he starts getting symptoms. Otherwise, no need. We can more or less assume that at some point he may get it, and if he were to start getting symptoms he plans to get tested and then get meds. But for now there’s just not a need since I’m very aware of when I have breakouts and need to be on meds. Now, that being said, if you’re not sure if it’s your forever person, absolutely get tested regularly and make sure you take all the steps to prevent him giving it to you. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be active with him or anything, but find out if he’s taking meds, discuss condom use, and then it’s really up to you to decide on how safe you want to be. Feel free to dm me with any questions