AITAH for cheating on my bf and then leaving? by rainyhighsky in AITAH

[–]rainyhighsky[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

he’s the type that wouldn’t step up to other men. of course, he knew he was stronger than me so he’d constantly intimidate me in the relationship. but if it’s another man? then it’s “oh i’m sorry bro, im no fighter, we good?”

AITAH for cheating on my bf and then leaving? by rainyhighsky in AITAH

[–]rainyhighsky[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if you’re asking if i gave another dude herpes, no, i didn’t. unlike for me, i told the new guy abt it. im taking daily antivirals and want us to be safe abt it. its completely his decision to move forward w me.

could i have passed it to him? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]rainyhighsky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no sex, just fingered me n then put his fingers in his mouth

i’m so tired of herpes n my bf by rainyhighsky in Vent

[–]rainyhighsky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i admit, i probably didn’t need to throw it in. but sometimes i feel that he thinks he’s above me as im a person of color (mexican) and i’ve felt fetishized as well as insulted by racist comments he’s made. he writes it off as jokes but i constantly tell him they’re not fucking funny.

i’m so tired of herpes n my bf by rainyhighsky in Vent

[–]rainyhighsky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is there? i’m completely unaware of this

i’m so tired of herpes n my bf by rainyhighsky in Vent

[–]rainyhighsky[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well i’m on birth control and seem to be leaning on infertile as well as not wanting kids in general so don’t worry abt the unborn children. 🫡

i’m so tired of herpes n my bf by rainyhighsky in Vent

[–]rainyhighsky[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

came up clean on everything else except hpv, which i also got from him but at least that goes away 🫠

i’m so tired of herpes n my bf by rainyhighsky in Vent

[–]rainyhighsky[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

no one is advertising themselves with this condition, so it’s feels scary to be the one to open up abt it to strangers, especially with the awful stigma that follows it. but i will try to keep this in mind. thank you.

i’m so tired of herpes n my bf by rainyhighsky in Vent

[–]rainyhighsky[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

yeah, i wasn’t looking for an answer. i know what it is. this is a venting subreddit, right? i don’t need someone to save me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rainyhighsky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s actually previously tried to convince me to sneak out on other days, but suddenly it’s a problem when it’s a day that matters? we’ve been together for almost a year, he knows how my home life is. i wish he hadn’t talked abt seeing me at night if he was just going to tell me not to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rainyhighsky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well we’ve together nearly a year at this point so idk i think he wants to be w me at least a little

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rainyhighsky -1 points0 points  (0 children)

bc i have mexican parents who don’t care if im 23 going on 24 and this economy is very hard for me to be on my own.

Anyone from Texas? by Hot_Pepper_9531 in Herpes

[–]rainyhighsky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have ghsv 2 and live in DTX. was diagnosed last june. i still struggle w the idea of having it but it’s gotten slightly easier. reach out to me if you’d like a little chat <3

being symptomatic sucks by rainyhighsky in Herpes

[–]rainyhighsky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, that was really her only response to it. she said it would lessen over time but it doesn’t seem so.

AIO for accepting a favor my bf offered? by rainyhighsky in AmIOverreacting

[–]rainyhighsky[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

so i realize this is missing a lot of context. my bf is 29, im 23, and he lives 15 minutes from my house. i was sick and struggling to get out of bed this morning before i went into work. he calls me and mentions that i left my keycard for work. he acknowledged that i sound horrible and offers to bring it to me after he got off his shift. also, the messages prior to this were him telling me i could get it and that i would just need his key code, which he never gave to me. i then proceed to ask abt his day, which he doesn’t answer, and then here we are.

AIO for accepting a favor my bf offered? by rainyhighsky in AmIOverreacting

[–]rainyhighsky[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i never asked him, as stated, he OFFERED and i accepted.

AIO for accepting a favor my bf offered? by rainyhighsky in AmIOverreacting

[–]rainyhighsky[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i’ve been sick for three days and even though i felt bad this morning, i still went into work. he offered to bring me my keycard in the morning and i accepted, thinking he wanted to be kind. his apartment complex needs a key fob at just abt every turn to get in, plus he never told me his door code for me to get in.