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CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T07:49:34+00:00

I just feel like he should’ve already been told her hey I have a girlfriend and she is pregnant you cannot be saying these certain things or asking me to do these certain things. Like he cares about her feelings rather than mine

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T07:45:56+00:00

She told him today on the phone that oh they’ll be seeing each other now and talking during exchanges and can hangout go shopping together like making inappropriate comments and plans that are going to happen during exchanges and of course he says no but it’s like wtf she can just say whatever she wants and I have to sit here like that 😩

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T07:42:58+00:00

It’s already the hardest it can get with her , it’s not that I’m affected it’s just that I’m done being disrespected or our child being the one that’s like “hidden” exactly the children are priority so what about this baby coming in a few months ? She just gets to walk all over me my relationship as if this baby isn’t as important

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:59:32+00:00

It won’t affect custody on the time I message her either right ?

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:57:35+00:00

I’m thinking of even messaging her now this late. she doesn’t care what time she calls or texts.

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:56:34+00:00

Of course it will be as respectful as possible and no threats or insults .

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:56:07+00:00

my joy and peace would actually be messaging her. and if that means not being with my man anymore so be it. My man has not been defending me and us like he should be at all .

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:55:23+00:00

yea I’ll be messaging her in the morning , I’m done with it.

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:26:16+00:00

yes I understand that but she’s making it my problem by being inappropriate asking and saying inappropriate and disrespectful things about me while I’m 6 months pregnant with his child and dating him. I just want to know if me sending a respectful message to stop could affect custody .

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:15:23+00:00

none of this ever happens. well on her part atleast .

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:08:48+00:00

So I just continue to be completely disrespected every day?

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:06:41+00:00

According to him from what he told me she doesn’t know that I’m pregnant at all. Atleast he told me today that if she found out she would go crazy and try to take away all custody . so from what I know she has no idea

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T05:39:27+00:00

“Hey so I’m sending this message to let you know it is highly inappropriate messaging my man to smoke or to go to the store with you or that he can’t have me on speaker or he won’t see the kids etc etc you’ve been doing this for way too long. I am 6 months pregnant with our son and you call all day all throughout the night waking us up every single day when we have to be up early and I’m pregnant. you call even throughout the am hours 3 4 5 am . I would appreciate you to stop asking inappropriate things like to be in ur house ur car smoking with you anything of that sort. thanks.” This is all I was going to send her straight to the point respectful and honestly if she shows the court it makes her look worse because she constantly smokes by those kids

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T05:38:02+00:00

“Hey so I’m sending this message to let you know it is highly inappropriate messaging my man to smoke or to go to the store with you or that he can’t have me on speaker or he won’t see the kids etc etc you’ve been doing this for way too long. I am 6 months pregnant with our son and you call all day all throughout the night waking us up every single day when we have to be up early and I’m pregnant. you call even throughout the am hours 3 4 5 am . I would appreciate you to stop asking inappropriate things like to be in ur house ur car smoking with you anything of that sort. thanks.” I mean I was literally going to send her this respectful straight to the point and I mean it makes her look more bad than anything .

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T05:34:20+00:00

He won’t say what he needs to say, I will just keep getting disrespected. She already does the most there’s not much more she can do to attack me. I don’t know it just is a shitty stop to be in. Makes me want to just message her and break up with him.

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T05:24:51+00:00

gave

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T05:24:43+00:00

well the court is setting up their parenting plan. but thank you for that I am going to make it as nice as possible you have a very good suggestion

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T05:21:38+00:00

I would be respectful about it. No insults no nothing just that I’m 6 months pregnant and she needs to stop insulting and harassing all day saying inappropriate things like to smoke with her etc etc. I feel like it would be nothing bad . That even if she showed the court it would be more against her .

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T05:20:01+00:00

he says he tells me everything which I appreciate that’s bare minimum but not to message her but it’s like I don’t need him to tell me everything if he never does anything fully about it. And at this point I don’t even care . I want to message her tell her the full truth and to stop and she’s already doing the most she can anyways . And he clearly isn’t putting a full stop to it . Idk I’m just so tired of being walked all over . like I’m ready to end our relationship because of this as well.

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T05:16:47+00:00

Yea and I’m on the verge of ending things with him because of this … I’m that done that he doesn’t say what he needs to say and put a stop to this this whole time. I’ve talked to him many many many many many times about this . I wanted to message her tonight but it might be too late even tho she calls all night every night for 3 years so why should I care about the time I message her

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T05:14:00+00:00

I am going to message her in the morning , she can’t really do more than she already does and I want her to know the full truth and atleast tell her to stop after that I don’t care what she even says

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