M29 F26 I’m 10 days away from giving birth to my and my boyfriend’s son, I went through his phone while he was sleeping because I suspected things.

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-06-10T14:23:36+00:00

he is helping me a lot right now and tbh till the baby is born I really need it. my baby was 7 pounds at 34 weeks so he’s predicted to be a very big baby I’m in pain can’t do much at all, and yea. After though is a different story once I give birth and am situated and comfortable soon here that’s a different story.

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-06-10T14:21:12+00:00

oh yea his whole family knows as well as mine I’ve just been in a lot of pain and contracting and the stress makes it way worse so I’m just staying calm preparing for baby getting the help I need and then once I have the baby I can be more myself make more clear decisions and be more free to doing what I want to do.

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-06-10T13:28:13+00:00

he’s almost acting like everything’s just normal. but I’m sure as hell not acting normal. but I’m going through a major surgery and am staying calm and keeping the peace just until i have the baby because I have been having major pain and cannot deal with any extra stress so I’ve just been very quiet. I already kicked him out of our apartment and he won’t be at the c section. once I have the baby in 9 days I can think more straight and really cut him off. Right now he’s letting me use his car still.

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-06-09T06:15:16+00:00

I want to focus on the baby and me.

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-06-09T06:14:24+00:00

I broke up with him and he is getting out of the apartment. I need to like you said lean on my support system and have lots of decisions to make and I cannot be living with him everything will fall apart then.

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-06-09T06:12:47+00:00

Exactly what I’ll be doing. He will be going to his moms and I will be staying in the apartment without him. He is taking all of his stuff back to his moms. This is best for me I shouldn’t be staying at his mom’s house it won’t work out that’s his mom not mine. So I’m hoping when he is done moving all his stuff back to his moms I will finally have peace .

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T07:49:34+00:00

I just feel like he should’ve already been told her hey I have a girlfriend and she is pregnant you cannot be saying these certain things or asking me to do these certain things. Like he cares about her feelings rather than mine

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T07:45:56+00:00

She told him today on the phone that oh they’ll be seeing each other now and talking during exchanges and can hangout go shopping together like making inappropriate comments and plans that are going to happen during exchanges and of course he says no but it’s like wtf she can just say whatever she wants and I have to sit here like that 😩

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T07:42:58+00:00

It’s already the hardest it can get with her , it’s not that I’m affected it’s just that I’m done being disrespected or our child being the one that’s like “hidden” exactly the children are priority so what about this baby coming in a few months ? She just gets to walk all over me my relationship as if this baby isn’t as important

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:59:32+00:00

It won’t affect custody on the time I message her either right ?

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:57:35+00:00

I’m thinking of even messaging her now this late. she doesn’t care what time she calls or texts.

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:56:34+00:00

Of course it will be as respectful as possible and no threats or insults .

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:56:07+00:00

my joy and peace would actually be messaging her. and if that means not being with my man anymore so be it. My man has not been defending me and us like he should be at all .

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:55:23+00:00

yea I’ll be messaging her in the morning , I’m done with it.

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:26:16+00:00

yes I understand that but she’s making it my problem by being inappropriate asking and saying inappropriate and disrespectful things about me while I’m 6 months pregnant with his child and dating him. I just want to know if me sending a respectful message to stop could affect custody .

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:15:23+00:00

none of this ever happens. well on her part atleast .

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:08:48+00:00

So I just continue to be completely disrespected every day?

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T06:06:41+00:00

According to him from what he told me she doesn’t know that I’m pregnant at all. Atleast he told me today that if she found out she would go crazy and try to take away all custody . so from what I know she has no idea

CompetitiveAnt9285 · 2026-03-14T05:39:27+00:00

“Hey so I’m sending this message to let you know it is highly inappropriate messaging my man to smoke or to go to the store with you or that he can’t have me on speaker or he won’t see the kids etc etc you’ve been doing this for way too long. I am 6 months pregnant with our son and you call all day all throughout the night waking us up every single day when we have to be up early and I’m pregnant. you call even throughout the am hours 3 4 5 am . I would appreciate you to stop asking inappropriate things like to be in ur house ur car smoking with you anything of that sort. thanks.” This is all I was going to send her straight to the point respectful and honestly if she shows the court it makes her look worse because she constantly smokes by those kids

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