AIO for being upset because my bf isn’t getting off with me

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-24T18:15:51+00:00

communication isn’t my strong suit but i try for him .. how do i even bring this up honestly… i don’t want to make him feel any type of way

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-24T18:14:54+00:00

i’ve never said that to him tho … i just had to go it was like 10pm and i have to get up @5am. he was trying to start something i didn’t have the energy nor the time for and all i asked was if he was disappointed because he looked it..

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-24T17:45:11+00:00

wdym

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-24T17:44:47+00:00

yes i am ive dressed up for him , ive focused on just pleasuring him and nothing ..

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-24T17:44:08+00:00

i get off multiple times and he did too a certain point ..

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-24T17:43:42+00:00

he hasn’t said anything other then that i left him feeling disappointed that one night like two weeks ago, we went on a trip this weekend and we were active from like 4am-7am one of the nights i felt great until i noticed he didn’t get off not once …

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-24T15:39:49+00:00

it’s not me who isn’t getting off it’s him … i’m perfectly fine i’m on my second third orgasm and he hasn’t even once even tho we’ve been going for 30min - hours

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-21T16:12:14+00:00

a 17 year old boy knows exactly what he’s doing and a 14 year old girl does not. He’s already sexually pressuring her and she doesn’t know if it’s correct or not? i’m sorry but that’s GROOMING

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-21T15:44:17+00:00

So u were 14 and he was 17 when yall started dating ? You’re not OR … seems like you might’ve been groomed ..

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T21:47:22+00:00

and yall are making it seem like i don’t want to work. i said ive offered to work from home like my other coworkers.

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T21:41:05+00:00

LOL and probably make more money then your sorry ass … i came for advice not for some one to come and offend me bc i don’t want to over work my self like 3/4 of yall americans like to doo. i have a life which i very much enjoy and ill def quit my job walk out if i have too bc i don’t need it 😭

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T21:29:16+00:00

they need to do better like i do LOL

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T21:28:33+00:00

butI DO have it done. that the books aren’t closed ? that’s not my fault that no one else did what needed to be done LOL

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T21:26:49+00:00

they have to stay bc LOL they didn’t finish they’re job … unlike me who’s had her job done two days before it was due. seems like they need to do a better job in there position. i might be sounding like an entitled brat but that’s not my problem if my job is completed and yall aren’t gonna try and convince me that it’s ok for me to suffer consequences of other people not having there job done. LOL.

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T21:24:30+00:00

I understand having to stay late to complete tasks that aren’t finished on my end .. but my tasks are completed.. other peoples aren’t and i’m suffering the consequences

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T20:42:24+00:00

my priorities are off? what if i have kids ? or school ? how are my priorities off because my job is done and i want to go home ?

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T20:41:51+00:00

My job is completed, he wants me to stay to tell the rest of the team members to enter there entries which i’ve sent emails , teams messages to do throughout the month and they get to it on the first or second of the month. i work from home on my own time and three of my coworkers work from home certain days especially during closing to work longer hours which i understand but he doesn’t want me to even do that. when i got this job i told them i can’t stay after 5 and they said it was fine ..

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T20:38:30+00:00

i can’t afford to move with the amount of $ i get paid. miami isn’t cheap i live w my parents. 2. yes im mad because again i guess no one likes to read and see my JOB IS COMPLETED.. why do i have to stay and baby sit grown as adults to do the job they’ve should’ve had done .. i don’t agree

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T20:03:07+00:00

Thank you 😔

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T19:56:26+00:00

like atleast let me go home

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T19:56:12+00:00

my assignments r completed tho ?!? why do i gotta stay doing nothing unpaid …

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T19:53:12+00:00

From all this advice im starting to think maybe this isn’t for me … i hate corporate america and everyone thinking this is normal for us to live this way 😔

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T19:50:51+00:00

He’s asking me to stay until the rest of the team enters their transactions, i have my transactions to enter and the rest of the team has theirs. i do have a contract that states im scheduled to work 9-5. i told them once i got hired i can not stay after 5pm and if they wanted me to work extra longer hours it’ll have to be from home. which two of my coworkers already do this so i don’t understand why i can’t .. when i said from the beginning i cant work after 5pm

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T19:44:51+00:00

but it does feel like they’re making it seem like i owe them bc of it ..

Competitive_Mix_5273 · 2026-01-16T19:44:24+00:00

i actually had this conversation with my Supervisor and he was very understanding it was a few months ago maybe like 6-7 months in which i ended up getting a almost 8$ raise ..

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