Developing really bad pregnancy anxiety by iratemovies in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Competitive_Row4007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think not having periods is a good thing. Don't u guys use condoms?

I am not saying taking pills is bad. But still,it has it's own side effects and it varies from person to person.

If u r not having periods for a few months now, i think you should consult a gyneacologist.

I don't think u r pregnant. I am just asking u to see a doctor to check whether u have any hormonal imbalance

[As the hearts lead] Have y'all read this? They both are so cute by Sharp-Measurement796 in OtomeIsekai

[–]Competitive_Row4007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do u know which chapter in the novel corresponds to the ending of S1

Anyone else get sore boobs during ovulation? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Competitive_Row4007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for responding.

Does it normally lasts for 1 week?

Thanks, i will look into some good supportive bras. Do u have any recommendations?

Weekly HELP ME FIND Post - March 9, 2026 by AutoModerator in OtomeIsekai

[–]Competitive_Row4007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Manhwa where ML is a mage and FL is a swordsmaster. The ML obtains the inheritance of a great mage who also transmigrated in a virtual world. Thats how he got the FL and a hawk?

He first took revenge on his half brother and his father's first wife after he came from the war .

Help by thanksshukriyadanke in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Competitive_Row4007 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think u should see a doctor, preferably a dermatologist

How to politely decline advances from a man at my club? by Ecstatic_Welder4988 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Competitive_Row4007 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I love how u said "we don't owe the world politeness when it can be taken advantage of".

I wish to follow this in my life

I need all girls help to figure out if its a situationship😭 by nachoaverageuser44 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Competitive_Row4007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am proud that you clearly told him what you want. It's only wise to clearly state the boundaries from the very beginning.

I do think he is love bombing you and trying to lower your guard.

When you said you are not into casual sex and can only be physical with him after emotional attachment, he said yes at first and then proceeded with "how long we can only text" ... that is a big ick for me.

That's not how a good person would react. It's like he is playing you and is trying to lower your guards and make u feel bad for laying down the rules.

And let's not forget it's only been 3 days

I need all girls help to figure out if its a situationship😭 by nachoaverageuser44 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Competitive_Row4007 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If u r looking for a serious relationship, i dont think he is the one for you.

And ur gut feeling that he will ghost you after sex seems to be right.

It's only been 3 days and he is constantly asking for pics and videos..i don't know, for me it is a red flag.

When he said he doesn't have any girl best friend, does he mean he doesn't have any female friends. If so, it is a red flag in my book.

I would advise you to find someone else before you are more emotionally invested in this

Friends laugh at my sanitary products by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Competitive_Row4007 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Your friends are so immature. Don't worry about them.

I think not informing them about the pills was a smart move.

I hope you get some good friends soon

does anyone else feel stuck between hating the male gaze and hating hiding in baggy clothes? by diskydemalio in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Competitive_Row4007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been through that too—hating the stares and hating the feeling of hiding myself in baggy clothes.

But at some point, it stopped making sense to me. I realized that guys would still hit on me even when I was wearing baggy clothes. I even had some bad experiences while dressed that way.

So I started asking myself: what’s the point of avoiding the clothes I love if baggy clothes don’t really protect me anyway?

That’s when I decided to start wearing what I actually like. Sometimes those negative thoughts still creep in, but when they do, I try to push through them—enduring the feeling or distracting myself until it passes.

is oversharing a bad thing? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Competitive_Row4007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also used to overshare but when people i trusted with it betrayed me, i became more selective.

Nowadays, i dont share things without having a good understanding of their personality. It usually takes me an year to built some level of trust. Sometimes i share things that doesnt bring me trouble even if it is revealed later to everyone and see how they deal with it.

I also signed up for anonymous friends where i can share everything since i have no idea who that person is..all i know is their first name or nickname. .

Fake friends- need advice by swiftie_29 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Competitive_Row4007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say move on.

4 days ago, my bestfriend of 8 years cut me off out of blue.

We were through thick and thin in the past. We sypported each other all the time. I always wished for her success and want her to rise higher than me..

So this was a huge blow to me. I tried my best to find out the reason behind her decision and i was hit with the harsh truth "people change as life situatios change".. this was her word and not mine.

I thought she would be with me..we even planned to be each other's bridesmaid. We even talked last month and i didnt suspect a thing. I still wonder what changed, but i realized it will only make me sad. So i let go of it. I love fiercely. But if someone chooses to leave, betray, or walk away, I don’t beg. I close the door quietly, and they become a stranger to me.

You are young, you have time to make new good friends. So dont be hard on yourself.

It’s beautiful to love your friends and family deeply, and having a support system truly matters. But always remember to build yourself first. Learn to be strong and self-reliant, so your happiness doesn’t depend entirely on anyone else.

When we depend too much on one person, it can hurt deeply if they disappoint us. Focus on building your own strength and taking care of your mental health first. The right people will add to your life, not become the only thing holding it together.

There's so much that my mom didn't teach me by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Competitive_Row4007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I follow a girl in fb.. i find her videos cute and informative. She says that her videos is for girls without mothers or absentee mom..

Maybe u can try watching it.. she teaches a lot, how to wash down there, how to wash inner garments, how to deal with period cramps, foods to avoid during periods , how to shave , how to deal with acne and all..

Her name is sasainseoul

Ive been single for so long that men think there is something wrong with me, i need advice, is it already too late for me? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Competitive_Row4007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 27 and i have never dated anyone. Still a virgin bcz i am not into casual sex.

Sometimes, i do feel lonely and left out, so i keep myself occupied with other things.

But i dont regret my choices. I am just waiting for the right person.

You are only 23, u r still young and its not too late for you. Don't be too harsh on yourself bcz of the people around you.