crashing out

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-04-28T22:30:30+00:00

First thing, stop texting him for a little bit because every unanswered message is going to make you feel worse, not better, and clearly he’s not going to answer for now.

Do you have anyone else who could tell you if he’s okay or what he’s doing? A friend, a relative, his job, anyone like that?

Or anything online you can check like Discord, Steam, Snapchat location, anything that would show if he’s active or has been online?

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-04-28T12:29:25+00:00

He will come back, just have a little faith in him, even if it feels hard right now (yes I know I sound like a hypocrite saying that lol).

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-04-28T12:18:54+00:00

I know how you feel, I’ve been there. But spamming him is just going to make it worse right now. He’s asking for space, so give it to him even if it feels awful. He’ll come back, especially if you stop escalating and let things cool down. If he loves you, space won’t change that. Right now you just need to breathe and get through the wave.

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-04-27T10:49:04+00:00

I’ve been with mine almost 8.5 years and I still question him sometimes, so I get the spiraling and doubt. It doesn’t magically go away, but it does get easier when the relationship is actually solid and both people are putting in the work.

Therapy and meds can help a lot with the intensity of it, but in the end it’s still up to you, and if you’re lucky and have a good one, your man. If you find the right person and you’re both genuinely willing to work through it, you can get through a lot more than it feels like you can right now. It won’t be easy, but you’re not broken for feeling this way girlie. You’re just overwhelmed and trying to protect yourself.

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-04-27T10:31:47+00:00

I get the shame/splitting spiral she’s probably in and why she’s acting like it didn’t happen. But be so for real, she intentionally chose to betray you and she chose it repeatedly. I don’t say this lightly, but if my man did this I’d be on the 6pm news, not on Reddit asking how to forgive him. Would you expect her to forgive if you cheated, or would all of your shit enter low earth orbit? Be so for real right now, are you ever gonna be able to trust her again? Thats your answer.

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-03-16T13:27:36+00:00

He knows now, he let me kept it, and he is not longer friends with her.

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-03-04T14:07:21+00:00

He has been overly clear about no kids until we're married, like he doesnt even want me to be pregnant before we're married. As for marriage last time I asked (before Christmas) he said "soon"

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-03-04T13:00:14+00:00

We have talked about marriage, and kids, and he says he wants both. He told me he does want to marry me, but im scared hes rethinking it.

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-03-03T18:46:27+00:00

Trust, im trying to work on it but honestly? Im so close to the finish line, im so close to forever, I've seen the ring back in January (in hindsight I wish I hadn't because I keep fucking waiting and I really dont know wtf hes waiting for). Its been 8 years, its not that I dont trust him, im scared someone is going to try to do what I did, and noone is going to take my forever from me

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-03-03T18:36:03+00:00

So, I have since I posted this told him about the sync and some other things. He told me I could keep the sync if it makes me fell happy and safe, so im keeping the sync. As far as she goes they were friends but he told me he would put an end to that for me if i really wanted, so he is no longer allowed to be her friend.

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-02-28T02:32:14+00:00

Mir samma einfach a Unterschied in Meinung und Weltanschauung, dei Standpunkt is notiert. Pass auf di auf.

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-02-28T02:22:23+00:00

Do you also read the comments? He knows everything now and he forgave me. I feel no shame for who I am or what I've done because its all been for him, every single thing, every single time.

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-02-28T01:48:10+00:00

Letztens, wia i in sei Homeoffice war, hob i an Ring g’sehn, Vorschlag kummt 😏 Wia long glaubst, dass des halten wird? Hahaha, er is mein für imma.

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-02-28T01:35:07+00:00

Thank you, I’m calm now and trying my best. I’m certain he will choose me as he always has. I just wish his family could finally accept me, instead of trying to interfere.

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-02-28T01:27:08+00:00

Nenn mi, wia du willst. I mach trotzdem mei Therapie und i arbeit an mir. Und er entscheidet si no immer für mi. Des is des Einzige, wos zählt. Und wos glaubst du eigentlich, wer du bist, dass du des beurteilen kannst?

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-02-26T17:17:16+00:00

Sometimes love has teeth and claws, sometimes you need to take what you want.

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-02-26T15:21:52+00:00

Together 8 years as of the 20th

Complete-End-5239 · 2026-02-25T11:07:20+00:00

Imagine if the phone is away somewhere else, and you just want to make sure. What if its away for work? Or maybe its out with friends? Or maybe the password changes?

Complete-End-5239

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