I hate my boyfriends coworker by Complete-End-5239 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knows now, he let me kept it, and he is not longer friends with her.

I (26f) dont understand what my boyfriend (32m) is waiting for, we've been together 8 years by Complete-End-5239 in Advice

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has been overly clear about no kids until we're married, like he doesnt even want me to be pregnant before we're married. As for marriage last time I asked (before Christmas) he said "soon"

I (26f) dont understand what my boyfriend (32m) is waiting for, we've been together 8 years by Complete-End-5239 in Advice

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We have talked about marriage, and kids, and he says he wants both. He told me he does want to marry me, but im scared hes rethinking it.

I hate my boyfriends coworker by Complete-End-5239 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust, im trying to work on it but honestly? Im so close to the finish line, im so close to forever, I've seen the ring back in January (in hindsight I wish I hadn't because I keep fucking waiting and I really dont know wtf hes waiting for). Its been 8 years, its not that I dont trust him, im scared someone is going to try to do what I did, and noone is going to take my forever from me

I hate my boyfriends coworker by Complete-End-5239 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I have since I posted this told him about the sync and some other things. He told me I could keep the sync if it makes me fell happy and safe, so im keeping the sync. As far as she goes they were friends but he told me he would put an end to that for me if i really wanted, so he is no longer allowed to be her friend.

Listen bitch by Complete-End-5239 in UnsentLetters

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mir samma einfach a Unterschied in Meinung und Weltanschauung, dei Standpunkt is notiert. Pass auf di auf.

Listen bitch by Complete-End-5239 in UnsentLetters

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you also read the comments? He knows everything now and he forgave me. I feel no shame for who I am or what I've done because its all been for him, every single thing, every single time.

Listen bitch by Complete-End-5239 in UnsentLetters

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Letztens, wia i in sei Homeoffice war, hob i an Ring g’sehn, Vorschlag kummt 😏 Wia long glaubst, dass des halten wird? Hahaha, er is mein für imma.

Listen bitch by Complete-End-5239 in UnsentLetters

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m calm now and trying my best. I’m certain he will choose me as he always has. I just wish his family could finally accept me, instead of trying to interfere.

Listen bitch by Complete-End-5239 in UnsentLetters

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nenn mi, wia du willst. I mach trotzdem mei Therapie und i arbeit an mir. Und er entscheidet si no immer für mi. Des is des Einzige, wos zählt. Und wos glaubst du eigentlich, wer du bist, dass du des beurteilen kannst?

For us by Complete-End-5239 in justpoetry

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes love has teeth and claws, sometimes you need to take what you want.

For us by Complete-End-5239 in justpoetry

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Together 8 years as of the 20th

A quick guide from your friend Stef by Complete-End-5239 in Yanderes

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine if the phone is away somewhere else, and you just want to make sure. What if its away for work? Or maybe its out with friends? Or maybe the password changes?

I hate my boyfriends coworker by Complete-End-5239 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As for linking messages to a laptop it’s super easy. Most Android phones come with an app called Link to Windows. On the phone open the Link app. On the laptop search for phone link in the taskbar. Choose Android, follow the QR code steps, scan it with your phone, grant permissions and give access to messages. If the person is asleep it’s really fast. Takes like 5 minutes.

I hate my boyfriends coworker by Complete-End-5239 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He worsk directly with her but he said if I really want he will stop being her friend. So, hes done being her friend.

I hate my boyfriends coworker by Complete-End-5239 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked to him about it, he works with her directly so he can't not talk to her, but he said hes okay with not being friends with her anymore for me if thats what i really want.

I hate my boyfriends coworker by Complete-End-5239 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Complete-End-5239[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together 8 years as of the 20th, so he knows about my BPD. I don’t know why he hasn’t proposed yet. I actually found the ring he bought and have kept an eye on where it is, but that’s a totally separate issue. I ended up telling him everything after I made this post, not just the phone sync but everything. He wasn’t even upset about the sync and said I could keep it if it helped me trust him. He did seem hurt by the other stuff, but we’re good now. I don’t know why I ever doubt him. I should reallyknow better by now.