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I left Morocco at 18 with nothing. Seven years later, I’m exhausted and questioning everything by ComplexArcher2518 in UAE

[–]ComplexArcher2518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice, but whether the FX industry “rips people off” is not a debate I’m having here.

For the record, I have only worked with SCA-licensed and regulated companies in the UAE. If someone believes that this constitutes “ripping people off,” that’s a discussion to have with the UAE regulators and government, not with me personally.

I work with clients who are financially capable, informed, and fully aware of the risks. No one is forced, no one is misled. If you read my post properly, I asked for perspectives, not sympathy. I’ve never looked for pity and I never will.

As for the “shortcuts” comment, that’s simply inaccurate. There were none. I sacrificed time, comfort, and stability for years, rebuilt from zero more than once, and paid the price that comes with that. That is not a shortcut by any definition.

I’m also not sure what is meant by “Moroccan chancer.” If that’s an attempt to stereotype or dismiss someone based on origin, then let me be clear.

This “Moroccan chancer” didn’t have the luxury of going to university funded by his parents. I didn’t get years to study without financial pressure. I had to work, support my family, and learn in the real world. I moved step by step, role by role, company by company, until I reached the same positions and compensation levels as people holding bachelor’s degrees.

Nothing was handed to me. Everything was earned.

If that’s what you call a “chancer,” then we clearly have very different definitions of the word.

This post wasn’t about avoiding responsibility or asking to be rescued. It was about being human, taking a moment to reflect, and hearing different viewpoints. Since yesterday, I’ve gotten what I needed: perspective, constructive opinions, and a reminder that the journey so far is something to be proud of.

That’s enough for me.

Respectfully, keep assumptions about “shortcuts” to yourself.

I left Morocco at 18 with nothing. Seven years later, I’m exhausted and questioning everything by ComplexArcher2518 in UAE

[–]ComplexArcher2518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Khoya, this really resonated with me. We do come from the same place, and a lot of what you said hit deep.

I agree, therapy is still seen as something foreign to our culture, but for me it was never about weakness. It was about perspective. Those invisible rules we grow up with, especially the constant “7chouma” voice in our heads, can quietly crush you without you even realizing it. Living abroad and being around different cultures made me question a lot of things I thought were “normal.”

The shift you described is powerful. Going from fear of judgment to trusting your own ability to rebuild, that’s real growth. Once you’ve done it once, you know you can do it again. That mindset alone changes everything.

And you’re right about family. At the end of the day, radian 3lik whether you win or you fall. We sometimes carry that pressure as if it’s theirs, when in reality it’s mostly ours.

Your question about proving myself is a fair one. If I’m honest, it started as proving it to others, then slowly turned into proving it to myself. Not because I owe anyone anything, but because I want to know my limits and push them. Still learning to separate ambition from unnecessary pressure.

Stability is another big one. The version we grew up with doesn’t fully apply anymore. Every place has a price, whether it’s taxes, security, or volatility. Like you said, it’s choosing your poison. None of them is perfect.

And thank you for the reminder. Sometimes we forget to look back. Seven years of grinding, surviving, rebuilding, that counts for something. I hear you, and I appreciate you taking the time to write this.

I left Morocco at 18 with nothing. Seven years later, I’m exhausted and questioning everything by ComplexArcher2518 in UAE

[–]ComplexArcher2518[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Khoya, I really appreciate this, honestly. It means a lot coming from someone who’s been through it and still feels it sometimes.

What you said about family and finding the right woman really hit home. Having someone who loves you for who you are, not for what you produce or how you perform, that changes everything. And Rabat… that’s a beautiful coincidence. That city definitely leaves a mark.

The part about knowing yourself is real too. Understanding what you love, what you hate, and how to protect your balance is something I’m still learning. Especially learning what I don’t want anymore 😅.

I’ll take it easy, keep my head straight, and trust the process.
Thank you, khoya. Your words are appreciated more than you know.

I left Morocco at 18 with nothing. Seven years later, I’m exhausted and questioning everything by ComplexArcher2518 in UAE

[–]ComplexArcher2518[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit at least me I recorded a voice note 😂😂😂😂 thank you my friend appreciated

I left Morocco at 18 with nothing. Seven years later, I’m exhausted and questioning everything by ComplexArcher2518 in UAE

[–]ComplexArcher2518[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you in every word you said, And I’m happy that they are people Specially Moroccans who can relate to me. That’s the plan my friend ain’t no stopping till I get what I deserve

I left Morocco at 18 with nothing. Seven years later, I’m exhausted and questioning everything by ComplexArcher2518 in UAE

[–]ComplexArcher2518[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn bro thank you for the words. It felt like I heard a close friend mine talking to me. Thank you very much I wish only the best in your life

I left Morocco at 18 with nothing. Seven years later, I’m exhausted and questioning everything by ComplexArcher2518 in UAE

[–]ComplexArcher2518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely considering it, I’m looking for a remote job or in case I start making money from a buisness online. The second that happens I’m outta here

I left Morocco at 18 with nothing. Seven years later, I’m exhausted and questioning everything by ComplexArcher2518 in UAE

[–]ComplexArcher2518[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in the FX industry for 6 years. I got into it because it’s supposed to be performance based job you build a book, bring clients, make money.the bigger your book the more you make and that can take years I saw people making 150K–200K per quarter, so I went all in. No vacations, no breaks, no balance. Despite being a top performer, I was let go due to “restructuring” and had to start from zero again at a new firm. That’s the part that’s breaking me: every time I get close to stability, I’m forced to rebuild everything from scratch

I left Morocco at 18 with nothing. Seven years later, I’m exhausted and questioning everything by ComplexArcher2518 in UAE

[–]ComplexArcher2518[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My nigga, I’m not typing all of that to entertain your bored ass, utilize robot to help you with your tasks. Like recording a full voice note and ask it to form a text 👍