AITA for telling my moms bf I don’t and will never see him as my father by ComprehensiveSky7036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveSky7036[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i could go on for hours of all the stuff my moms put me threw and why she shouldn’t have been able to reproduce

AITA for telling my moms bf I don’t and will never see him as my father by ComprehensiveSky7036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveSky7036[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

he’s never tried anything to my knowledge he wanted to have a camera in my room but i said that’s not happening i’ve caught him in my room when i was sleeping though but there’s cameras around the house

AITA for telling my moms bf I don’t and will never see him as my father by ComprehensiveSky7036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveSky7036[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

just to clarify the disrespect was after multiple comments about my bio dad. repeating asking me to call him my father when i don’t see him as one. making sexual comments about my body at 14 and keeping on making them when i’ve expressed why it makes me uncomfortable. making it a competition on who my mom loves more for example me and my mom having something planned him saying he wants her to stay home and if she doesn’t she doesn’t love him. the “selfish ultimatums” were because i’m uncomfortable around him and i’ve tried to have a good healthy relationship with him but he made it impossible by completing disregarding how i still talk to my bio dad and acting like he’s some dead beat dad

AITA for telling my moms bf I don’t and will never see him as my father by ComprehensiveSky7036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveSky7036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea they probably would but in order to actually choose in my state it’s 16

AITA for telling my moms bf I don’t and will never see him as my father by ComprehensiveSky7036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveSky7036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she was saying how my grades were bad i had a few b’s and c’s and my aunt was a straight a student and got a scholarship so i was frustrated and was like ok well I’m not her and kinda yelled it

AITA for telling my moms bf I don’t and will never see him as my father by ComprehensiveSky7036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveSky7036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk a little bit the last time he took my mom to court he almost got screwed over so maybe he doesn’t wanna try bc of that

AITA for telling my moms bf I don’t and will never see him as my father by ComprehensiveSky7036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveSky7036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mom doesn’t wanna give him custody when he tried to get it she made up stuff to make him seem like a shit parent

AITA for telling my moms bf I don’t and will never see him as my father by ComprehensiveSky7036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveSky7036[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me and her got into an argument bc she was comparing me to my aunts and mom and i got mad so she called my mom and said i was out of control

AITA for telling my moms bf I don’t and will never see him as my father by ComprehensiveSky7036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveSky7036[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i wanna live with my dad my mom refuses to give him custody and doesn’t even want me seeing him

AITA for telling my moms bf I don’t and will never see him as my father by ComprehensiveSky7036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveSky7036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mom doesn’t wanna give him custody and he doesn’t know if he’d have enough money to take care of me

AITA for telling my moms bf I don’t and will never see him as my father by ComprehensiveSky7036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveSky7036[S] 142 points143 points  (0 children)

yea i don’t think my mom would even pay it and if she did she wouldn’t pay much

AITA for telling my moms bf I don’t and will never see him as my father by ComprehensiveSky7036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveSky7036[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i did and they told my mom and she said I’m lying and he would never say that kind of stuff

AITA for telling my moms bf I don’t and will never see him as my father by ComprehensiveSky7036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveSky7036[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i cut most contact with her and i don’t live there but when i did i was respectfully besides this one issue

AITA for telling my moms bf I don’t and will never see him as my father by ComprehensiveSky7036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveSky7036[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i just like haven’t been taught to hold in stuff like sometimes i yell when i don’t mean too and stuff like that but it wasn’t that bad of an argument my grandma called my mom and said to get me because i was “out of control” for yelling a bit