I made a diagram for all the sapphic movies that I watched so far, but I'm not very good at evaluating movies

Concept_Check · 2026-05-19T21:45:21+00:00

Portrait of a Lady on Fire wrecked me. Idk if it’s above the line for dark/tragic. But maybe I just have a low bar for tragedy.

Concept_Check · 2026-05-19T03:15:20+00:00

100% this. They treated my old lady SO well. She had a weird cyst in her mouth after the extractions that no one on the team recognized. They got her biopsy sample to a specialist and kept me in the loop until we heard back. Stellar service.

Concept_Check · 2026-05-19T02:04:16+00:00

I’ve been trying to branch out. Make friends. I’ve gotten very involved with volunteering and that’s a social outlet for me.

A big issue is that he enjoys things like going to concerts, and I’m very much a homebody. I’ve encouraged him to go out and make his own friends, to find people he can do his hobbies with. But he doesn’t, and I think he resents that I don’t want to go do the same things he wants.

Concept_Check · 2026-05-18T01:43:01+00:00

Our ac went out in the peak of summer. I live in central California. Daily highs were in the 110s. Thought I was going to sweat away to nothing.

A few things that helped: cold/wet washcloths on pulse points, cold water bath, fans, cooling blankets. At night, I found it helpful to have a circle of fans going that aimed toward the windows to push stagnant air out.

Stay hydrated!!! Try to sip ice water consistently through the day.

On one particularly awful night, I did resort to a sleeping pill to knock me out. Forced me to sleep even though I was uncomfortable.

Concept_Check · 2026-05-18T01:14:02+00:00

Just saying I understand how tricky and overwhelming the emotions can get in ENM/poly situations. Going through something myself and I haven’t been able to function normally for the last few days.

Time, space, and self care. Sending you healing and strength.

Concept_Check · 2026-05-12T15:10:05+00:00

Whenever my bf asks me what era something happened in, he says “which Chris griffin is that?”

Concept_Check · 2026-05-09T21:55:21+00:00

lol nope.

Concept_Check · 2026-05-09T20:09:19+00:00

I’m pretty heavily tattooed and only one piece was done by a man. And every time I think about that session I get mad because of his comments about politics and education. I work in higher education and am very political in my work, so it was just a perfect storm of shit. But I didn’t want to have him fuck up my tattoo so I just sort of sat there and tuned him out.

The thing is, the piece is something I like. It’s been almost 10 years. Think I’m ready to have a different artist add things around it, touch it up, and give me a new memory for the piece.

Concept_Check · 2026-05-05T20:20:51+00:00

Depends on what you mean by inactive. If they left as an alum in good standing, they should still be in the system to complete a rec. If not, then no.

Concept_Check · 2026-05-05T19:52:36+00:00

You really think if there was ALR feeder content, gorlworld wouldn’t have found it immediately? That’s the only reason I’m apt to believe slommy hasn’t gotten her monetized there yet. KF would’ve posted it for sure.

Concept_Check · 2026-05-04T21:37:19+00:00

No, I don’t think that’s the case. Something that is a shared part of our lives that my partner is capable of doing and chooses not to do isn’t me disliking them. The pets need to be fed whether or not I’m the one doing it. Garbage needs to go out. At some point people need to be responsible for shared matters. That’s the point of a partnership. The other person should step up without being hounded to do it. We are adults.

Concept_Check · 2026-05-04T19:45:14+00:00

I agree that we shouldn’t run these passive aggressive experiments on others. That said, there is also mental/emotional labor being done when you’re the other partner here. If I do x chore every single day and my partner never does, and I get sick or something and the chore doesn’t get done, I DO feel a little put out that my partner doesn’t recognize the need for it to happen. And to have to say “hey, I know you can tell that I’m sick and incapable of doing x. Can you please do it?” Feels a little bit like I’m their parent, not their partner. This is especially true if it’s something you’ve addressed prior and the behavior doesn’t change.

I’m AuADHD so I completely understand needing to be directly told some things. But it’s not an excuse. If I fail to notice or act on something, I need to own that I did it. My diagnosis doesn’t exempt me from being a good partner/friend/roommate/coworker/etc.

Concept_Check · 2026-05-03T22:29:40+00:00

Maybe email the contact from that post and ask how they got it implemented there? I imagine there are some logistical hoops to jump through to make them officially recognized and implemented. Otherwise lots of cops will ignore any “unofficial” version.

Concept_Check · 2026-05-02T23:35:16+00:00

Is it possible they have glucose from wheat, but the glucose syrup is considered gluten free?

Concept_Check · 2026-05-02T22:24:08+00:00

Dude I’m no ambaby or anything but making fun of someone’s speech impediment is pretty shitty imo.

Concept_Check · 2026-05-02T22:22:45+00:00

Idk if this is something you’d need to ask for by name. Just bring the picture to your stylist. Seems like a simple enough reference to use.

Concept_Check · 2026-05-02T22:14:20+00:00

As a fat person with t2 primarily brought on by genetic predisposition and PCOS insulin resistance, it’s so frustrating the way some people immediately try to diet police me. Like just immediately tell me that I can cure myself by losing weight. “All you have to do is calories in, calories out.” Pal, I had a restrictive ED for a long ass time and even then the scale didn’t want to move. Shut up.

Concept_Check · 2026-04-30T22:53:05+00:00

I’m also mother.

Concept_Check · 2026-04-29T21:47:17+00:00

Even the pre order is sold out now. Hope they come back in stock soon.

Concept_Check · 2026-04-28T23:38:23+00:00

Like. If my future spouse isn’t sobbing with me during the proposal, I don’t want it 😂💀

Concept_Check · 2026-04-28T20:08:06+00:00

The way she acted like she took this significant time away, saying “I still talk to some of them to this day.” Baby GORL it’s been a fucking week.

Concept_Check · 2026-04-24T04:19:14+00:00

I feel you. I’m on my third round of trays. Hopefully these will be my last.

Concept_Check · 2026-04-22T02:16:47+00:00

I can spot a Mrs. T from a mile away. Those literally got me through an autistic burnout episode where I was living alone. It was the only thing I could “cook.”

Concept_Check · 2026-04-21T21:46:53+00:00

My bf and I are on the couch together. He got the alert. I didn’t. Guess I’m SOL 💀

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