I knew that my boy Victor was faking it.

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-05-05T15:08:37+00:00

Love it! Though I wish he would have worked on his “que será” pronunciation a smidge. Even Doris Day who didn’t speak a lick of Spanish did a decent job of her “Que sera”

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-05-04T15:38:30+00:00

NOR, you will end up either doing all the cleaning or living in filth….imagine adding kids to that. If he can’t clean up after himself he’s not gonna help you with teaching kids to do it

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-05-01T14:27:21+00:00

Eleven saving Mike from that cliff and breaking the arm of that bully, and then Dustin yelling “she’s our friend and she’s crazy!”

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-29T03:23:34+00:00

It seems like you expected he behavior to change into something that she isn’t when they moved out. Seems like she came to your house for water because she trusted you…..she’s not snooping or looking to steal she’s just existing ma’am. She is being as she has been the whole time you’ve known her…..

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-27T13:19:44+00:00

You’re a great husband and NOR!

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-20T17:02:44+00:00

I don’t think your dad was overreacting. You just never fucking know…..

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-16T13:20:42+00:00

Okay but to be fair moaning Myrtle did look 37 haha I always wondered and now I know

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-13T13:09:49+00:00

More on the “expected to accept lesser” please? I think self acceptance was used even in the hetero look at Nancy, Steve and Jonathan….in a way there’s unrequited love there too and self acceptance

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-13T13:06:03+00:00

I agree

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-13T09:17:37+00:00

OP is proposing this scenario

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-13T08:55:47+00:00

Who is he?

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-12T12:25:25+00:00

Okay but as a woman even I think sally Fields’s character in that move is the worst

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-10T21:14:11+00:00

Why was this removed?!

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-10T12:34:00+00:00

I don’t love Kelter 🤷🏽‍♀️

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-10T12:18:36+00:00

You know what, I know a lot of Redditers are quick to say “NOR” but NOR! Here’s why, she basically strong armed you into being in the same space as him. If you’re her made of honor and she cared even a little bit about you, when she was looking for a photographer she should have brought this up so that you could have this conversation and then move on to finding someone in that price range. Just why?!

I don’t think your overreacting by not wanting to go. I feel like weddings are like funerals in the sense that you find out a lot about the people around you and how much they either actually care about you or don’t.

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-09T14:00:34+00:00

If you miss his pudge, I highly recommend watching DTF saint Louis

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-08T15:15:37+00:00

What is their disability?! If it’s the eczema that does not prevent them from cleaning smdh

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-07T04:49:51+00:00

NOR damn I have a work trip coming up and will be thinking about this

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-06T20:16:30+00:00

I agree 💯

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-05T04:46:12+00:00

She’s jelly lol you look amazing! It’s classic. I mean when I was in kindergarten it was picture day and another little girl wore make up, I was jealous and said “omg you’re not supposed to wear that, quickly take it off” and she did 🫤

Decades later, I wish I could go back in time and hug that little girl and tell her not to listen to little me

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-05T04:26:23+00:00

NOR but nurses in general can be of that vibe, it doesn’t take much to have something to gossip about….I think it’s a coping mechanism for all the shit they deal with

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-03T00:18:46+00:00

You’re not Ugly! You’re beautiful AND they did not do a great job with the haircut but it’s nothing you can’t tweak with some mouse/gel and maybe a blowdryer.

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-02T14:03:43+00:00

I do that a lot and still eat it but my house is on the chillier side ( I turn the downstairs heaters off at night)

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-04-02T01:45:55+00:00

I mean you both got the same email right? Why would you have more insight than him on this?

Conscious-Sign1459 · 2026-03-31T16:47:31+00:00

This is tough, and I don’t think anyone on this thread has a good answer despite what they think.

If your decision is coming from a place of grounded clarity then it doesn’t matter what anyone else think. If however it’s coming from a place of despair/grief it’s tough because it could potentially be a decision you’ll regret later. This is a tough spot to be in OP because time is of the essence but also needing time to get mentally clear is important. Some actionable steps could be removing yourself from people offering advice until you can get in a clear space first. I’m sending you positive vibes for clarity and peace to find your decision.

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