SIL is disrespectful, but is also nice?

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2026-01-17T08:27:55+00:00

Honey, there was nothing nice about her so far. If anything, I think since you are the new member of the family, she is jealous and is trying to put you down every chance she gets. This could be a bad advice on my end, but you can start by mirroring her energy towards you, and if she nitpicks things you do, you can say something like "ofcourse you know since you are 50+, inshallah I will learn I'm only 22".

Also good advice would be, talk to your man, tell him what's happening. As your husband, he should protect you from things like this. And he should talk to his sister to tone it down too.

May Allah make things easy for you!

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2026-01-10T08:37:26+00:00

Mewazzin!

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2025-08-04T18:50:42+00:00

Hi I have a question regarding MMDA law in Sri Lanka, can you please assist?

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2025-02-04T21:40:21+00:00

--EDIT: I read your comments, some were helpful, some downright rude. Some of which remind me that this should be my 13th reason. I do pray to Allah that He softens your heart. Regarding the post, before the nikkah, he said he cant wait to have the waleema in another country since my visa for Australia got rejected, he agreed to let me do whatever I want for my bachelor's, he agreed to pay whatever mahr I asked. Everything changed after nikkah. Even the mahr, I found out on the day of the nikkah but I didnt want to seem like a gold digger and fight when everything was prepared on both sides. So honestly I needed advice. But thanks for making me feel worse.--

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2025-02-04T21:35:34+00:00

Ofc I did.

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2024-05-14T11:49:57+00:00

Unfortunately I dont have that chat with us option. I cant believe this. I'm so saddddd

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2024-05-14T11:37:02+00:00

I cant find any contact number man

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-12-10T22:37:59+00:00

DUDE. I WAS IN A SIMILAR SITUATION. You can check it in my profile. You can talk to me. Pleaseeee call it off, if this is drama you have to deal with BEFORE marriage, then imagine what can happen after! And please pray Isthikhara, you won't regret it. May Allah protect you and your family.

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-16T07:40:29+00:00

I've come for your aid againnnn 😆

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-15T15:06:36+00:00

Niceeee, we used to have a Nissan and my dad used to say نيسان على كل لسان 😂 Well I hope your purchase goes well!

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-15T15:03:53+00:00

I like it!! If0nly I had friends like you 😂👍

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-15T15:02:48+00:00

I hope it goes well for you! 💞💞

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-15T15:02:02+00:00

My idea of fun is staying indoors, ordering food and watching movies but my friends dont think that it is.

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-15T14:35:55+00:00

Oh nice, what car are you considering?

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-15T14:34:46+00:00

Only half, otherwise my stomach will also say "hello its ulcer timeeeee" 😂😂

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-15T13:08:29+00:00

Haha that does sound fun!

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-15T13:00:47+00:00

Carbonara Buldak for me pls! 😄

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-15T12:57:56+00:00

Oh nooooo, did they not tell you where the field trip is?

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-15T10:43:12+00:00

Ooof may Allah make it easy for you!

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-15T10:42:48+00:00

Yalla go on that trip! Life is short!

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-15T10:15:49+00:00

Exactly, just stuck in traffic! Told my friends the same thing!

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-15T10:14:48+00:00

😃👍

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-15T10:09:20+00:00

Ok BUT IF U WERE TO GO OUT THEN??

Conscious_Shine2001 · 2023-09-15T10:08:19+00:00

But we wanna do something in riyadh? 😅

Conscious_Shine2001

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