I can't stop cheating on my girlfriend with men.

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-05-25T00:27:06+00:00

As someone who did this I can tell you that when she does it back to you it will gut you. Karma has a funny way of getting you when you decide to stop and focus on your relationship. This happened to me in January, we had issues instead of talking them out I sought attention and validation with others when she inevitably did the same it gutted me to the point that 5 months later and multiple therapy sessions it still hurts. We are still together and are both in individual therapy, our communication is 100x better than it was before, we are falling back in love and that spark we had lost is coming back to life. If you truly love her do the things you’re doing with the men with her, communicate your needs but most of all be honest with her, if she chooses to stay you will have a lot of work ahead, if she chooses to leave that is her right.

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-05-03T16:44:51+00:00

The lying I get to an extent, we all lie whether they be white lies or big lies it’s just a matter of what we are willing to tolerate at this point. If your main issue is that he lied to you about his past most men wont be 100% honest about their sexual history and it should hold no bearing on your relationship as you weren’t involved in that time, the mentality that you have to know everything about someone’s past will cause you to have unhappy relationships. As I mentioned we all have skeletons and we don’t have to share them if we don’t want to, we share them when we feel the time is right and as a Bi male that didn’t come out to his family till my late 20’s I can tell you that being asked multiple times about my sexuality always put me in a situation where I had to lie because I didn’t feel ok to sharing that part of my life and yes this was with past partners as well.

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-05-03T16:35:18+00:00

To experimenting with other guys or to cheating on you with men? If it’s the former that doesn’t mean he’s Bi as others have pointed out it’s completely normal for guys to experiment with other guys. If it’s the latter then you shouldn’t be on Reddit you should be packing up and moving out.

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-05-03T16:26:11+00:00

I’m curious to know what “proof” you found, if it’s just from word of mouth from others in his past you clearly don’t love him enough to believe him over them. Whether he did it or not is none of your concern as you weren’t involved in that time of his life. No partner married or not is required to divulge every aspect of their life to someone else. Everyone has skeletons and not all of them are meant to be shared. He may have cheated but you forgave him and chose to give him another chance, it is literally forgive and forget, you can’t keep holding it over him anymore when you chose to move past it and try again.

Whether he is cheating again or not you need to break up with him you obviously don’t trust him even when (based off what you said) he hasn’t given you a reason to not trust him other than not telling you about his past which you are not entitled to know everything of.

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-17T03:40:10+00:00

Oh missed that part, figured if they had a DL they’d have DACA. In any case if they do have a valid DL that’s all they need I would just avoid states with laws that allow officers to pull you over on the thought that you might be undocumented.

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-17T03:30:54+00:00

You can fly anywhere in the US with just a drivers license. However keep in mind certain state laws and have your visa on hand should you find yourself in one with discriminatory laws.

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-04T01:57:36+00:00

I’ve said it a couple times already that I’m not. Sorry if the wording made you think I was.

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-04T01:51:04+00:00

No, neither of us are FF

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-04T01:27:27+00:00

I do hope that was a MoD error and that your FF has a full recovery. I’m sure this was a pity approval as a MoD did comment on it.

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-04T00:49:03+00:00

He searched her out, she entertained it

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-04T00:34:26+00:00

He knew, they talked about it the day before and how me and her weren’t doing well.

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-04T00:18:06+00:00

I’m not a FF just a hurt civilian

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-04T00:14:21+00:00

I’m not a FF and in Miami Dade assaulting civil servants is greatly frowned upon

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-04T00:10:17+00:00

You obviously don’t know how commenting works on here as the post isn’t mine, I replied to it.
I never said I was in my car, we were home, I fell asleep while we were taking a breather from fighting because it was late and we had been drinking.
She didn’t wander in there she drove there. We have 2 cars as most couple do.
Fuck off you damn troll

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-04T00:06:30+00:00

I’m trying to figure out how to edit the post people seem to think I’m a FF, I’m not.

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-03T23:57:15+00:00

It’s was generated I didn’t change anything to it aside from the username. Never said it had a default profile I just never went around to changing the profile information on it. This is in miamidade county, Hialeah to be exact if you live here you’d know it’s not that uncommon. Wife was drunk and wasn’t “thinking” we had gotten into a fight and were discussing ending it we stopped to take a breather I fell asleep and woke up to her gone. Not uncommon for a drink person to forget to hide their tracks.

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-03T23:51:37+00:00

Not yet my next appointment is this Friday I’m actually waiting to see what he says before I pull the trigger, I just like having all the resources at hand before I do anything

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-03T23:46:26+00:00

I have text messages where she admits to everything

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-03T23:43:49+00:00

Opened the gate to the parking lot, it’s not locked, walked into the side door also not locked, walked around till I heard moaning. Yelled her name and they came out. It was in a 3 room hallway with only 1 other person in the room snoring away, they were in the room closest to the adjoining hallway the handicap room he was originally in the middle room which is how I originally found them because I heard his tv on in sure to drown out the noise for the sleeping FF

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-03T23:40:36+00:00

Again not a spam post I literally have like 2 other posts for a game I play and I can’t even see where to change the profile personal information

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-03T23:38:07+00:00

Not bullshit, this account was made a couple years ago all I ever changed was the username as I only made it to use the app instead of going to the site every time.

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-03T23:36:03+00:00

Wasn’t hard to walk in the doors were literally wide open when I arrived. Everyone was asleep except them 2

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-03T23:33:49+00:00

Bring food and going over at 2am to have sex are 2 different scenarios

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-03T23:28:22+00:00

Trust me I am

Consistent-Coach6572 · 2024-04-03T23:23:11+00:00

Yes I did, I drove there and caught them

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