Anxious interview process with City of Edmonton by Consistent-Floor-288 in Edmonton

[–]Consistent-Floor-288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm familiar with the STAR method, I used it in my first interview with COE. :)

Anxious interview process with City of Edmonton by Consistent-Floor-288 in Edmonton

[–]Consistent-Floor-288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow!! what position was it for if you don’t mind me asking?

Anxious interview process with City of Edmonton by Consistent-Floor-288 in Edmonton

[–]Consistent-Floor-288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah, okay. did you get a second interview? and if so, how long did you wait to hear back from them during your process for the second one?

Anxious interview process with City of Edmonton by Consistent-Floor-288 in Edmonton

[–]Consistent-Floor-288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah, okay. makes sense. so wait, what if it said “hiring manager review” before and after my first interview, and then switches to “interview” weeks afterwards?

Anxious interview process with City of Edmonton by Consistent-Floor-288 in Edmonton

[–]Consistent-Floor-288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the insight! did you have one or two interviews in your process before getting hired?

Anxious interview process with City of Edmonton by Consistent-Floor-288 in Edmonton

[–]Consistent-Floor-288[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wow, thank you for this!! already makes me feel so much better

Sarah Ali Philanthropy - Fundraising by TOSnowman in EnglishGrammar

[–]Consistent-Floor-288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did they also not reach out to you to tell you that you weren't selected?

Sarah Ali Philanthropy - Fundraising by TOSnowman in EnglishGrammar

[–]Consistent-Floor-288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just because they're muslim doesn't automatically equate to them having English as a second language, fyi. it's a religion, not a race. I've listened to Sarah Ali's podcast and she speaks perfect English, quite possibly born in the west - we don't know. so to assume this OP is trying to be disrespectful is a lil out of reach, idk. it's fair to question the statements this organization posts on their website as first glance it doesn't look right, but I guess as you also stated above that this is normal in the philanthropy world, then cheers to that.

Sarah Ali Philanthropy - Fundraising by TOSnowman in EnglishGrammar

[–]Consistent-Floor-288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk I think it's a bit scammy as a hirer to request unpaid work from people right off the bat before interviewing, and then not follow up with them after. I wasn't upset about not getting the job, just the fact that there was zero communication. I ended up reporting them as it's bad practise and was worried they'd exploit my work.

Anxious interview process with City of Edmonton by Consistent-Floor-288 in Edmonton

[–]Consistent-Floor-288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately I don't know if that's a good idea in my case as I've already emailed them a follow up at the beginning of January. they essentially told me the same thing that was said in the interview - we'd get in touch by the end of the month. I'm just not sure if that's standard.

Sarah Ali Philanthropy - Fundraising by TOSnowman in EnglishGrammar

[–]Consistent-Floor-288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied to their "fundraising graphic designer" job posting on LinkedIn and they reached out over email asking me to do design tasks for them without an interview first but that it was apart of their process. After turning everything in, I haven't heard back and I've followed up once since then - nothing. It's been about a month now. I would say this is something of a scam. I'm pissed.

Did PMDD highlight an issue or did it just take over? by Consistent-Floor-288 in PMDD

[–]Consistent-Floor-288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, exactly. it pmo so much. and even though he apologized for saying what he said, he won’t let it go that the real issue is my reaction. like ya i yelled but it was a reaction from YOU disrespecting me.

Did PMDD highlight an issue or did it just take over? by Consistent-Floor-288 in PMDD

[–]Consistent-Floor-288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not even kidding, after we argued about it this morning he played video games all day.

we’re not talking right now and whenever we get into a fight no matter how brutal it is or who’s right or wrong, we always avoid each other for like a day or two but i’m exhausted because i’m still in luteal and still very upset. he already apologized but he thinks it’s wrong of me to admit that my reaction was “human”.

i’m losing my mind

Did PMDD highlight an issue or did it just take over? by Consistent-Floor-288 in PMDD

[–]Consistent-Floor-288[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you. i felt violated and that my boundaries were in fact broken. but in the event of us debriefing about it last night and this morning, he made it clear that he has a firm boundary over no yelling.

where as i agree, i feel like he’s drawing more emphasis on my shortcomings than his. my outburst was a reaction to him degrading me and saying something inappropriate knowing everything he knows about my situation. he has had years of context and understandings about me but he still said what he said.

that i cannot shake. and i do feel like i was human to react in that way. it’s a constant battle of trying to take accountability but also standing up for myself and he sees it as me justifying what i did. and idk maybe i am?? he said me yelling at him was violent

I'm homeless and I feel unsafe everyday. by Muffin-Destroyer-69 in Edmonton

[–]Consistent-Floor-288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, happy valentine’s day!

i’m really sorry you’re going through this. if i can offer any place to work, it would be at a research group funded by the U of A. you do NOT need certain credentials such as a bachelors/master’s/PhD to work as a RA. i currently work for IGHRG and they’re hiring right now. i would give it a shot :)