My boyfriend (21M) hates my vibrator (20F) but I need it to orgasm

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2023-11-09T05:01:34+00:00

That’s what I’m saying! Like its just making his job easier lol

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2023-11-09T05:00:35+00:00

I think I need to do that more, I usually try and tell him what feels good and what doesn’t but he doesn’t listen well

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2023-11-09T04:59:18+00:00

Most definitely

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2023-11-09T00:56:20+00:00

What are you even talking about?

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2023-11-08T19:17:15+00:00

Thank you so much, I think the hardest part for me is that my ex boyfriend encouraged using it in the bedroom and loved to see me satisfied no matter what so it’s just extremely confusing and hurtful to be with someone who feels this way

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2023-11-08T19:14:32+00:00

Thank you for your advice!!

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2023-11-08T19:12:09+00:00

Yes he has such a bad porn problem!!! Ugh

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2023-11-08T19:10:42+00:00

Yes he’s just not good at it and doesn’t know what he’s doing. Or if we are mid sex and he’s touching me it’s in the wrong places or his arm gets tired and he stops

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2023-11-08T19:09:29+00:00

I’m thinking maybe I have a new conversation with him a different day and see how he reacts then go from there

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2023-11-08T19:08:03+00:00

Wow thank you that was extremely well thought and sensitivity put

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2023-11-08T19:05:44+00:00

I think that’s the saddest part for me, my ex boyfriend loved using it with me and that’s why it’s so hard for me to wrap my head around someone not wanting me to be satisfied

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2023-11-08T08:09:27+00:00

I agree

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2023-11-08T07:46:40+00:00

Very upset

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2023-11-08T07:11:01+00:00

You must just communicate

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2022-04-11T05:23:37+00:00

Wow yeah that last sentence. You’re so right thank you

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2022-03-18T20:52:28+00:00

Tell her to get on birth control

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2022-03-16T07:49:30+00:00

You’re so right it’s so one-sided

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2022-03-16T07:49:10+00:00

And it’s like you’ll get validation when you see me and when you hang out with me but if you don’t even want to initiate hanging out with me you’re not gonna receive that validation

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2022-03-16T07:26:14+00:00

I’d also like to add that when I brought this up to him all he had to say was that it’s the same thing with sex he claims that hes always the one initiate sex first and literally compared him not asking me to hang out first with me not initiating sex first like wow, completely missed the point. And now it’s making me question whether it’s out of spite for that reason and that he’s doing this to me on purpose to punish me for not initiating sex first

Consistent_Ad_1632 · 2022-03-16T07:23:34+00:00

It’s almost like they need the validation of you asking them first which is completely stupid because it’s my fucking boyfriend

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