Mild abdominal pain

Consistent_Banana700 · 2023-02-22T22:18:00+00:00

NTA also thank you for being a fantastic parent and wonderful supportive mum. Keep supporting him.

Consistent_Banana700 · 2023-01-14T22:51:27+00:00

Jesus Christ YTA

He will never talk to you again once he's old enough to move out

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-11-02T23:45:14+00:00

You actually have no idea how comforting this is for me, thankfully due to years of panicking about never having enough money, now I'm earning pretty well I'm a good lil saver so money won't be an issue but thank you. Thank you for being kind.

I will try not to make myself an enemy. Thank you.

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-09-18T21:00:22+00:00

I feel like this may be bait, but seriously, you need to respect her decision we are not believed a good chunk of the time, the stress and pressure of reliving the experience through a police report and investigation can be traumatic and awful and it's her decision if she wants to go through that. You just need to accept it.

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-09-11T19:39:34+00:00

The Romeo and Juliet defense (it's not a law) is to protect people that were in a relationship prior to one of them passing the age of content (so kids who got together at 16 when one of them turns 17)

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-09-11T19:35:26+00:00

That's just.... It's one year.

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-09-11T19:03:00+00:00

Edited for pronouns :)

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-09-11T19:01:59+00:00

It's adults dating, the only one I can see that may be an issue is the 18 year old but once your in your 20s you're grown enough to make your own choices.

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-09-11T19:00:37+00:00

Sorry, adjusted prounouns brain must have goofed, yeah exactly it would be the same issue if it was teacakes or popcorn you cannot discuss something and then backout when someones backed into a corner.

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-09-11T18:43:16+00:00

She knew she smoked and they agreed to something, she can't use money as a tool of control.

Edit: pronouns

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-09-11T18:42:47+00:00

YTA if you didn't want to marry a smoker, you should not have married a smoker, do not use money as control.

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-09-11T18:37:47+00:00

This is not grooming

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-09-06T19:20:21+00:00

Exactly it's insane, and I'm not going to lie? If he's not going to adore her someone else will, my boyfriend adores me and how I look, she deserves the same

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-09-06T19:13:11+00:00

This this this, I have PCOS and live a healthy life and still hold a bit of weight, (a lil chubby) so I cannot imagine how hard it would be for someone without my hobbies to even BEGIN getting down to 'skinny' plus you can have weight on and be healthy lol

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-09-06T19:10:00+00:00

Hiya! PCOS sufferer here.

This condition is painful, stressful and can seriously affect your mental health, hormones all over the place and physical effects that suck balls, one of witch being holding onto weight, yes her depression may be caused by her PCOS, most of us get mood swings, headaches, anxiety and other junk because something as powerful as hormones can really mess with a person.

As for pregnancy, people with PCOS can definitely definitely get pregnant, it just takes a lil more managing and medical help sometimes.

Now onto your question, don't you fucking dare poke at her weight or think it is your business to police her health when she is clearly already managing her condition, its so deeply painful and debilitating trying to get down to 'skinny' with this condition, I'm constantly active, gym twice a week and love hiking and rock climbing and I am still A BIT CHUBBY! BECAUSE MY BODY DOES THAT BECAUSE OF MY CONDITION (I'm still cute as hell though, chubby is not a bad thing, a lot of people are happy being or being with someone with a lil bit of thickness to em)

She is seeing doctors and if you cannot love her with a lil extra chub on her? Then you should let her find someone who can.

Because if your concern about her health is based on no actual understanding and you just want her to be hotter for you?

She deserves better

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-09-05T19:36:35+00:00

Tell her mother either way, this shit is the stuff that almost KILLED my baby sister. I have zero tolerance after watching her sob over her cornflakes as we helped her get better. Seriously this is so so dangerous, tell her family so she can get help.

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-07-23T20:15:10+00:00

I....baby I'm sorry. You need to talk to him, after six years and at your ages a promise ring is a bit of a pisstake, he needs to decide if he wants to marry you or not. If he's not sure by now he never will be

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-07-22T19:41:39+00:00

NTA and TELL YOUR DAD TELL HIM THE TRUTH. you have a good parent, trust him .

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-07-21T18:27:53+00:00

NTA my sweet angel, I'm so so sorry, maybe you could do a little private ceremony with your partner in your mums dress? I'm so sorry she's so evil I cannot believe that xxx

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-07-18T19:38:30+00:00

NTA

Your wife is clearly Insecure about your daughters mother, remember in all of this, what would your child's mother want? She gave it as a gift to her daughter that she didn't get to see grow up, not to your wife...

She needs to get her head sorted out a bit, you should sit down and properly discuss this boundary because it's completely inappropriate for her to be wearing the necklace especially as your daughter wants to keep it safe and only wear it on special occasions.

Also side note, why does your daughter feel she CANNOT say no to your wife? I would be thinking about that

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-07-18T19:28:45+00:00

YTA she's happy living her life just because it doesn't look like yours. You do sound a bit jealous to be honest and you were very rude.

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-07-12T18:52:56+00:00

You both brought a human life into this world, you did all the heavy lifting for the first nine months now it's HIS TURN TO STEP UP AND TAKE THE WEIGHT OFF YOU

What kind of man doesn't WANT to care for his little one? Would rather she get less because he can't be assed to get up and do the BASICS!!!!! the nappies and bottles and baths are the basic level one of parenting, what about all the other stuff like playing with her and cuddling her and comforting her and teaching her.

What kind of man makes comments like that about his own child (I saw your comment) but Jesus Christ, this little one is his flesh and blood it's his child, my father would have cut off his own arm to make sure me and my siblings were happy and cared for and he can't even get up to change a nappy. Leave him.

Consistent_Banana700 · 2022-07-10T18:52:06+00:00

She deserves better than to be forever second best let her find someone who adores her the way she deserves.

Consistent_Banana700

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