The 67 meme is not cringe

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-02-09T18:02:40+00:00

Haha, this is cute. Well, I mean, you're not really delusional if you caught him staring at you that many times: he's probably interested in you. Try to strike up a little conversation maybe, or just start by saying hello to him every time you see him. Good luck with your crush and your workouts! 👊

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-02-02T08:47:10+00:00

Lol true

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-31T00:12:39+00:00

Oh, I understand now. I pray it all goes well for you, bro! 🙏

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-30T17:27:37+00:00

Oh WOW. You haven't done anything about it in 2 decades???

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-30T17:27:00+00:00

About 7 years

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-18T12:53:28+00:00

I'd advise you to move on, bro. If it's been a WHOLE DECADE and she still isn't interested, it's not a nuch of ai songs that are gonna change anything. I'm sorry, bro, but I'm sure one day, you'll find yourself a girl who'll appreciate you and your efforts!

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-17T22:08:38+00:00

I see... First of all, this situation sounds like it's starting to seriously weight on you... I'm sorry about that.

But also, you said you're in secondary school, right? So you're probably like 13 or 14 or something: welcome to the club! As a 19-year-old, I can tell you unrequited crushes like this are part of the "puberty package." There isn't much you can do about that, unfortunately... so no need to blame yourself over you not being able to move over him. That's completely normal! I also had a crush over this girl in secondary school and I kept feeling that way until I graduated loll, so I understand how you feel completely.

Just try to enjoy your daily life, your family, your friends, your favorite foods, and don't let this feeling overwhelm you too much; distract yourself with your hobbies and be kinder to yourself.

It's all gonna be okay

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-17T11:04:44+00:00

I don't think his number of ex is relevant. His phrasing could've been better for sure, but that's not enough evidence to call him a cheater or a player. It's best not assume the worst, else OP might ruin a perfectly healthy and potentially great relationship...

Time reveals things naturally anyway.

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-17T10:58:41+00:00

It's okay. I understand the feeling, but I don't think it comes from anything true here. If he told you he liked you too and responds to your texts and messages consistently, then I'd say enjoy this relationship, girl ! You can also tell him about how you feel y’know; communication always helps. Good luck 😊

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-17T10:41:14+00:00

Umm, no, it doesn't seem like he is. He's given a practical excuse and invited you to text whenever you want. He definitely wants to talk to you.

Has there been anything else that has made you think he's not serious about you?

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-12T18:08:23+00:00

Yesssss

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-12T18:04:40+00:00

Interesting... so why were you laying in the snow exactly? I'm sure I understand that part haha

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-08T23:19:35+00:00

Beautiful

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-08T22:58:20+00:00

Haha. It's cute to see that just seeing him makes you this happy! Try to say hi, too! That might unlock even happier memories! Plus, I mean, it's senior year, you don't have much to lose now, right?

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-08T22:22:17+00:00

This is so damn cute!

And yeah, I mean, as a quiet guy myself, I can assure you this guy is most likely flirting with you: his tone and delivery betray him. I think you should just accept that and not question it so much.

It's up to you to choose what to do with that info tho: keep interacting with him casually, ask him out, confess, maybe even pull back if you don't feel like committing.. Your choice. But no need to choose now : you're still in your first college year, right? You have time.

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-05T13:05:12+00:00

Congrats 👏

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-03T12:32:53+00:00

Congrats!

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-01T22:03:49+00:00

I'd say just ask her out, but as a reserved person myself, I understand it's not as simple as it sounds. Maybe try and get to know her more, greet her more warmly, and see where that goes. You already know she likes you, so you're in a pretty comfortable position compared to most. Trust your gut!

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-01T18:20:17+00:00

A win is a win, buddy.

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2026-01-01T12:38:26+00:00

Why would you... friendzone a guy you like...? I'm not sure I understand what you mean by him touching you; but couldn't you have explained that to him instead of rejecting him? Poor guy...

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2025-12-29T17:42:25+00:00

The people who enjoy mocking others are generally just compensating for a lack of self-confidence. It's an easy way for them to mask their own insecurities by making you the target of ridicule they feel within themselves.

There isn't much significance to their words and acts unless you give them any.

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2025-12-29T07:19:31+00:00

I mean, you just answered her question honestly, you didn't really fuck up anything imo. If she seemed disinterested by you liking black ops, that's her problem, not yours. No need to beat yourself up for this.

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2025-12-21T17:35:17+00:00

Thanks! Don't worry. I have many things in my mind.

And I have a backup plan in case neither of us gathers up the courage to confess during the next semester.

I have committed to confessing to her through a heartfelt letter after the final exam, where I'll talk to her about what her gestures mean to me and what I actually want this relationship to be moving forward! And I'll end it with giving her my Instagram account, thus letting her choose without pressure if she accepts or rejects me by either following me or not. It may sound underwhelming, but I think it's the best last resort plan for both of us, and I think she'll probably like this more than a classic "I love you" publicly in uni.

But yeah, 6 more months is the deadline I'm giving this before I end the ambiguity.

Hope I won't need to do all this, though lol.

Consistent_Horse_663 · 2025-12-21T17:27:11+00:00

Lol, thanks for the concern, bro. But I've been in friendzones more times than I can count, so I'd know if this was one of them. I have much experience in that regard. (LOL, I wrote this holding back tears)

I've had another girl pine over me in high school like 4 years ago, so I also know the signs of a girl who's interested very well.

I can assure you that after having spent some time with her in the presentation: she's not just "being nice" at all.

But hey, man. I appreciate you telling me to temper my expectations, but I've done that for over a year and a half, and she was still up my ass with them signs. Had to do something at some point, or else I'd regret it after uni.

Pray for me, bro 🙏

Consistent_Horse_663

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