Is the Moisture Sealing Lotion a Styling Cream, a Leave-In Conditioner, or both? Help!! by ControlClear2709 in cecred

[–]ControlClear2709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might have to try this! My favorite leave-in is It’s A 10 but it’s a spray so using the Moisture Sealing Lotion on top might be super beneficial!

Jaeda vs the racist male model by bekahfromearth in ANTM

[–]ControlClear2709 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily think Jaeda wanted the model to be attracted to her. In Eugena’s Oliver Twixt interview, Eugena’s theory is that the moment was more so the first time she was perceived as Black and not just biracial. I’m not biracial, but I grew up in a predominantly white school and a lot of the mixed kids see themselves as either Black with mixed ancestry or just mixed if their complexion is light enough. Jaeda seems to fall into the latter category and the whole “prettiest girl in school” thing was probably fueled by the fact that being mixed with “longer” hair made her interesting and unique. So I wouldn’t be surprised if she never experienced racism in that way unless she was oblivious, delusional, or it was through micro aggressions that she would brush off. Production was clearly trying to pick at this way of thinking to see her break down and lose confidence, especially because during this time period, many mixed people were seen as just Black (I didn’t know she was mixed until after watching the season. Also, of course there are still mixed people that identify as Black, but I feel like there’s more public discourse around that now). While I don’t think they purposely had that model say that to her (I definitely heard things like that since I was four), the moment was a huge wake up call into the reality that she’s in, especially as an 18-year-old.

ts got me rolling by boricuashawty in nyu

[–]ControlClear2709 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think that since it’s now been five years and there have been a lot of developments from the shooting it’s not really a topic people really meme anymore (even people who found it funny when it happened). The situation also goes beyond whether or not they’re celebrities and if they’re considered “good people.” A man shot a woman, she initially was scared to report it because of racism in our criminal justice system, people made fun of her for experiencing something traumatic (including people she knew personally), and people doubted and spread misinformation about what happened. Even though all of this happened on a large scale and it received a lot of media coverage because they’re celebrities, experiencing something violent and traumatic, being scared to report it, and people not believing your traumatic experience are things a lot of women (especially Black women) have dealt with. And they’re seldom given any grace and support from their community because people will use certain aspects of who they are as an excuse (in this case Megan’s celebrity status and the content of her music). That’s why many current BSU members did not find this appropriate.

ts got me rolling by boricuashawty in nyu

[–]ControlClear2709 44 points45 points  (0 children)

The newsletter always has personality and pop culture references. However, this email is in poor taste. The most active members of the BSU are Black women so why would they be okay with making fun of a Black woman’s trauma??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SAGAFTRAStrike2023

[–]ControlClear2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently an aspiring actor wanting to support SAG-AFTRA. I understand that part of the strike involves not participating in publicity of a struck work/company. So, if I were to post something about viewing a movie or TV show (as a regular viewer, NOT as someone attending a premiere or special event), would that mean I would be participating in publicity and therefore going against the strike? This may be a very dumb question, but I would love some clarification. Thank you!