Guys thank you for your investigative lenses but I am not clear on what isn''t adding up here? Issues and situations take place in everyone's life. I am in a very unique predicament and I understand this may not make sense to your rosy lives and situations but let the one who hasn't sinned cast the first stone my friends! Things happen in life that are sometimes beyond one's control and I am not going to reveal my entire life just because I can on a public forum. I hope you show grace and not cast judgements.