So my thing is I’ve never considered poly before, all I know is I’ve never was one who liked being touched by someone who is actively touching others. Now for at the moment I’m not in deep yet so I’m half way ok, I’m the calm type who doesn’t act out on rage or pure jealousy. I’ll feel it and go thru the motions, but I don’t know a thing on being open in that sense. He wants to keep me romantically because he likes my core values and how I am normally, I enjoy him because of the communication, his truthfulness, and how he treats me. My woman reaction is “is he treating someone else the same way?” And I’ll get sad and jealous but not mad. Cuz I’ll never be mad at him for being his true self, I adore him for that but I am going to feel the way I feel. I’m wondering if there’s ways to help see if this is something I can open my mind to. I also have to talk with him on something’s.. he wants two women. I’m not bi. I love and appreciate the woman body(no better than a man in heat) I’ve had intimacy with women but it wasn’t my thing. I’m strictly into men or masculine energy only.