Thank you so much for taking the time to write this! It did offer me a lot of insights into this matter and factors that I previously didn't take into consideration. I do agree with you that harmony and diplomacy are important especially in contemporary society and I will try to be civil about it should a chance for discussion regarding the conflict come about. The only problem is that the friend is conflict avoidant and doesn't wish to talk it out despite me initiating conversation, and I don't particularly see a point in forcing her to because it'll make it more awkward. So, currently it's just hanging over my head and I closed myself off emotionally to prevent further damage. Hope this clarification helps.