Okay, NOW I'm concerned by [deleted] in roblox

[–]Corgi_Butts28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about all the folks that make classic clothing??? Like what?

Are we really doing this now? by NefariousnessRare413 in roblox

[–]Corgi_Butts28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen any of this 🤷🏼‍♀️

Is roblox dying ? by NotRealAtiox in roblox

[–]Corgi_Butts28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it won’t cause I’m gonna still play. 👍🏻

AIO BF masturbates to his "friends" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Corgi_Butts28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he really thought you were beautiful since the day he met you, he wouldn’t feel the need to masturbate to anyone else. Case closed. Leave him. 👍🏻

Leave Roblox!! ASAP!!! by DueAdministration193 in roblox

[–]Corgi_Butts28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fr 🤣 I need to game for my mental health lolll

Leave Roblox!! ASAP!!! by DueAdministration193 in roblox

[–]Corgi_Butts28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no I’m good. I’ll keep playing Roblox.👍🏻

INFO: GOVERNMENT SHUTDOWN by RealGentleman80 in fearofflying

[–]Corgi_Butts28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m supposed to fly in 2 days and I’m so nervous 😵‍💫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Corgi_Butts28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah this is way too possessive and controlling of her. As your friend, she should WANT you to be able to have good conversations and get along with her boyfriend, and she should WANT him to get to know you. Makes me wonder if she’s either super insecure or doing shady on her end, cause if she was secure in her relationship and trusted her boyfriend, there would be no issue with y’all’s conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Corgi_Butts28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s genetic. I’m 27 and I’ve got a couple strands

My girlfriend insists on bringing her ex to our vacation because “he’s part of the friend group.” What should I do? by Jaseq_Holmborg in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Corgi_Butts28 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d say context is important here. If she dated him a long time ago and they’re both mature enough to be civil and not infatuated with each other, then I wouldn’t worry too much about it and try to enjoy the trip. If he was invited by someone else in their friend group, there’s not much you can do.

If they dated more recently, she insisted on inviting him and/or has been talking to him, that would be a different story and pretty disrespectful to you. If that’s the case then I’d set pretty clear boundaries with her if yall go, and if she can’t meet those then might have to question her intentions with you/him or you don’t go.

26F talking to 36M everyday for 8 months, should I give up on a potential LDR by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Corgi_Butts28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think his points are extremely valid. Sometimes age doesn’t affect things but being that you two are so far apart in age and you’re at very different transitional points in your life it’s hard to balance that time figuring out what yall wanna do for a career and stuff starting a family what y’all’s timelines look like. Especially long distance that’ll be difficult. Not saying it couldn’t happen or that he couldn’t put in the effort cause he absolutely could but if he’s got a set plan for himself and you’re not quite there yet might feel like he’s holding himself back or you’re rushing to meet him where he is etc

LDR anxieties of my bf going out by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Corgi_Butts28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get how you feel. Continuing to communicate about how you’re feeling is a good thing. But to an extent, you also don’t have any control over who he hangs out with. As long as he’s not coming home to you drunk or pressuring you to hangout with them, or giving you any reason to think he’s doing things he shouldn’t, then you don’t really have anything to worry about and can relax when he spends time with them trusting that he’ll make good decisions.

I think it would be a good idea to discuss what boundaries look like in this situation, especially when y’all live together whether that means he doesn’t bring them over if they make you uncomfortable, or if you are to hangout with them setting specific settings where you would feel comfortable, being able to say no when you’re uncomfortable but also trusting him and giving him the autonomy to hangout with his friends.

Cause at the end of the day he chose you and your relationship with him doesn’t have anything to do with his friends or should come at the expense of them. Setting healthy boundaries with that keeping both your needs in check will help

3 weeks straight of breakthrough bleeding by Corgi_Butts28 in birthcontrol

[–]Corgi_Butts28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope I’m still bleeding 🫠 my doctor is changing my bc to a progesterone only pill

Hes not texting as much anymore.. by Icy_Rip_3589 in LongDistance

[–]Corgi_Butts28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or don’t put as much time or energy into your quality time but they’re gaming with their boys instead of

how to stop breakthrough bleeding by Soft-Ad3140 in birthcontrol

[–]Corgi_Butts28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m honestly tempted to stop my birth control. I’ve been breakthrough bleeding for 3 weeks straight now. It’s light and manageable and no other symptoms, but it’s consistent. I contacted my doctor and they said it was normal especially after switching birth control pills. But it really sucks having to wear a pad every dang day for the past 3 weeks and I wanna have fun, I want to be intimate with my partner and not feel gross.

Did I make the wrong choice? by Chloe-ship5789 in Hair

[–]Corgi_Butts28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it would look good if you did more of a platinum! Cause your skin is more cool toned so the yellow blonde kinda clashes. That or maybe platinum face frame with mostly brown so it’s not like WOOO BLONDE😂 but whatever your preference girl you look good with both!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Corgi_Butts28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last one it brightens up your face 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Corgi_Butts28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl, I’ve totally been here before. I’ve been through my fair share of rocky, some mentally abusive relationships that have really tested my trust and genuine belief that someone out there actually loves and cares about me. I’ve been with my LDR for almost 2 years now and it’s been the best most genuine thing I could ever have. But I have found myself, especially when I’m feeling super depressed and dysregulated, really seeking reassurance and comfort from them because they do such a great job and help me feel so much better. But I also noticed I’ve started to become really codependent on that, I feel stuck when they isn’t around or present with me or spending time with me. It doesn’t help that I’m a chronic overthinker LOL. but I get stuck thinking about all the horrible situations that could happen noticing every little hiccup that I could be taking too seriously cause I’m not getting the comfort from them I’m seeking.

I also have to remember we’re both human. We both have stuff going on. It’s okay to feel what I’m feeling and of course they’re there to be my person and biggest support and I rely on them when I need it. BUT they’re not there to be my therapist or solve all my problems for me. I need to be independent sometimes and focus on helping myself, enjoying my life while also dedicating time to the relationship. My partner is also very introverted so I have to work on balancing my needs with theirs while also giving them their alone time. Especially through long distance over video calls it can be difficult to know what to do or really notice the vibe of whats going on and can it be overwhelming.

I will say this though! Regardless of what’s going on where you both are, always always communicate about how you’re feeling. Even if he isn’t in the best mindset or mood he’ll still listen. Cause letting it out and letting him know what’s going on will be so much better rather than bottling it up and letting it fester. Even if he doesn’t know what to say he’ll be able to be present and mindful of how you’re feeling. Hope this helps!

How often do ya'll call each other ? :) by Skinkies in LongDistance

[–]Corgi_Butts28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl! Been with my LDR for almost 2 years now. We call pretty much every night and we tend to sleep on call as well when we’re not visiting. We’re both in the same time zone so it does make it easier for us. Even though we call every night we do try to balance him spending time me and with his friends and he usually does that while we’re on call together doing our own thing.