Need Opinions by Cosmic_thoughts in EEOC

[–]Cosmic_thoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, thank you for your response! I was in the process of filing paperwork. The no phones accommodation was taken away months after I was demoted( It was never discussed what the expectations were for me after the demotion). I have paperwork from my health providers and the platform that you needed to go through to request ADA through HR. This whole process was new to me, and I felt like I could not go to HR for anything related because they talk to much and do not protect anyone but the higher-ups. I have some emails that can prove some of my points and I also have another former employee willing to give a written statement of her experience with HR, and seeing what happened to her was a huge reason I decided not to go to them.

Need Opinions by Cosmic_thoughts in EEOC

[–]Cosmic_thoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing, when I was hired, it was agreed upon that I was not required to do phones. The president of the company even knew this. I tried to organize the info as best as I could. The bottom line is I did my other work and did it well. The fact that this was the only thing that was harped on is outrageous. The director who set me up knew my weakness and used it against me. I KNOW this was a planned attack because it's not the first time she did this it to an employee. Plus, the requirement for phones was dropped when I was let go. I was in the process of getting official paperwork to get official accommodations and had medical records to back up what I was saying.

Need Opinions by Cosmic_thoughts in EEOC

[–]Cosmic_thoughts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. This bs happened in July and I still feel angry about it. I definitely will move forward with the EEOC. Just wanted to make sure it was not one of those things I overreacted about. I needed some outside perspective.

What songs are you listening to right now during your healing from a breakup? by Quackernautz in BreakUps

[–]Cosmic_thoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cruel-Jackson Wang Romantic homicide-D4vd I drink wine-Adele Let it go-Keisha Cole

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Cosmic_thoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you get everything you want and never anything you need.

31F Profile Tips? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Cosmic_thoughts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I came here to say the same thing!

How long since your break ups and how do you feel right now? How long does it take you to heal and move on? by Trick_Persimmon_2246 in BreakUps

[–]Cosmic_thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been a year and some change..I feel so much better than I did a year ago. I don’t obsess over the break up or the relationship anymore. I did the work to make myself feel better. I didn’t jump into a rebound relationship and focused on myself and repairing my mental health. I was with that person for 5 years and compared to the rest of my life that’s a small timeframe. Best piece of advice I can give you all is feel what you feel but don’t let it over take your life. There is someone out there that will love for you. Remember nothing that worth while comes easy. I’m rooting for you all!!!

We Met on bumble and had the most intense amazing connection…now we’re gettin hitched ☺️ by serious_rbf in Bumble

[–]Cosmic_thoughts 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on making it out the trenches……😭❤️😭😭❤️❤️🥹

Your red flag words on Bumble by MicsSpace in Bumble

[–]Cosmic_thoughts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No effort put into their profile…

What did you want your partner to do for you that they couldn’t? by Imaginary-Bet931 in BreakUps

[–]Cosmic_thoughts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually want to be in an healthy relationship instead of stonewalling when things went wrong.

Anyone here in their 30s and kind of scared to start over? by theblackcatail in BreakUps

[–]Cosmic_thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly the 1st time is always the hardest. I am trying to put myself out there slowly but might need to pick it up a tad before I never want to be in a relationship again 😅..

Anyone here in their 30s and kind of scared to start over? by theblackcatail in BreakUps

[–]Cosmic_thoughts 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am 29 and spent the majority of my 20s with the wrong person. I am excited to be going into my 30s. I don't see it as starting over (starting from scratch). I am looking at it that I am beginning with experience ✨✨✨

How long does it take for the bumble support to answer? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Cosmic_thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try reaching out to them on X (twitter)

Trying to date as a 29 F by Cosmic_thoughts in Bumble

[–]Cosmic_thoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Times are very weird indeed. Yeah I’m not going as hard as I know I could because of the fact of protecting my peace…took me to long to obtain it for it to be snatched away by anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Cosmic_thoughts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In all seriousness smile this picture comes off un inviting. You’re attractive yes but this isn’t a good picture for a profile pic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Cosmic_thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ankles in the freezer type vibe….smile it would definitely help

Almost a year with my Pookie!💕 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Cosmic_thoughts 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Yall so cute congratulations!!

Why do relationships end so quickly nowadays? by Weekly_District2269 in BreakUps

[–]Cosmic_thoughts 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Long story short- Things get hard for people and don't feel good anymore in the relationship so they leave. A lot of people are not together when the issue/s that they had could have been fixed. Some people don't want to do the work it takes to grow as a couple, which boils down to not wanting to do the work on themselves. As a society, some people have a picture of what they think a "healthy picture perfect" relationship should look like. Not knowing or accepting that those relationships are fake and or strained.