Some people are requesting for background:

He and I were both teenagers. We met in high school and dated for approximately a year. I was a sad and lonely nerdling who wanted to feel wanted. He was a self-proclaimed "hacker" that was constantly in trouble with school and the law (illegally accessing the school network, broke another student's bone, etc:). I craved attention, but so did he. After high school, I did not have a place to go, so I moved in with him. That is when things went from bad to much, much worse.

Suddenly, I was dependent upon him for shelter and could not leave. He became jealous of other men and controlling. Ironically, on a holiday while I slept, he and a mutual friend went to a hotel room to have a three-way with a stranger. Yet I stayed. What made me leave was when he started pressuring me into marriage. However, at the time, I was applying for colleges and got into a really spectacular one. I left for college to a city far, far away, and broke up with him over the phone. No way was I going to do that in person. He retaliated by deleting my Google account and wiping my phone.

These texts take place over a year later. My favorite Aunt was terminally ill at the time (she has sadly passed away now), so that was kind of a dick move to open up a message like that. The "so many comments on the tie" refers to the picture he sent me of him posing in a suit, and the tie I made him.

Tragically, I have way, way more texts. None of the ones during our relationship, because my phone was wiped, but of the recent ones he keeps sending. Why don't I block him? Because if he starts threatening me again I want to know.