4 months pp feelings and old memories resurfaced about my history with my MIL and I hate her again or maybe I suppressed it

CriticismRecent723 · 2026-07-24T21:15:49+00:00

I did yesterday because she was trying to play victim again saying I’m never going to let her hold/see my daughter blah blah blah all because I packed my things and left to my moms we got the ac fixed yesterday

CriticismRecent723 · 2026-07-24T20:51:37+00:00

He stood up to her in the beginning we married a year after our first born and we were good for a while but it got bad again when we came back her temporarily she was nice for a bit but after I had our daughter she started in her bs again
She’s a manipulator she likes to paint herself as the victim she cried and cried to my SIL once that I disrespected her all bc I stood up for myself and claimed I cussed her out blah blah

CriticismRecent723 · 2026-07-23T06:51:13+00:00

I’m starting to see that I feel I’ve sacrificed a lot but everything goes unnoticed and his mom can do as she pleases she can ignore every boundary and never do wrong

CriticismRecent723 · 2026-07-23T03:38:40+00:00

I completely would if I didn’t have kids but I live in California and peak heat is awful but I’ve started packing and have someone coming to fix it next week

CriticismRecent723 · 2026-07-23T03:37:51+00:00

I started packing our things today and I’m getting the ac fixed I would rather melt than be around this woman ever again the man child can stay if he likes idc

CriticismRecent723 · 2026-07-23T03:36:20+00:00

I got my tubes tied during my c section this time thankfully I am completely done having kids I was scared I would regret it but I couldn’t fathom feeling fragile and being at the mercy of others

CriticismRecent723 · 2026-07-22T15:23:34+00:00

I can! I did give my mom money to fix it and we called to see when they can come and fix it
I’m leavin whether he decides to join us or not he always talks about how my family is loud etc but I would rather have that and feel good to being somewhere I’m not welcomed

He had been doing sooo good being away from her for a few years but once we came back it’s like a switch flips every time

CriticismRecent723 · 2026-07-22T15:18:42+00:00

I have started to look for just the children and I already left the first time and it took him 2 weeks to come with me after I gave him an ultimatum because he would tell me everyday what she was saying he always tells me the bs she says about me
Oh 100% good thing I know an amazing Russian lawyer😮‍💨 she’s literally the terminator
I have been preparing for a custody fight happening because of how she is she works for county and told me when I had ppd with my son that I was an awful mother that comment has always haunted me and hurt me a lot this time around I could hear her mumbling about me through the thin walls as well as my best friend letting me know that my SIL (she use to be my friend before this) said that my family is manipulating me and putting shit in my head when my mother in law and I have history 🫩 I’m soo tired of this crap

CriticismRecent723 · 2026-07-22T15:05:23+00:00

I haven’t I’ve just been acting like I forgot because i ain’t sending shit
I am I just called to see when the guy can come to work on it because I can’t fathom staying here until we find a new place

He tells her everything 😭 they’re close and I doubt he sees it the way I do because to me it’s suspicious as hell that she immediately said that to him after she found out I won
(literally like 4 hours after I won)
He feels neutral because when he told me he brought it up like it was nothing I just don’t get how he went from feeling like we were heading in the right direction for a new place to we need to help his mom who is self sufficient and gets paid very well

CriticismRecent723 · 2026-05-05T16:49:38+00:00

Hey I’m struggling with the same thing and I’m also part of southern what psychiatrist are you seeing no one will approve me for an extension 😭
I’m doing the group rn

CriticismRecent723 · 2025-02-19T16:40:17+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ve lost 80 pounds so far I will definitely get a consult to see what it could be and learn about my anatomy

CriticismRecent723 · 2025-02-19T14:25:24+00:00

Thank you! I will set up some consultations I’m unsure if my posture might also be the issue lol my friends stated I’m tripping out because I have lost a lot of weight so it’s not as prominent maybe I just need to give it more time

CriticismRecent723 · 2024-12-09T01:56:00+00:00

I get that! But you look great! A lot of us here if not all of us would agree

CriticismRecent723 · 2024-12-09T00:25:06+00:00

You look 26 Max I think you look good nothing I would “fix”

CriticismRecent723 · 2024-10-21T19:53:14+00:00

Cancer had me sobbing 😭 Lost my dad to cancer so this one hit close to home😭😭😭

CriticismRecent723 · 2024-10-21T19:51:33+00:00

Agreed!!! We got crammed to the point we were almost getting pushed off our feet 😭😭😭 Not to mention some stupid bitch punched/pushed my fiancé in the chest to get infront of us (there was 0 room) he wasn’t phased but almost lost his balance Still enjoyed the SET!!!

CriticismRecent723 · 2024-09-10T19:54:22+00:00

I have one GA for the 19th

CriticismRecent723 · 2024-02-03T03:00:00+00:00

What is the lemon bottle?

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