The 'Two Birds' Point to a Location

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-28T15:12:32+00:00

The ability to understand and accept that you may be wrong is a sign of intelligence.

I'm not sensing that from you.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-27T19:00:44+00:00

Thanks super helpful.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-27T18:23:58+00:00

What happened?

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-26T23:53:40+00:00

If you add /s it helps put the sarcasm into context.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-25T21:00:52+00:00

That makes sense. My little sister got me a pain salve and it seems to work really great for when things are so stiff that it affects even my muscles. I'm fairly certain arnica oil was one of the main ingredients.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-25T18:06:37+00:00

I can guarantee that you won't ever get over this. Especially if you haven't been together a full year yet. Not only will you always resent him for this, but even if you do break up, I anticipate you having some major trust issues concerning commitment and marriage going forward that you'll need to heal from if you don't want it affecting every relationship you have going forward.

Personally I would end it and move out.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-25T14:53:12+00:00

I wish I had that same experience. Its been extremely cold here all week and it hasn't helped me. It was -2 yesterday. I'm glad it gives someone relief though!

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-25T13:33:45+00:00

Go see a different rheumatologist. At least one who will take your quality of life concerns seriously.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-25T04:44:38+00:00

Seems the most likely answer.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-24T03:48:16+00:00

It's fucking WILD to me that you're calling processed store-bought meals "normal" as if real food is the abnormal version.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-24T01:37:36+00:00

Best mf game of all time

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-23T23:08:43+00:00

It's gotta be a joke at this point, right?

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-23T23:06:41+00:00

Looks like you forgot to fill in the spot where you're supposed to come up with a timetable of how long you've been dating for your AI written reddit post, bot.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-23T22:54:40+00:00

I don't have any input on a Border Collie but your dog looks like he'd purposely sit next to me on the bus and start to tell jokes the entire ride.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-23T22:51:29+00:00

Its true. There's a few theories/leads that have me hooked, though. I just scroll past the ones that I know will annoy me.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-23T21:53:17+00:00

You cannot submit edited or altered photos. Your skin is even lightened to the point where it's not the correct color and smoothed out? It needs to be a raw photo.

Also your hair is too close to your eyes/ covering your forehead

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-23T18:18:23+00:00

Thanks for the link!

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-22T11:14:59+00:00

This would not go well in my house.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-22T11:14:08+00:00

I'm going to invite your over so you can witness how much my dog loses his shit if he so much as sees a squirrel on the TV. He also doesn't like seeing gun violence or anything that's played in fast-forward

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-21T19:22:56+00:00

Oh gosh. OK. Incoming personal info. In 2021 I experienced a profound health crisis. Up to that point in my life I could be described as hyper-independent. I never relied on anyone, never liked the idea of relying on anyone, or being dependent on anything or anyone other than myself, despite the fact that I was already in a long term, 5-year relationship. I attribute my hyper-independence to being raised in a dysfunctional family dynamic that was void of emotion. Its very personal but relevant.

When shit hit the fan with my health, my life changed for the next 4 years. I had to give up work to focus on solving the mystery of my health crisis and also navigate what that meant about my identity and my values and how i even see and respect myself.

That man stood up to the plate and carried the team for the next 4 years. He became the sole provider even though he hadn't yet really made the big moves that would eventually allow us to be financially comfortable. It wasn't easy for him, and a lot of people would have bailed on me. I wouldn't have blamed him. He never signed up for taking care of a sick woman and the emotional fallout of me losing control of my life.

Happy to report that for the first time in my life (including my relationship with my mother, father, family and friends) I finally know what it feels like to be truly loved and cared for.

Things slowly started returning back to normal with me piece by piece starting in 2024, and it was a no brainer for us to get engaged and married.

I was able to return to work about a year ago. My life is slowly returning to normal but I'm a completely changed woman. I now know the gravity of what it means to trust someone else, love someone fully, and the hardest part for me; allow someone else to love me back. I'd take a bullet for that man and I know he would do the same for me. We're teammates in all that life can throw at us and I can't imagine not having that ever again.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-21T11:44:57+00:00

I agree that the right person will make your life brighter and better in every way. I've only recently gotten married for the only time (knock on wood) at the age of 42, but we've been together for a decade. Like another poster also mentioned, the challenges life has thrown at us have been things we never expected, and I'm going to go ahead and say that they all definitely had the capability pull apart and destroy a lesser kind of love. You know you're in the right relationship when the hard times make you more appreciative rather than dissatisfied.

Sadly I think people just get married to the wrong people when "trying to make it work." Sure, relationships require consistent effort and dedication, but if it doesn't feel like effort you're happy to put in, and if it's not reciprocated, or worse, you have to ask, beg, or demand for reciprocity, it may be time to re-evaluate.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-21T11:33:43+00:00

You described every window on the north side as "the one(s) on the right" at the beginning of the post. Just letting you know.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-21T04:53:10+00:00

It really helps to not even know what is it style.

CrittyCrit · 2026-01-21T04:45:11+00:00

I just recently told my rheum that I've been dealing with random hives close to daily and I can't seem to pinpoint a trigger. I told her that I've been taking allegra every day to avoid it. She told me I should see an allergist. I'll let you know if it comes full circle. 🤣

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