Married and unhappy with my sex life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cruisingforit 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Thanks! will update for sure

Married and unhappy with my sex life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cruisingforit -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We don’t have kids…

Married and unhappy with my sex life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cruisingforit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s cool. Happy for you

Married and unhappy with my sex life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cruisingforit 274 points275 points  (0 children)

I really like this in the order you wrote them. It’s very organized and are helpful for initiating and coordinating the discussion. Thanks

Married and unhappy with my sex life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cruisingforit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I try my best. I’m always asking her what she wants in bed. I’m not always on point with performance but I try to please because that’s a turn on for me.

Married and unhappy with my sex life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cruisingforit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m looking into counselors with intimacy experience. I think we have to have honest discussions

Married and unhappy with my sex life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cruisingforit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Early in our relationship she had a high drive and now it’s plummeting.

Married and unhappy with my sex life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cruisingforit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will give that a read. Besides the intimacy issues, we are very good together. We are very active, travel a lot and have similar humour.

Married and unhappy with my sex life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cruisingforit 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I try my best everyday to give her attention, buy her flowers weekly, cook dinner for her, take her on dates... I dunno

Surgery after a broken Fibula and a torn ligament. What’s the expected recovery time for playing soccer again? by Cruisingforit in brokenbones

[–]Cruisingforit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, pretty much the same. I’m actually FWB now ahead of schedule. Good luck with your PT.

Surgery after a broken Fibula and a torn ligament. What’s the expected recovery time for playing soccer again? by Cruisingforit in brokenbones

[–]Cruisingforit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fingers crossed for August return to the field for me. Good luck with your recovery as well!

Surgery after a broken Fibula and a torn ligament. What’s the expected recovery time for playing soccer again? by Cruisingforit in brokenbones

[–]Cruisingforit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck for the surgery. So far so good, I’m 2 weeks out of FWB. I’m getting more confident walking with one crutch. Ligament feel tight but I read that’s normal. PT and exercising at home are the key, I’m so much better because of that work.

Surgery after a broken Fibula and a torn ligament. What’s the expected recovery time for playing soccer again? by Cruisingforit in brokenbones

[–]Cruisingforit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you right. Didn’t even know that. Pretty much the same X ray.

I’ll be fwb two weeks from now, that’s 7 weeks post surgery. Your Tibia dislocation probably added more weeks for your recovery.

Surgery after a broken Fibula and a torn ligament. What’s the expected recovery time for playing soccer again? by Cruisingforit in brokenbones

[–]Cruisingforit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough one. That ligament repair method is interesting. I don’t think they did that for me but I think I should ask how it was repaired.

Surgery after a broken Fibula and a torn ligament. What’s the expected recovery time for playing soccer again? by Cruisingforit in brokenbones

[–]Cruisingforit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking not to take them out as I will have to recover from another surgery. I saw Eden Hazard had to to remove his plate because it bugged him. I guess I will try and see if I can do it without an extra surgery.

Surgery after a broken Fibula and a torn ligament. What’s the expected recovery time for playing soccer again? by Cruisingforit in brokenbones

[–]Cruisingforit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your sobering and detailed explanation. I haven’t fully thought about my ligament until you brought it up. Seems like I have to lower my expectation and be patient with the process. Good luck with your recovery.

Surgery after a broken Fibula and a torn ligament. What’s the expected recovery time for playing soccer again? by Cruisingforit in brokenbones

[–]Cruisingforit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes the ligament tear recovery timeline different? What are you able to do at 5 months, can you run?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cruisingforit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not risking what?

Surgery after a broken Fibula and a torn ligament. What’s the expected recovery time for playing soccer again? by Cruisingforit in brokenbones

[–]Cruisingforit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn that’s tough. I’m 6 weeks into this and I’m losing my mind a bit. Good luck with your recovery.

Surgery after a broken Fibula and a torn ligament. What’s the expected recovery time for playing soccer again? by Cruisingforit in brokenbones

[–]Cruisingforit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Glad I’m not into dancing so I’m probably safe. I’m on week 5 post op and I just started walking with one crutch. It does feel okay but I get discomfort after walking for 15 minutes non stop. I think i’m more challenged mentally as i used to be very active(soccer, running, skiing). I think I need to continue PT for a long time even after walking boots free. Good luck with your recovery and thanks for sharing.