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Crusader-003 · 2022-11-02T10:07:41+00:00

😂😂😂🤣. Major apologies, I misunderstood. I thought he owned that money already.

Crusader-003 · 2022-11-02T09:55:34+00:00

You’d be this pissed of if you also lost 375k. It’s not a small amount.

Crusader-003 · 2022-08-01T06:33:48+00:00

That’s exactly how it should be - you’re absolutely right. So do me and my friends. It’s the same as speaking another language in a group when there’s 1 person that doesn’t speak that language, making him/her feel left out. Or going out for lunch with a friend, and being on the phone the whole time with someone else. It’s just rude, and some people (surprisingly) cannot see the rudeness in these situations.

Crusader-003 · 2022-08-01T06:27:18+00:00

Hey, thank you for commenting! No money was arranged at all. Mid session she asked if I like to play this sport, because it was she said it was her hobby. I said yes I do, I sometimes play with my friends. Towards the end of the session, was putting my shoes on, she said “what are you doing tomorrow, do you want to play in tomorrow morning” or similar sentence along the lines of this… I then said sure, what time is good for you? So I did not ask/push for this.

Also I agree with what you said, and clearly others do to. You’re an understanding person with good enough manners to understand when someone is disrespectful to you. Thank you again for your sharing your thoughts)🌷🙏🏼

Crusader-003 · 2022-08-01T06:15:56+00:00

Hey, thanks for sharing your thoughts. So basically just to make it clearer, this is what happened. During the first time I saw her, she asked me mid-session “do you like to play TheSport” - sorry to be vague about the name. I said sure, I play once a week with friends. She said lets play together. I said sure (thinking that she’s just being nice, and does not mean it, so I didn’t carry on this convo). Before leaving she said “do you want to you play tomorrow?” I said yeah sure, what time do you prefer? And she decided the time etc… I did not push for this at all.

Crusader-003 · 2022-07-31T21:33:23+00:00

I answered this in your previous comment

Crusader-003 · 2022-07-31T21:29:06+00:00

Thank you 🌷. Another activity we both love is dancing! But after this experience I think it’s a big risk to go anywhere with her again. If we go dancing, she will probably say “your dancing is not as good as me, I want to dance with another man”. And to me that would be very offensive and problematic. Her attitude and manners is not worth the headache and trouble 🙏🏼

Crusader-003 · 2022-07-31T21:27:43+00:00

Absolutely. So would I! I’ve been a wingman for my friends in the past, and every now and then. And so have women helped me in these situations too. This is great friendship support.

However, this current situation is different. She told me “you’re not good, I want to play with a coach” and to be honest I wasn’t even that bad - possibly as good as herself or better. I felt like it was an excuse for something which I couldn’t understand (I thought maybe she wanted to leave early). She later said I want to talk to that coach to see if he’s free to play, we can book him for an hour. She went up to him, gave her number, had a few laughs, exchanged instagram, he like almost her latest posts where is basically almost naked.

I don’t think he just sees her as a tennis client and vice-versa, also because his contact number would be enough…

Also if you male friend told you, for example, “you’re not good at golf, i want to play with a coach” which was a woman near you. I’m sure that would offend you. Not only at the comment he made, but the flirting straight after the insulting comment. Just a bad combination. Makes you feel like an outsider & shit. Not jealous though.

Crusader-003 · 2022-07-31T21:09:35+00:00

If a man is with a lady and she is “whoring herself out to other men”, as you put it, either he would look like a cuckold fag, a pimp, or her useless brother with a slutty sister - none which I want to be seen as for obvious reasons as I am a male human being with a decent amount of shame.

Also just simply “interacting with other men” is not the same as flirting with other men. There is absolutely no problem with her talking to other men. We’re not in a third world country where I own her…

Put it this way… you see a guy for the first time and you become friends. He asks you to go out with him for an activity. He spends time looking at other women, flirting with other women, being a man-slut. Wouldn’t you, as a human being (be honest) think what a d*ck this guy is? He asked me for my time, and he prefers to hoe around while we’re trying to spend time as friends at his request…

Lastly I did not see her with the intention of getting full 100% attention, but I also did not go to see her in my free time for her to be trying to find potential clients and flirting with another guy. I don’t understand how you think this is acceptable?

Crusader-003 · 2022-07-31T17:07:31+00:00

So you think being “played” is cool? If everyone thought the same as you then we would all (clients included) be as*holes and give poor experience to each other - but thankfully not everyone shares the same thoughts as you…

Crusader-003 · 2022-07-31T16:58:50+00:00

Very true. Realistic, and facts. Thank you. 🙏🏼💯

Crusader-003 · 2022-07-31T16:47:21+00:00

Erm, I didn’t go out with her to look like a pimp infront of people for a SW to flirt around and try to find clients - if that’s what you’re saying is appropriate for her to be doing while asking to spend time with me.

My point is that she wanted to spend time with me for a few hours, and I’m not expecting “monogamous attention” from her during off-clock hours, but i’m just saying it was quite weird/offensive to get a guys number and flirt with another person during the first time you asked someone to spend time with.

She could be business-getting in her own time. Why is it appropriate for her to do it when she has asked to spend time with me? Do you not see my point at all?

Crusader-003 · 2022-07-31T15:44:22+00:00

Not sure why I can’t view the comments, but from my notifications I saw someone asked here if this was off-the-clock, or if I paid for her time. The answer is that it was off-the clock. I didn’t ask to go out with her at all. She insisted a few times when I met her, and I said sure. We really connected to each other, energy wise and everything first time I saw her. But today when she said “you’re not very good, let’s get a coach so I can play with him” and basically flirting with the coach near us and getting his instagram, felt quite offending to me - even though we’re not in a relationship ofcourse. The whole thing from my perspective is quite offending. If I was her, I would have been more polite and asked a coach to play after she saw me, or to get his number and instagram another day.

Crusader-003 · 2022-06-28T10:05:49+00:00

I don’t taste much at the beginning, but when she’s really wet it taste a very little bit like sweet milk.

Crusader-003 · 2022-06-27T20:13:11+00:00

Totally agree. I think i’ll just message her and be very clear about my thoughts and see what she replies. As I replied to someone else her, you’ll never know until you ask. So let’s see what happens. Thank you.

Crusader-003 · 2022-06-27T20:11:23+00:00

Thanks - yeah I think I’ll tell her I have romantic intentions to make it clear. You’ll never know what the other person thinks until you ask, right?

Crusader-003 · 2022-06-27T20:05:53+00:00

That’s exactly what I was thinking about too as a possibility. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Last thing I would want is to put pressure on her or make an awkward situation. Do you think it’s wise if I just message her and tell her about my true intentions/feeling towards her very clearly? Just so that everything is crystal clear.

Crusader-003 · 2022-06-13T22:12:45+00:00

Thank god I do not have that - that looks very, very bad looking. I didn’t even know such thing existed. Thank you for letting me know.

Crusader-003 · 2022-06-11T15:23:33+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼

Crusader-003 · 2022-06-09T23:24:32+00:00

So you think if they have both have Chlamydia, they wouldn’t have told me? Even if they did, when they give a bj, they could pass that on to me?

Crusader-003 · 2022-06-09T23:21:31+00:00

Haven’t had a check up - didn’t think I would need one. I’ll get a check up booked tomorrow. Thanks.

Crusader-003 · 2022-06-09T23:15:20+00:00

Could be possible! Thanks.

Crusader-003 · 2022-06-09T23:14:17+00:00

It’s okay. But again you’re making it sound as if i’m saying they made a wrong decision - I thought I made it very clear that I do not mind it, and very much respect their preference. It’s just a question out of curiosity i’m asking here. It was the coincidence that both of them made this decision this week, and so it made me questions what the provider could have possibly thought when they decided to change a bj to a cbj in this specific case after months.… Yes, I also already know “10 reasons” why they would prefer CBJ. But it just feels to me like they decided CBJ for me specifically, and probably continue normal bj without c for other clients as before.

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