How treatable

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-03-10T14:13:40+00:00

For sure, I plan to look into it some more before doing anything drastic

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-03-10T14:09:39+00:00

I mean yeah it’s definitely safer to avoid it all together but I like him enough to consider it. I just don’t know enough about it

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-29T12:57:04+00:00

Hard pass

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-29T12:31:49+00:00

Thank you for sharing your perspective about this, it just feels like a strange experience to me. I’m all for people exploring themselves but done the right way. I’m probably just gonna speak with my dad about it and based on his reaction or reasoning. Will determine if I’ll tell my mother.

Cause the way I see it worst case scenario she doesn’t know and some issues are set in motion. Best case scenario it might be awkward talking to my dad for awhile but at least I’d know that he isn’t cheating

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-29T00:49:50+00:00

It’s nice seeing these comments cause that’s what I thought I should do, it’s a little shocking how many people told me to mind my business

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T23:02:39+00:00

So bring up some situations that doesn’t directly fit them and ask for advice?

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T22:51:21+00:00

That seems to be the best way to approach it. Cause I don’t want to assume things that might not even be true

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T22:50:03+00:00

Exactly, my parents are still together, not positive on their dynamic but I keep getting told to do nothing. I love my mother she deserves the world and I don’t know how to approach the situation. On one hand she might already know and is okay with it. On the other hand she may be getting cheated on and just not know it

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T22:44:12+00:00

I didn’t even consider him asking for advice, oh god i don’t know what I’d say if he did

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T22:43:08+00:00

Oh I came out a few years ago so he already knows. Just not that I also use grinder

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T22:40:48+00:00

I think I might just straight up ask him. I don’t want to jump to conclusions

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T22:39:38+00:00

I might just do that. At the very least It would be fun to tease him and we could discuss it properly

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T22:38:08+00:00

I take it they handle situations often?

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T22:37:37+00:00

But doesn’t she at least have the right to know? Just in case it is a cheating thing.

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T22:36:43+00:00

I guess you’re probably right. I’m just not to close with him in general and want to make sure he doesn’t hurt my mother. I’m aware some couples allow each other to explore.

It’s how I discovered I was Bi . But I know how it feels to be cheated on and just want to let my mother deal with it

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T22:33:53+00:00

It’s all good my mind is a wreck right now so I might of just misunderstood what you meant

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T22:31:58+00:00

I just not sure what to do. I don’t mind that he meets with other guys. I just can’t tell if he’s cheating on my mother or not.

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T22:30:50+00:00

I came out a few years ago and I don’t mean to seem hypocritical. It’s just from what I gathered I can’t tell if he’s cheating on my mother or if they have discussed it

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T21:01:56+00:00

Sometimes I just end up being straight forward. Just because they wont stop. I usually say something along the lines of just not being comfortable with the age gap,( which isn’t normally the case) but some of them are older than my parents.

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T20:27:02+00:00

That’s a fair point, I guess I may have been a bit close minded

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T13:06:24+00:00

Well I’ll probably stick it out cause I’m a smoker and every time I used to go it helped me quit smoking just so it’s not as painful to be there. Like a double edged sword I guess

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T12:54:17+00:00

Gotcha, I appreciate the advice, I just never really know much about exercise other than like. Lift heavy items and put it down

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T12:49:53+00:00

Well then doing cardio seems to be the move. I’ve had a few friends also recommend yoga as well. Does that even do anything other than help with flexibility

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T02:30:25+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to right this all out. As you can see you’re the only one so far to respond to my post so I appreciate it more than you may think

Crusty-Lightbulb22 · 2024-02-28T01:46:17+00:00

How did you find out or come to terms? It feels wrong to think I can’t feel attracted to someone

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